Stopped smoking weed/ Experiencing Premature Ejaculation

Mane all ik is dat... Wen I was smoking marjuanna everyday and banged a girl I started cumming faster Dan ever!! After a couple of strokes!! I was sooo mad I knew it had to be the weed bcuz I wasn't like dat at first!! It happened with me wit a few diff girls! So wen I had to stop after a week I was back to my ole 60min performing self!

Is there any answer to this? I suffer the same issue. I've smoked pot for 23 years, since I was 16 y.o. so I've never had sex while not a user. I've quit smoking for short periods here and there and have had this any time I stopped. It's honestly what drove me to go back to smoking everytime. I get the worst possible, over before it starts. I don't get over it after a few weeks or months. I saw the other guys post - 4 months and worse than ever. I saw the other guys solution was to vape a little everyday. That's no solution, i just can't go back to smoking I have to get my head together. Has anyone ever got over this? I've already lost my marriage. Am I ruined for women for life?

Okay. Reporting back. (I was the last to post) have learned a few things. Quitting weed isn't the cause. Quitting weed leads to anxiety and depression. The anxiety and depression contribute to the PE. also, it is usually 100% mental and when you become concerned you have this problem it become a self fulfilling prophecy. Relax, address your anxiety and depression. (and I don't mean pills, relax and fix what you can in your life) and don't stress about it. It can get better with no drugs or tricks or anything. Not that anybody is reading, buy next time somebody has this problem (thinks they have this problem) maybe they'll find this thread like I did and find this encouragement that I didn't. Stay off the dope, you will get over it.

It has had the oppositte effect on me. I have a lot of difficulty ejaculating after smoking pot. I am a daily user and have been cutting down a lot the last week, which has made it worse.

Due to prohibition we know very little of how cannabis really affects us so don't go assume cannabis is the cause, it could very well just be your penis or your mind bro...I also smoke everyday and find I stop for like a week somewhere along the line to see that my penis has difficulty getting hard, staying hard and not coming prematurely...only to find it comes back on its own even stronger with a vengeance ...it's like drinking coffee Daily to wake up, if you stop or slow down you find its harder to stay awake...this is just one of many hypothesis out there.. Keep calm guys, more research and money is going into balding and ED problems than most life threatening diseases...

you just save me from a full on freak out. I have been a heavy weed smoker for 4 years and have been off the smoke for 5 days and even the slightest tug is getting me off this really put my mind at ease.

Totally happens to me too. No weed and I'm a two pump chump. It sucks. It's a mental thing. It's all about being relaxed and weed relaxes me.

Same thing just happened to me about 20 minutes ago, I felt so f*****g embarrassed cause I told the girl on how long I could last, little did I know that quitting weed seems to effect this some how, I've been off it for about a week now and have felt fine but notice that I cum a lot quicker even when I'm not having sex... Felt that relived seeing these posts though! I legit put it in and about 30 seconds later bang she was all over, before quitting I could last around an half and hour to an hour, I was a pretty heavy smoker and quite young to be smoking everyday if that changes anything? Would like to see the scientific reasoning to this.. But I'm very glad I'm not just the only one having this problem.

Did it worked are you back from town!!?

If I were to use basic logic myself, without any scientific evidence backing me up here. I do believe, that it has something to do with our body detoxifying (THC) through our urine. That said, it's quite possible it can numb/paralyze our penis muscles down there.

Personally I've been on and off weed multiple times, while experiencing the very same thing. Within approximately month of no smoking, and with some wanking excerises, I'm actually back to being confident and functional again. Atleast this is my personal opinion, and it seems rather logical, once you see it from this perspective.

Do remember that if you really want to improve, you can speed up the process of removing THC by 70% with a healthy lifestyle and a correct diet. Knuckle up.

- On a sidenote. If you ejaculate prematurely, ask your girl if she likes fingering, fisting, being licked, whatever the f**k. Chances are she wont care so much if you make her orgasm otherwise.

Goodluck.

I'd been smoking weed hardcore everyday for the past year and after 1 week my orgasms have become insanely good! Like yeah orgasms high are amazing but only at the beginning, when you smoke everyday it just loses its effect. Having quit now my orgasms last like 5-10 seconds longer than before quiting and its actually one of the main things that keeps me from smoking!

I keep telling my Man it is the weed. I'm pissed!

Agreed! So glad there is a conversation about this. As a very occasional cannabis smoker, I feel the same way. There is something here, 100%. I've suffered, off and on, from PE for 15 years. I live a super stressed life and this is something I want to stay on top of. I've tried many different techniques, including a low dose of anti-depressant (don't suffer from depression) Although I found these effective, side effects were terrible – dry mouth, and this weird "cloudiness" stayed with me for a day or two after - I can't use these anymore. Sprays work to some degree, but not ideal. Other breathing techniques, not ideal. Certainly alcohol works, (whiskey for me) but not healthy. I fully agree with the cannabis solution. Something here that the medical community has to embrace. Cannabis causes my body to work the same way. I just last, no better way to describe it. I feel more relaxed and in control - similar to the antidepressant dose, but with no side effects. And just to repeat, I've never been a big pot head and typically have never smoked a ton of weed.

I agree with the one post, not only does it help you relax, but it must have something to do with our selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors or SSRIs, and what the THC does to them. Because I'm such an extreme occasional smoker, I'll don't even know if sativa or indica would work better – my guess is one will work better than the other, but I have no idea. And agreed, for those heavy users who have quit, I've had success with a smaller dose of cannabis, usually from a vape, and yes, approx. 30 min before my wife and I "get it on".
So my advice for you, would be to stay clean, stay off any regular doses from your habit, get your tolerance for cannabis way, way down (like mine) and then, once it's not so much a part of your everyday life, introduce a small amount of weed (if you find you're still suffering from PE) Much of the time, once you overcome it, you won't need cannabis anyways, but from time to time, PE comes back, and it's nice to know you have a solution.

As cannabis is now becoming legalized in Canada, I've decided I'm taking it upon myself to find what strain will work the best with a minimal dose and minimal side effects.
I hope my POV helps, all your comments certainly helped me realize there is something here. And any articles that say the opposite are usually linked to "men's health clinics" who specialize in PE and charge $350 a visit!

Hey guys, I'm a bit late to comment on this thread but after overcoming this problem i just felt i had to share my thoughts and possible solutions on the matter. First of all I'll start of by saying that i smoked pot pretty heavily for around a year (I'm talking maybe 3-4 times on a slow day when it was at its peak) and i masturbated a handful of times when i was high also. At the beginning it felt amazing and i could go forever when i was high but then i stopped and decided to go sober. Whilst masturbating even the slightest tug felt super sensitive and i struggled to hold in my cum. I had a mini panic attack as i thought this was it for my sex life, but i decided to not let it get to me and decided that my penis probably just needed a little break. It is important to try and not let this affect you mentally (as hard as that may sound). I first tried to shift my thoughts elsewhere and started focusing on the positives of life and how lucky i am compared to a million other people who are in worst positions and got bigger problems in their lives. Along with this i refrained from any kind of sexual activity for as long as i could (first time i did this i only went a week before i felt the urge to masturbate and give into my temptations). When i did masturbate again it was much of the same story as i struggled to hold in my cum. Following on from this i read an article that said that it takes a long time for heavy weed smokers to get the marijuana out their systems, so i just decided that maybe all i needed was a little more time so again i refrained myself from any sexual activity. I also did some research and found that doing kegal exercise can help with premature ejaculation. In order to locate your kegal muscle, simply try to stop the flow of your piss and concentrate on what muscle is used for you to do this (it is located somewhere between your ball sacks and anus). After figuring this out, i would simply try to squeeze and hold the muscle for a few seconds (at first you may not feel like anything is happening but simply try and not use any other muscle in your body and just relax whilst focusing on this specific area) also i helps to do this lying down. Gradually i built up the seconds i held it with a couple seconds rest periods in between. Finally after a little more than a week after i stopped sexual activity i decided to try and masturbate again. I played a random youtube video as i watched porn so mentally i wasn't just thinking about busting a nut and could distract myself if i felt the urge. I tried to keep the mindset that every thing gets better in time and that this was just a phase that my penis was going through. Finally whilst i started masturbating i simply flexed the kegal muscle that i had been exercising and started jerking off very slowly. After going a full minute i started gaining more confidence and simply kept going whilst trying to edge my self (stopping right before orgasm and waiting a bit before going again) because i heard this helps build up stamina. During this wank sesh i felt i was in much more control over my penis and lasted as long as i wanted; so i came to the conclusion that keeping a positive mindset and practicing your kegal exercises and implementing it whilst doing your thing helps to keep your control. p.s. During this period of time that i refrained from sexual activity i also tried to lead a better life i.e. eating healthier and eating on time and sleeping and waking on time and so on and so on. It is important to understand that this process may take longer or shorter for different individuals but with time and a few adjustments i believe it should be possible to overcome this. I hope that this post helped since i know how frustrating it can be to deal with this but just remember to keep your head up and stay strong :)

New Years resolutions was to stop smoking weed. Was a pretty heavy user over the last 25 years, but now 17 days in I am feeling ok.

Only problem is now I cum in like 30 seconds.. even when I’m masturbating.

The other day I went to get a massage (non sexual) and when the therapist was massaging the front side my legs, by the time she reached about my knee I could feel myself about to cum.

Given I had no boner, nor was in anyway aroused by her or during the massage, I just let it go ..
big mistake.

Somehow, with not even the slightest boner or even any touching of my penis I came..
I have never been so betrayed by my own body before.

Since then I have been noticing that my stamina is basically at zero.

It’s not that I have been a stayer before, but at the moment it’s hero to zero in under a minute at best


The only thing I can see which has changed is stopping smoking weed and cutting out excess sugar (no chocolate, coke etc)


I felt so bad for the masseuse.. if it was a rub and tug it would have been ok, but i went for some remedial.

I am married with an ok sex life.. so it’s not intimacy hang ups..

It’s doing my head in