hi i fingered my GF but i only put my finger once and not all of it and after a hour she bleeded a little and i'm wondering if she lost her virginity or not.Please tell me if someone knows anything.Thnx
I am now 21 but I lost my virginity when I was 16. I had been dating the guy for a few years and he knew I was a virgin, and we had talked about sex several times. He was older than I was and he had sex before we started dating. We had had oral sex several times prio to me losing my virginity. One night we had both been drinking and was in the back of his van, his friend was driving and my best friend was in the passenger seat. We was making out in the back of the van, and our friends ended up getting out to go inside another friends house. We ended up having sex in the van that night, it was painful! I did not bleed at all during intercourse, but the next day I was sore and would notice some light spotting after peeing.
Needless to say, I am currently married to the same man. It don't always work out that way. There are days I wish I would have waited. We both was drinking but not to the point to where we didn't know what we was doing. I remember he kept asking me If I was okay and sure I wanted to continue. It did help to have a lot of foreplay to be completely relaxed. For me, it wasn't so painful as most have said it was for them. Don't get me wrong it was a painful experience but after a few minutes into it the pain subsided.
The second time was a little painful the first few mins but after that everything was fine. It is normal to bleed, during sex the first time as well as bleeding afterwords. Everyone is different and some people bleed during sex the first time and some don't. Some bleed afterwords. Few people are lucky and experience no bleeding at all. As for people saying they aren't using condoms the first time they are having sex.....That is a huge mistake! Always use a condom, and birth control is important as well. Now days people think it's "cool" to have sex at a younger age but it's a decision most later regret.
Several of my friends who lost their virginity around the same age as I did.....Their relationships ended within a year or less after they lost their virginity. One of my best friends had lost her virginity when she was 14 and about two years ago she started dating a guy her family had known for years. He had no clue that she was not a virgin, as he was. It was important to him that his fiance be a virgin till their wedding night just like him. She felt ashamed to tell him how old she was when she lost her virginity so she decided to not tell him. The week before their wedding she realized she didn't want to start their marriage out by not telling him she wasn't a virgin....so she told him...he was upset with her for not telling him. She hadn't lied about it cause they didn't really ask each other. However when he would tell her how important it was to him she never spoke up and told him she wasn't a virgin. They ended up putting the marriage off for 8 months. They finally did get married but there is not a day that goes by that she don't feel ashamed and regrets the decision she made to lose her virginity at such a young age.
Needless to say, I am currently married to the same man. It don't always work out that way. There are days I wish I would have waited. We both was drinking but not to the point to where we didn't know what we was doing. I remember he kept asking me If I was okay and sure I wanted to continue. It did help to have a lot of foreplay to be completely relaxed. For me, it wasn't so painful as most have said it was for them. Don't get me wrong it was a painful experience but after a few minutes into it the pain subsided.
The second time was a little painful the first few mins but after that everything was fine. It is normal to bleed, during sex the first time as well as bleeding afterwords. Everyone is different and some people bleed during sex the first time and some don't. Some bleed afterwords. Few people are lucky and experience no bleeding at all. As for people saying they aren't using condoms the first time they are having sex.....That is a huge mistake! Always use a condom, and birth control is important as well. Now days people think it's "cool" to have sex at a younger age but it's a decision most later regret.
Several of my friends who lost their virginity around the same age as I did.....Their relationships ended within a year or less after they lost their virginity. One of my best friends had lost her virginity when she was 14 and about two years ago she started dating a guy her family had known for years. He had no clue that she was not a virgin, as he was. It was important to him that his fiance be a virgin till their wedding night just like him. She felt ashamed to tell him how old she was when she lost her virginity so she decided to not tell him. The week before their wedding she realized she didn't want to start their marriage out by not telling him she wasn't a virgin....so she told him...he was upset with her for not telling him. She hadn't lied about it cause they didn't really ask each other. However when he would tell her how important it was to him she never spoke up and told him she wasn't a virgin. They ended up putting the marriage off for 8 months. They finally did get married but there is not a day that goes by that she don't feel ashamed and regrets the decision she made to lose her virginity at such a young age.
I'm 15 and I just lost my virginity tonight. It was with the guy of my dreams and we were both virgins. My hymen definitely broke and the bleeding hasn't stopped since. it's been about 4 hours since the intercourse but the bleeding is obnoxious. I've read a couple posts that say they have bled for 3 or 4 days after. I hope that is the case. I feel lightheaded and my boyfriend and I are getting a little worried. Any advice?
I am on birth control and have been for 4 years for medical reasons. My boyfriend and I just had sex. He did use a condom though. I really do not want to get pregnant and I hope those two precautions were good enough. Do I have any reason to worry?
:? well i'm 15 years old i kind of did it with this guy around dec 22 and well he didn't have a condom and i didn't let hi go in but then like 3 weeks ago he had a condom and he did go in not all the way he was missing a little bit more right now i'm a little behind on my period would this mean i would be pregnant or not at all???
HELP!!! oh and then last time like a couple days ago i had some blood on m y underwear and then pos it was weird cuz i thought i was starting my period but i didn't have cramps or anything and then after that i didn't bleed... is that bad??
HELP!!! oh and then last time like a couple days ago i had some blood on m y underwear and then pos it was weird cuz i thought i was starting my period but i didn't have cramps or anything and then after that i didn't bleed... is that bad??
well to start off with this is awkward i am only 14 and i am a virgin. Im sort of proud to be one because every time i look around somebody is tellin me to do it or how good it feels. Im tryin to be faithful to my beliefs and family but being in high school is definitely taking its toll. I am a little shy though so i doubt anything will happen. I have had MANY boyfriends since i was in 4th grade but i kept celebant. The farthest ive gone is a kiss on the cheek. I just wanted to add my story to inspire the people that are around my age.....Dont be in a rush n ignore the people that try to rush you because it just ISNT worth it. :D :D :D :)
I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin, girls - I don't understand why some of you are in such a rush to lose it. It's honestly very distasteful that you would choose to lose your virginity at such a young age. I tried to do it with someone I wasn't dating, and I made him stop. It didn't feel right to be doing it with someone I wasn't officially dating. I know he cares about me, and we're still friends, but I didn't trust him. He had fingered me before, so I guess like you guys say "I was stretched out." But it still hurt (bearable pain). I'm no doctor, but I'm pretty sure the breaking of the hymen has nothing to do with whether or not you're stretched out - it has to do with how deep he goes. My advice - wait until you're dating someone that you're REALLY serious about. I'm sure sex is great but I would rather lose my virginity to someone that cares about me than to just lose it because everyone else is. There are alot of people I know that respect me more because I am a virgin, I'm one of the few virgins in my Senior class. I bet if you younger girls wait, you won't regret it because I know I havn't so far.
Hi , I am 24 years old male. I am a virgin. Soon I am going to get married. I feel shy to mention it here. I am not circumcised. I heard some people saying, that you must pull your skin on the penis back before inserting into vagina. Can someone please help me on that
well yea its best to do that cuz i had sex with a guy that wasnt circumcised and it was difficult
i lost my virginity over spring break and had sex 3 day in a row. only one time i used protection.at fisrt he fingered me and then i told him i was ready. first he was on top but it didnt go in so he told me 2 put it in. so i got on top and it went in slowly and painfuly but it wasnt 2 bad.so he started slow and then got faster and i told him 2 just hold on cuz he was kinda rushing.but the pain was over only lasted 2 min. so we started again and i felt no pain.but after we were done the next morning i noticed a little bleeding and a little bit of pain that later went away until we did it the 2nd time but it went away the next day.and after 2 weeks i began 2 think i was pregnant so i told him and i think he was scarred but i no i was. so i havent taken a test yet but im really scarred that i may be.
Hello, I have a very important question that I hope some of you can answer me though helping me to understand what was wrong with me or what.....
Im married for 6 month now and already pregnant (which is really excited for me and my husband) But when me and my husband got married and had first sex, we were both virgins. But for me, when I had sex at first with my husband, I didnt have any blood or bleeding during and after sex at ALL. Which I assumed as "Oh, it was just first time, probably I still didnt loose my virginity. We are gonna try later again". And then almost every time when we had sex I felt so much pain inside me and close to my lower stomach, sometimes it seemed like I cant even handle it anymore, but still no blood. So I thought again and again that we should change positions, maybe then it will work (I stood thinking I didnt loose my virginity). I've heard before that some girls may have an elastic plevra so it may be hard for them to loose virginity at first time, and so I thought maybe Im one of those girls. But then after couple month I found out that Im pregnant, I couldnt believe it becuase I thought I still a virgin. But it was true, I became pregnant. My husband now thinks that I might have someone before the wedding and didnt tell him. But I swear him before God I was a virgin. He says how then I got pregnant because he says he didnt notice that I lost virginity. He says that if I lost virginity after we got married then I should have at least some blood and that every girl has it at their first time, but if I didnt have nothing then I wasnt a virgin. But I know for sure that he was the first man in my life and nobody else. Ofcourse, I was also surprised when I found out that Im pregnant because I was sure I still a virgin. So how can I explain it now at first for myself, and second for my husband. He thinks that losing virginity is suppose to be with appearing blood. Please, explain. Thanks to everyone.
Im married for 6 month now and already pregnant (which is really excited for me and my husband) But when me and my husband got married and had first sex, we were both virgins. But for me, when I had sex at first with my husband, I didnt have any blood or bleeding during and after sex at ALL. Which I assumed as "Oh, it was just first time, probably I still didnt loose my virginity. We are gonna try later again". And then almost every time when we had sex I felt so much pain inside me and close to my lower stomach, sometimes it seemed like I cant even handle it anymore, but still no blood. So I thought again and again that we should change positions, maybe then it will work (I stood thinking I didnt loose my virginity). I've heard before that some girls may have an elastic plevra so it may be hard for them to loose virginity at first time, and so I thought maybe Im one of those girls. But then after couple month I found out that Im pregnant, I couldnt believe it becuase I thought I still a virgin. But it was true, I became pregnant. My husband now thinks that I might have someone before the wedding and didnt tell him. But I swear him before God I was a virgin. He says how then I got pregnant because he says he didnt notice that I lost virginity. He says that if I lost virginity after we got married then I should have at least some blood and that every girl has it at their first time, but if I didnt have nothing then I wasnt a virgin. But I know for sure that he was the first man in my life and nobody else. Ofcourse, I was also surprised when I found out that Im pregnant because I was sure I still a virgin. So how can I explain it now at first for myself, and second for my husband. He thinks that losing virginity is suppose to be with appearing blood. Please, explain. Thanks to everyone.
Yasteday morning, I was with my bf and we had sex (this was my first time) After there was some discomfort(nothing too bad) but I bleed so much. My clothes were stained, I had to put on pads and even today Im still bleeding a bit. Is it normal to bleed this much and how long should i be bleeding? (I also know its not my period since I had it last week and Im on the pill.)
ok . im only 14 but ill be 15 in a couple of days which is when ive decided to lose my virginty . [ young i know ] me & my boyfriend have been together for a couple of yrs hes the only boy ive ever dated. we've done just about everything except have sex. whats holding me back is how much it will hurt and also the bleeding ! so does it really hurt the first time ?
a couple of days ago my husband and i were just playing around during sex and he decided that he wanted to go alittle further with one of the positions we were doing, you know where your on your side and lift one leg in the air? well it was like that but instead of having my leg in the air he had all the way up and next to my head while i was twisted alittle bit and he bottomed out inside of me, now it did hurt a little bit, but it felt good.A day later i noticed i started to bleed, which i wasnt really too concerned about cause i had bleed before and it only lasted 1 to 2 days, now though its been past the 3 day mark (6 days) and im still bleeding and i can see when i push from my vagina blood coming out, as well as blot clots. I'm starting to get extremely nervous and i want to know if i am alone or if anyone can come up with anything to put my mind at ease.
Well he might have injured you and you have scratches. but if it is lasting this long that it might be something serious, so you might want to go to a doctor to check your self out. Do you have any cramps or does it hurt when you pee?