blondebaby wrote:
i was terrified. when i first lost my virginity i was absolutly sure i wasnt then when i found out my heart dropped and my world shattered all around me. i cried for days not knowing what to do. i mean i was 14 my first pregnancy and there was the thought of school and how i would take care of a child because i come from an extremely poor family. but after a while i came to like the idea of mother hood and accepted it. but at 3 months i miscarried and once again my heart broke. i wanted my child and almost an intire four years later i still do. i got pregnant a second time back in january and i was actually excited because i was getting a second chance but the father had already broken up with me at that point. my plan was to never tell him because he left me for another woman and they were getting married and r actually married now. one of my friends told him of my pregnancy and he made my life hell until i got an abortion and eventually i gave in. if i had never got that abortion in one month i would be a mom. if i regret anything in my life its getting that abortion and not having ether of my children is the hardest thing for me to go through. so if you are pregnant it is scary and ull find yourself in situations where u feel stuck but trust me you will love mother hood. i dont have my own children but my 6 year old brother calls me mom and i used to take care of him before i left for college. its hard but worth it. keep that in mind.
thanx ... im really and trully sorry for you ... even though i might not be a mother i already feel atached to what might or might not be growing in my tummy... i took a pregnanct test this morning and it came out negative ... it had been 14 days since i could have concived and to be honest i think that i was disapointed when it came out negative :( i still think that i might be because i still have most of the symptomes... but i think that i could just be denial... my friends are happy though and i sorta am... but there's still that part of my that is crying inside for a baby .. and i know that's wrong and i witsh i didnt feel that way but i sorta do :(
its perfectly normal to feel that way. i felt the same at times i thought i was pregnnat and wasnt. but if its been 14 days thats 2 weeks and ur body hasnt produced and pregnancy horomones yet. during the first two weeks u arent really pregnant. thats when the sperm is still fertilizing the egg and its just a tiny cell in the body. to its way to soon. like i said before wait 3 more weeks. if you have a period in that time u should b fine if you dont then take one again. i know its hard to keep waiting but u will have too
bay bay 29 wrote:
blondebaby wrote:
i was terrified. when i first lost my virginity i was absolutly sure i wasnt then when i found out my heart dropped and my world shattered all around me. i cried for days not knowing what to do. i mean i was 14 my first pregnancy and there was the thought of school and how i would take care of a child because i come from an extremely poor family. but after a while i came to like the idea of mother hood and accepted it. but at 3 months i miscarried and once again my heart broke. i wanted my child and almost an intire four years later i still do. i got pregnant a second time back in january and i was actually excited because i was getting a second chance but the father had already broken up with me at that point. my plan was to never tell him because he left me for another woman and they were getting married and r actually married now. one of my friends told him of my pregnancy and he made my life hell until i got an abortion and eventually i gave in. if i had never got that abortion in one month i would be a mom. if i regret anything in my life its getting that abortion and not having ether of my children is the hardest thing for me to go through. so if you are pregnant it is scary and ull find yourself in situations where u feel stuck but trust me you will love mother hood. i dont have my own children but my 6 year old brother calls me mom and i used to take care of him before i left for college. its hard but worth it. keep that in mind.
thanx ... im really and trully sorry for you ... even though i might not be a mother i already feel atached to what might or might not be growing in my tummy... i took a pregnanct test this morning and it came out negative ... it had been 14 days since i could have concived and to be honest i think that i was disapointed when it came out negative :( i still think that i might be because i still have most of the symptomes... but i think that i could just be denial... my friends are happy though and i sorta am... but there's still that part of my that is crying inside for a baby .. and i know that's wrong and i witsh i didnt feel that way but i sorta do :(
its perfectly normal to feel that way. i felt the same at times i thought i was pregnnat and wasnt. but if its been 14 days thats 2 weeks and ur body hasnt produced and pregnancy horomones yet. during the first two weeks u arent really pregnant. thats when the sperm is still fertilizing the egg and its just a tiny cell in the body. to its way to soon. like i said before wait 3 more weeks. if you have a period in that time u should b fine if you dont then take one again. i know its hard to keep waiting but u will have too
>:( im ussualy am a pretty pationt person... just not about this ... my friend thinks that i would be crazy to keep it my other friend would do anything to have me keep it and my mom says that if i dont have an abortion then i have to give it up for adoption... i know that i could do any of those to thing but i dont really know what it takes to be a grate mom, im 15 and do really have many options for jobs, the baby dady is even younger then i am so it would be even harder then it would be for me, my family doesnt have enough money for another mouth and i will need to really have to make a crazy schedule !! and all of that and more being conciderd ... i would still keep it :( sigh* any input on that?