The only other thing you could do is to talk to him and say that if things between you both arn't going to improve then you don't see any future between you both.
Did that a couple times. He also uses that as an excuseAnd tells me no guy will put up with someone threatening to leave. Having said that I probably WILL just quietly pack up and go.
I don't know where your from or what your divorce laws are but I would think you have a right to half the house if you get divorced.
I would tell him that if you was with a guy that payed attention to you then you wouldn't be threatening to leave them. My thoughts are the woman he goes to see is more than just a friend and that's why he isn't interested in having sex or being around you.
Beauty comes from with in a person looks are only skin deep and change over the years.
I would tell him that if you was with a guy that payed attention to you then you wouldn't be threatening to leave them. My thoughts are the woman he goes to see is more than just a friend and that's why he isn't interested in having sex or being around you.
Beauty comes from with in a person looks are only skin deep and change over the years.
That's very true. There isn't any beauty with that friend on any level. Regardless of that, I work, try to clean up after him and feel very uncomfortable in our home. I state my feelings or concerns and he blows up regardless of what it is about. We are not married and are renting. I have no problem just walking away and finding my own place, I wouldn't make him or anyone else do that.
Actually he is quite mean when I try to discuss things too. Calling me names and making me feel invalid and crazy. Maybe I got a very bad apple. He doesn't do anything for me at all and says he doesn't believe in that male stereotype so that might explain why he has never managed a relationship past two years at his age he should have learned something one would think.
Oh ok well the you have to do what you feel is right for you, to me it sounds like he doesn't want to finnish with you just in case it doesn't work out with this other woman.
There are a lot of nice guys out there but there are also a lot of guy like that as well that think they have every right to treat woman like sh*t and bully them and they will stay true to them and be there when they need them.
You would be better off to walk away while your still young and find a decent guy that cares and knows how to treat a woman.
You would be better off to walk away while your still young and find a decent guy that cares and knows how to treat a woman.
Thanks. I wish I was young lol
We also had another talk about it three days ago. I told him I felt cheated and that it was unfair. He knew that my last day at my night job was two days later but rather than caring and waiting and being a couple he decided to do his business again alone. Then turned around and asked me that night if we are working on things and that he loves me. UM WHAT!!!!!
Well I'm sure your not that Old.
It sounds to me like your putting all the work in to try and make things work but he doesn't really care and thinks those two words will make everything ok and keep you as his slave to keep the house clean and do everything for him.
Does he work to?
It sounds to me like your putting all the work in to try and make things work but he doesn't really care and thinks those two words will make everything ok and keep you as his slave to keep the house clean and do everything for him.
Does he work to?
He is trying to build his own company. He won't work for others only if it's a last resort. I bet we are older than you haha
You all most certainly are lol.
It also sounds like he is very stubborn and doesn't like to accept help and is pretty tunnel minded over things.
The main thing is you need to do what feels best for you and what's going to make you happy.
It also sounds like he is very stubborn and doesn't like to accept help and is pretty tunnel minded over things.
The main thing is you need to do what feels best for you and what's going to make you happy.
Yes very true
Even if you are older than me you deserve to be happy and enjoy a good sex life :-)
lol well indeed I do. Don't we all.