Abnormally small flaccid penis on mature younger adult male

Let me just say that having a large penis is everything that you milimeter peters wish you had. When i walk down the stairs my penis makes tons of noise while bouncing against my knees. IF you are interested in having a penis like this. you must do two things. One administer hotsauce in your anus 10 mins before you want to show someone the kingkong penis. you must also add as many grapes to your diet at possible. Good luck becoming real men.

this is true ! it is genetically superior. For males located in colder climates, a small flaccid penis was much less prone to frostbite than the larger counterparts.

Hey guys i have a small penis and i was wondering if anyone could fix it... only men usually can get it hard but i am totally straight. I wanted to know if there was some other means of solving my problem aside from the turkish camel feces that i have been ingesting fo the past 3 months, supplements only.

I have the same problem but the only difference is I'm about 1.5 when soft and most the guys say when they are erect they are between 4.5 and 6.5 but I am 10 inches when erect, does that mean something different for me?

Since I do not have time to wait for Yahoo mail to process my registration email I will reply as a guest.  I cannot believe in this day and age that a web site cannot be up to speed on the latest networking for messages but sobeit. 

At any rate, I was born with what is called hidden penis syndrome (self-diagnosed) as my penis retracts entirely into my abdomen when flaccid.  One cannot even see the head.  I am 57 years old and to this day I am still ashamed to disrobe in the locker room for fear of stares and/or ridicule.  No one can honestly say that size doesn't matter.  It may not matter to women who insist that it is not the size but the motion but that is bull hockey if women and men do not judge a man's virility or masculinity by the size of a man's penis.  A man judges his own worth by the size of his manhood.  

Additionally, as a gay man, I can tell you that size does matter to the gay man no ifs, ands, or buts.  It has been a living hell living as a gay man with a small penis.  When a guy goes to grope my crotch I shudder with the possible reaction of "where the hell is it" because all they get are the potatoes and not the meat.  Words cannot express the anxiety I go through when I try to meet someone new and the first time we see each other naked.  Very few have ever touched my privates because 1.) they cannot figure out that it takes a finger and a thumb to bring my penis into view.  Once aroused it can be seen.  About 4.5" when erect.  And when they see that is as big as it gets, they usually lose interest.  Its painful to watch and painful to experience.  The person doesn't know what to do and they become uncomfortable which makes me uncomfortable.  

I have had guys reach for my crotch and recoil when they don't feel anything, guys get up and put their clothes on without saying a word and never hear from them again, guys that hesitantly and cautiously try to give me some sort of attention but get bored quickly.  

I have never had sexual intercourse with a female for fear of humiliation.  Guess that's why I am gay.  Its been a very lonely life for me up to now and I do not see anything in the future for me so I am left to my own devices to die a lonely gay man with a small penis.  Pitiful.

I have the same problem 30 now, my penis flacid most of the time goes inside my body. Part of the reason i was 25 till I lost my virginity. Just too scared for a woman to see my poor excuse of a penis. It gets 6 6.5 errect and it is 2 inches around. But when he is hibernating half in around and missing. I am still embarassed when my girl friend sees me flacid. Thanks for this post, making me feel more confident.

And me being embarassed at first caused me premature ejaculation from all the worrying. I finnally figured out how to shut my stupid mind up and just enjoy the moment. You just see all guys in movies or porn with a large flacid penis. And you feel weird a freak. Its just there is growers and there is showers.

can you send a pic?

I have an identical problem to what most of you guys are talking about. My penis erect can range from 5.5 to nearly 7" depending on how turnned on I am. The psychological effect it has on me however, is entirely different. Been with my wife since 88. Before her (was 18 when we met) never had any trouble getting laid. I was in great shape from competitive marital arts, facialy, I could pass pictures of young Burton Cummings off as myself for kicks. I was an ok singer in a band. Now, to my point; my problem is I have an extremly bad family health history. On my father's side I am one of only five males to ever live past 30. I am now 42. All heart and diabetes, prostate on my mother's side. Because my non-erect penis is usually so small I will not let any doctor fully examine me. Not even the one I have had since I was 10. I tell them I have some weird anal phobia and am quite prepared to die should anything go wrong below the waist. Seriously. I have a 1.5 year old son (when he gets those little boners while bathing him sometimes, he is as big as i am limp, almost, thank god) and I have a 6 year old daughter. Both my kids love me, my wife loves me and I love them just as much. Yet I have ALL the symptoms of prostate cancer, have for a few years and it's getting worse. I don't have sex with my wife because my but is usually bleeding and testicles hurt bad. Now as uou can imagine, I want to go kill myself but I don't want my kids to be without me as a dad. I need to know they are ok. And I am terrified of someone seeing my problem while preparing my corpse. I have even considered doing it in the bush naked, covered in hp sauce or something so coyotes will eat my body. But ultimately they'll probably leave my penis feeling it's hardly worth chewing off. Anyway, all you guy's worried about what a girl might think, at least your not going to die because of it. This is a REAL phobia; if I was in a car accident and woke up in a hospital I don't know if I would find a way to kill myself as fast as possible, or if I'd completely loose my mind and try to take everyone that my have seen it with me. There's no help for me. I just want you guy's to realize that I have a real phobia and therefore realize my viewpoint is not rational. Some women look in the mirror and see fat when all we see is a skeleton. If my only worry was that I may not be adequate in the sack. I'd be one happy camper. Oh yea, I have even tried playing with it a bit before the doctor gets in the room. No luck; to weird.

My wife knows nothing of the prostate symptoms. I have fabricated an incredibly complex alternative psychological profile to explain why I don't want to have sex.

Hello all, so glad to have found this post. I am a 30 yr asian guy, korean to be exact, 5'9" 200 lbs, bit overweight, and have small flaccid penis, 3" to be exact. I do have a little fat around my pubic area, which makes it look smaller, but when I put a ruler next to it when flaccid, it is 3". I've always been embarrassed to use public urinal unless there are side guards to avoid people from staring at it by "accident".

When I am fully erected, I am a full 6".....actually 5 and 3/4"...but only if I push the the little fat towards my body so the penis looks at its longest. when I don't push the fat towards my body, it looks much smaller, about 4.5". Should I be embarrassed of it? i have had a lot of sex with females from other ethnicity like white and spanish and I believe I satisfied them, even though I was embarrassed to show my penis even when erected before intercourse.

With asian girls, I am not embarrassed, because they all think it is big...go figure...

I have not seen many other male's meat since I am a foreigner, so not in our culture to be around naked males even in sauna, but have seen some white guys with "baseball bats"  when taking a leak in public urinal, and I promise it was by accident, mostly when entering the bathroom and they are standing like 2 feet away from the urinal.

My guess is, I will have to live with it all my life. I am happily married and 100% sure my wife is sexually satisfied, so it doesn't bother me as much anymore since I will not be having sex with other females, but still get mebarrassed when taking a leak in public urinals. 

I'm 15 and my penis gets small when not hard but when erect I'm 6 inches I need to know if my penis would get bigger!!!!

Hi sorry to hear of your bad experiences with people who obviously were only interested in your genitals and not YOU as a person. You do not need those kind of people in your life. It has nothing to do with feeling your penis is small... many people find mates and happiness with missing limbs, blind, deaf, crippled, no genitals at all etc. They find mates who want THEM not just their genitals. I think you should reconsider living around the one thing you believe is a shortcoming about yourself and focus on the rest of you and what you have to offer others besides sex. There is more to sex besides penis size.... as others have pointed out.... you can be a good lover without a penis. You say you feel you may be gay due to your insecurities about your penis... well maybe you should get some counseling and work on that... also I would say (since I am a female myself) you should try reconsidering dating women and see how it goes... you may be surprised. As others have said, you will always find men and women who are only looking at the size of penises breasts whatever.... they are not people you want for a permanent relationship anyway. I am sure many men as well as many women would feel lucky to find a person to love that is a good person with more to offer besides just a larger penis... do not allow yourself to be used or abused due to being worried about this. Do you have a close female freind you can talk about this to? I say have a makeout session with her and ask for her honest opinion. Having some feedback, which I can almost guarantee will be positive , may help you see yourself in a new light and accespt your body as it is, maybe even like it a little. As a female I can tell you we all have our hangups, but when our body is feeling good all that goes away and all that matters is the moment... the last thing we should be thinking of is how fat we are or arent or how big our boobs are or size of penises.... and I can tell you a guy with a bigger penis does not mean he is a good person or a better person nor does it make him a keeper nor does it mean he is better between the sheets.... a TEN to me is a guy who takes the time to make it all good in the bedroom and in the rest of our lives... its not what u got but how u use it. ALSO in general for all the guys worried their smaller penises under six inches is not good enough... did you know it is the outside and the entrance/edge and first inch or so of a womans vagina that is most sensitive and that the Gspot is located just inside the entrance so this is where all the arousal and nerves are so if you use what u got to hit those areas u will be a better performer than a guy with 9 inches he beats the hell outta his girl with while not taking time to give attention to areas that count... also the clitoris is OUTSIDE the vagina.... you got a penis a mouth and hands that can do very nice things there size dont count so work it.... for those who practice anal sex again sensitivity is just fine in the first few inches you dont need a weapon to enjoy sex. Some of the best sex my man and i have there is no intercourse... 69 as example... so guys stop worrying about it. Girls worry too about their breast size shape etc and most guys will tell you they like all breasts and are just pleased to have access to some... and girls worry about vaginas too and the same, most guys know all are different the same as penises so stop being so critical of yourself... there is someone out there who will find your size and shape and technique perfect for them and it will all be fine in the end. RELAXING and stop worrying, that is the first step.

OH MY GOD get to a doctor PLEASE> first of all you could have something else wrong... dont diagnose yourself. IF I WAS YOUR WIFE or child I would be heartbroken to know you died and were gone from my life over a fear of someone seeing your penis REALLY do you hear what you are saying???? You are not well just use that as an excuse tell the doc your penis has shrunk and stopped working it is a symptom thats all go to the doctor ALSO your doctor will have seen MANY MANY more smaller penises than yours and his is probably no bigger!!! Imagine your wife let breast cancer kill her because her boobs were too small or droopy? You would be devastated! ALSO prostate cancer is treatable what are you waiting for???? I wish I knew you and was there to help you with this... please tell your wife and let her go with you.... your life is more important than your view of your penis...your wife loves you your kids love you suck it up and go to the doctor!!! You will have a huge wieght lifted from you just do it... remember this... the JOCKS the big weight lifting studs you see out there go to the doc and their penises are tiny from the hormones etc... you are not the first guy to walk into the doc without a ten inch hardon.... please go to the doctors.... NOW.

I am 25, 6'5 and 320 lbs. I played collegiate football for a few years. My penis is roughly 1.5-2.5 inches flaccid on a great day. When erect I'm 5.5-5.8 inches on a good day. I must say I've suffered as any man can possibly suffer at this size in a world that promotes having a penis closer to 8 inches. I felt like I was damaged, especially being circumcised. I've even fantasized about other men taking my woman in bed. It hurts, being hard on yourself an thinking you cannot please a woman. Take heed though, as this is some of the best collaboration of caring people on the subject I have seen yet. You are all acceptable and can find love as I have. Things are not hopeless and what you suffered from, normal or not, I have suffered from. Be happy and be a loving person. I found that being loving and devoted will very much aid you in finding a mate. Realize though that a great many of the population are foul creatures. Good is out there. I found it and she loves and lusts after me despite what I think is disheartening. Lots of foreplay and teasing. Candles and loving talk. Give her downstairs plenty of attention with your tongue. Tickle those inner thighs and kiss it as you tell her how sexy she is. Massage her with some oils and get her to relax. If she loves you, circumcised or uncircumcised, small, or large. She will be prepared and ready to orgasm just for you. If she can't, they don't love you or perhaps they are the few handful that don't want to/truly can't and it's not on you. I've been with at least 7 women. While they didn't all work out and some were harsh, I only had one be cruel and she was sick in the head: They all seemed very pleased at the time, an were able to get quite wet. Long story short? I was honest about my feelings about myself with the love of my life. She is so loving and innocent, she only encourages me and tells me how manly I am. You can find it fellas. I'm putting my faith in you to be strong and take words of encouragement. Never let this world get you down. As a matter of fact, my future wifey is going to get the full treatment come tomorrow :-). Won't be a dry spot on that bed. Good luck gentlemen.