I have had sex 3 times with this partner, the very first time we didnt go straight into intercourse. We "dry-humped" with our clothes on and it hurt after a long period of time so we just skipped that and went straight into intercourse. The next day i was sore, and swollen like a bruise on my outer vaginal lips. Day 2, i had no recovery and he wanted to have sex again, i told him i was sore but for him just to take it easy. The next day im even more sore, but notice 2 bumps. One on each outer vaginal lip plus the bruising and swelling. That day i tell him that i need atleast a day of recovery and that im unusually sore down there. But of course, even that didnt stop either of us. The very next day, i wake up and im in unbelievable pain around my vaginal lips. it felt like open wounds and stung them when i peed. I got a mirror to examine myself, and i have bumps with white heads on my outer lips near my vaginal opening. I have been terrified since, Im only 18 and I havent been to a gynecologist before. Im not sure how i should ask my mother. Im not sure what to do at all in fact. I can barely sit, walk or even wear jeans of any sort. Its not herpes, it has to be something else.
If anyone has ever heard of these symptoms that arent herpes or know what is happening to me, please, it would be greatly appreciated if you could reply.
sincerely,
anonymous and scared.
Dry humping hurts... I have discovered it only just now... yesterday we were getting messy with my boyfriend clothes still on, but after a while I got pretty sore and I still am... You should go and have it checked by a gyno your inner vaginal lips might have gotten torn or something... the white spots are even less good news, you might have to be checked for std.. and talk to your partner about not having sex when you are not entirely comfortable physically... 22 year old medical student