My penis is to big for my girl friend she she does not want to have sex with me no more .l am 19 years old does anybody have any suggestions on what to do!!!
depends on what size it is, but if a woman is really turned on by your love etc her vagina will accomodate most penis.
its about 8 in but she says she cant meet my needs . she says she loves me and wants to make me happy .but she just cant. she was not a virgin when i met her and she had been with serval othe guys . i try to be gentel with her but to no avail. any suggestion? i dont wat to brek up with her.
First i would try a lot more foreplay, eating her out sucking on clit this leaves loads of saliva keep spiting and transfer it to her p***y, fingering inside her clit and g spot. All this will bring her near to if not actually to orgasmn but try not to actually let her have the org, at this point i would ease the penis in using pleanty of saliva (spit) to ease the entry whilsrt still rubbing her clit. hold her tightly and kissing deep. Hope this helps do tell her you do not want to lose her. Be gentle do not push the penis in all the way until she seems to want it.
It doesn't matter how gentle you are if your 8 inches and your trying to go to deep then your going to hit her cervix and possible cause it to bump an ovary what will feel a bit like getting hit in the balls.
The average vagina is only 5.5 to 6 inches deep when fully aroused its not a bottomless pit learn to only use the first 5 inches of your penis and I'm sure she will enjoy it a lot more and be gentle.
The average vagina is only 5.5 to 6 inches deep when fully aroused its not a bottomless pit learn to only use the first 5 inches of your penis and I'm sure she will enjoy it a lot more and be gentle.
I try to be Be gentel but I guess I get to exited in the heat of the moment .when this happens she pulls me back and tells me to stop.she has even cryedr about it.in frustration I guess.there is a lof of foreplay more than penetration.should i stop initiating sex with her?or should we try to satisfy r by only oral and other ways???
You have nothing to lose so yes try giving her the best oral you have ever given and see what she says at the end.
Yes I give her oral she has even orgasm while doing so.but at what point do we have sex actual penitration .because oral does get old after a while.and I dont know if that is good enough for her.i am afraid that she will be looking somewhere else for it.if I can't satisfy her .and I just don't understand I thought women wanted big men.i was so wrong.i thought I was lucky wrong again.confused??
As I said a woman only has a vagina that is between 5.5 to 6 inches deep when fully aroused before you hit there cervix sometimes you can even touch there cervix with your finger when there aroused if you know what your feeling for, some woman can take a longer penis, just like a penis comes in different lengths so does the depth of a vagina.
Has your girlfriend ever had this happen with other sexual partners she has had? have you ever had this with another sexual partner before?
A lot of woman saw the longer the better but that simply isn't true though most of the feeling in the vagina is within the first 2.5 inches then after that they get very little sensation what so ever, what positions do you use when you have intercourse with her?
Has your girlfriend ever had this happen with other sexual partners she has had? have you ever had this with another sexual partner before?
A lot of woman saw the longer the better but that simply isn't true though most of the feeling in the vagina is within the first 2.5 inches then after that they get very little sensation what so ever, what positions do you use when you have intercourse with her?
If your gf is having a good orgasmn with oral, then the next type of sex you might try is Anal. You will of course have to get her really well sexed up. Then use a good lubricant and use your fingers to get the anal canal well softned in. You might start with a small vibrator (thinner than your penis). Let her dictate how you enter her and how fast. I have it that way often and it is very satisfying.
we have not had too much discussion on other guys she had been with it makes me very jealous. the only position she feels comfortable is me on top. shes afraid of any other position. as for anal i tried one time she refuse and said are you kidding me.im just wondering is there any device or anything to put on the penis so it wont go allthe way in?.ihave ask her how can i satisfy you she said grow smaller.thats why i ask about the device
Try in a sex shop or make a sponge cut to size and duck tape it from the rear so the sponge hits up against her. I am sure it will work. Good luck
Try spooning with her because that isn't A deep penetration position and because of the angle your at entering her on your side with your knees drawn up following the curve of her legs stops you getting to energetic, there is nothing that I know of you can put on your penis to act as a depth stop, it's just something you have to get use to in finding the depth you can penetrate her without causing her pain. Have you tried looking up position that you can use that don't allow deep penetration?
i dont think she will fall for sponge and duct tape thanks for the advice anyway
what is spooning