two weeks i found out i was pregnant it was a total shock to me it was of course unplanned. the night after i found out i told my boyfriend and of course he was like i dont want the baby get the abortion. im so confused i dont know what to do i want the baby but dont want to be a single mom. i need advise!
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What's wrong with being a single mom? I managed to do it for years and i'm still here and my kids are all alive and well. So you have to pretty much do it on your own, so what, it really won't derail your life. You can still have a life, as it doesn't all of a sudden end when you have a baby.
You can go to school, have your job, have your friends, having a baby is not a death sentence. If bf doesn't want to be in your life should you have your baby, so be it. But he will be in your baby's life for the next 18 years, it's called child support, which is something he can't get out of. Maybe once he got used to the idea that he was going to be a daddy, he might like it, and once he sees his baby in that second he/she is born, i can almost guarantee that he will change his mind.
This is your call, you are the one to make such a decision, not your bf.
You must have family, they can help. Social Services can help, you can take their help until you get on your feet. They will pay for day care while you go to school or work.
I am not trying to convince you either way, i'm just trying to make you see that having a baby is not the end of the line for you. You can adopt the baby out too, start now if that's what you decide. Contact a legal adoption agency and they will find a mom and a dad for your baby now. You will make someone very happy with such an unselfish act, or you can bring your baby home with you.
You can go to school, have your job, have your friends, having a baby is not a death sentence. If bf doesn't want to be in your life should you have your baby, so be it. But he will be in your baby's life for the next 18 years, it's called child support, which is something he can't get out of. Maybe once he got used to the idea that he was going to be a daddy, he might like it, and once he sees his baby in that second he/she is born, i can almost guarantee that he will change his mind.
This is your call, you are the one to make such a decision, not your bf.
You must have family, they can help. Social Services can help, you can take their help until you get on your feet. They will pay for day care while you go to school or work.
I am not trying to convince you either way, i'm just trying to make you see that having a baby is not the end of the line for you. You can adopt the baby out too, start now if that's what you decide. Contact a legal adoption agency and they will find a mom and a dad for your baby now. You will make someone very happy with such an unselfish act, or you can bring your baby home with you.
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