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My husband and I just started 2 weeks ago having anal sex.,, And I must say that it has been the best orgasm I've ever had. And knowing that he lived it as well and can't get enough, it's intense and now I want it all the time! I feel fine and no problems. He gradually made it happen by stimulating my anus by his finger or tongue for years til I said " give it to me" it was a complete turn on for him. And I let him cum in my ass and he loves it.. I also wonder is having too much anal sex safe??
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My wife has always taken the stance, that its the exit hole, not for entry and strictly off limits, this has never bothered me, I have never tried anal, and honestly own thought was either its the guys idea or domain for weirdness. We have been together 17yrs, married 14, a couple of times few months ago, my wife said to me she was curious and wanting to give it a go.. Our sex lives I think are reasonably good, we have several sessions weekly, and we both achieve climax (or she climaxes several times),, that is regular vaginal penetration.  Still with her comments in mind, last night, thought ok, she is on top of me, and I was playing with the "no go" area - she climaxed very quickly, and asked same again, my manhood was still inside vagina and I could feel it, plus her muscular twitches with my finger, she wants to go further, I´m now saying slowly, slowly lots of lube, we will do this, but thought you all would appreciate - this was not my idea, if you´d asked me 10yrs ago, I would have gone as far to say it repulses me. After recent events I am clearly wrong but I did not for one minute think that the suggestion to take things further would have been her idea, not mine. And for the sceptical around, we live in a very isolated area, her influences are not mates or a bit of strange as we are happy content together, her information, influences are actually coming from a book she has been writing, she has been researching a lot about sex to incorporate some titalation in her book, without making it a blatant porn, this has made her cogs turn. It is actually interesting that a lot of times here I read it is the female idea, although other posts and sites would have you believe this is the ultimate male fantasy / reality for some and nothing to do with the female desire..  Oh how wrong, and I love my wife climaxing that for me is a turn on, our rule, is pretty much no faking a climax why bother, sometimes I get my rocks off just for me, other times, I´m not so much in the mood, and will happily oblige her, my manhood will react normally, I just know that it will be one of those moments, that for me to climax could take ages, so I´ll just **** her til she orgasms, then cuddle, not bother about myself,  yet on other days, sometimes it can be within minutes and then have to wait, ( a bit longer than 10 mins of my 20´s to about 20 mins now to recover and continue)..        The most recent change, as we get older, now we're in our 40`s is a bit of a slower to get started, but longer sessions, and both of us climaxing more than once or twice, so from lots of short intense sessions, its evolved, to longer sessions, with intense climaxes, now add this anal bit I must admit I am now also curious, I read these posts because of my own (male) reservations on the topic..  lol

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Oh I don't know about that love, I recon you've done something wrong there love. I mean why you want to go and take it up the shitter in the first place anyways.
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Me and my fiancée have anal sex quite often. At least 3-4 times a week. We love it. Initially he had to go slow and work the head in because he has a very large penis. Once I relax my anus the rest is all gravy. He literally loses his mind when we have anal sex, I think he starts to speak in tongs. Lol. I have the best organism I've ever had in my life. I used to think that if a guy wanted to do me in the butt that he had gay tendencies. So not true. When he cums in my ass it feels so damn good that I almost pee myself. I love it. We have vaginal sex also but it doesn't even come close to anal sex. I wouldn't trade anal for anything. It's the best sex, organism abt feel that I have ever experienced on this earth. I'll be 50 soon and will still be having anal sex. I LOVE IT.
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Water enema first of all, and use toys to help you learn how it feels then when you learn, you will have many anal orgasms, once you are clean up the re you can push with out the fear of pop, but it can happen
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No ass to vagina is very bad for the women. It causes infections in the women.if you do decide to do it you'll need a new condom or wash it every time before :)
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Laura, it's always nice to hear of another who enjoys anal sex. I'm 60, and had my first when I was fifty. I had done anal sex to women over the years, but had never been penetrated myself. An occasion arose when some friends were visiting, and I loved it from the first time. I especially enjoyed our wives watching me loose my anal virginity. Since then, I have always been on the lookout for more guys who want to do anal to someone. I've only found a couple who were too big for comfort, but we still managed to get them inside of me. Once there, the sensation was incredible. I love the feel of the penis getting harder before they cum, and the pulsing of the cum going inside of me.
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My wife is refusing this act saying this is not the normal practice and it's forbidden in our religion.

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dose more lubricant and relax
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cumming inside is not safe all the way
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I think i would love Anal but it hurts so bad i cant take him putting it in
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I would just ask her if she would like to try it on you. Say "I see how much you enjoy it And I live being inside your ass, however I wonder what it would feel like if you did it to me, I'm curious how different it would make my orgasm feel." She's your wife so she might be good with a new experience. Start out with a plug in your ass while you sit in a chair with her straddling you. Each time she pushes down on your penis the plug will stroke you with the pressure. This way you get it good from both ends and you can come hard.
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I had too much anal experiences for many years before my marriage with complete anal cum, actually I'm an anal lover and all my boyfriends love my big beautiful ass too and they said I'm their anal angel.

As in my country it is a bad thing for couples to try anal, my husband totally refused doing it. Last month, while we were preparing for a sex session, watching a porn movie which a huge black guy penetrating a very turned on blond b***h in the ass. After that time, I cannot stop thinking of it and I decided to call one of my boyfriends to come and f**k me hard.

Actually I've not called him yet because one thing I am worried about is that if I am an addicted to anal sex. If so, how I could forget it for 4 years after my marriage? and if not, what is this intensive feeling that fills my mind? I hate dildos, so my solution is a real c**k of an anal expert guy.

Help me with your advice.

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Hello, i just read all the posts and i really enjoyied it.I am 28 years old man and i love anal sex.I have been doing mostly anal sex to all of my girlfriends for the past 10 years.I have been doing some vaginal sex also but i dont like it.Vaginas have diferent sizes from woman to woman and in some cases it is extremely hard to cum when a woman has so big vagina.I am a very experienced guy with anal sex.I always had my way will all of my previous relationships.I had lot of women that said "no way anal",but i always tried so hard to convince them and tried always my best to make anal sex to them so nice,soft at the begging very tough and hard when the anus opens up that every single one of them didnt want vaginal sex after some time, just anal. I have been in a relationship 2 years now and i am very happy with the girlfriend i have righ now.At the beggining it was the same as always,she didnt want to try anal at all but in time wilth lot of baby oil at the beggining and day after day she got used to it and now shen doesnt want vaginal at all.We have been doing anal sex for the past 2 years about 10-14 times a week,mostly twice daily.She loves it but sometimes she is complainig when i go all the way out and then in,that i push air inside the rectum and that hurts(i have the same problem with previous girlfriends). As i can see lot of experienced uses in here i want to ask something.Over the past 2 years i have seen that the looks of my girlfriends anus have changed(possibly from the so much anal action she has from me).She is tight but the black colour of hes anus has spread a little more around the hole and the small lines that has the anus from inside out has become much more and larger.It seems completely normal to me but i am just courius if so much anal result in such a look.Also the last 8 months we dont use lubs any more as she doesnt need them any more and she prefers harder intercourse.Maybe harder anal makes the anus hole looks that way.Have you experienced this change of the anus over the years(spread of the dark colour of the anus and bigger lines from the inside out of the anus hole or it is just me?
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Hi, I've read all of your post about the exprience of anal sexual. I and my husband used to have vaginal sex every 2 times a week. But after reading your post about anal sex, I feel like to have anal sex too. So I ask my husband to have anal sex, and he did too. My question is that can I have his cum till next morning will it cause any harm?
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