My boyfriend and I been together for about a month we talk about everything and i mean everything he tells me how he is feeling at times he says he loves me but i been with him for a month should i say it back or not i feel like i am being pressured i trust him as welll i told him about my last relationship and how i lost a baby... he says that he still loves me. I always had trust issues not with my last relationship because i was expecting after i lost my baby by miscarriage he started to cheat and tell me it was my fault that i lost our baby. He was never like that before the baby he was sweet after i lost my baby i stop trusting him and my self... and now im seeing someone and i feel like he will try to hurt me and i dont know what to do.
Hi,
If you are really getting along with your new boyfriend i think you should tell him about your last relationship and how you feel about it, i mean that you are scared and stuff. My sister had a somewhat similar situation, where she hid the threatening messages from her ex boyfriend from her new boyfriend. It turns out that was a bad idea, because her current boyfriend found out later. So, my point is , talk with your new boyfriend. See how he feels about it, i'm 100% sure he will try to protect your. This means, of course, you should convince him not to start a fight or anything.
Just let him know whats going on and he will appreciate your honesty and you'll feel much better about the whole situation.
Hope this helps