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born without labia minora

By southerngal3 | 155 posts, last post
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Kate Smith answered this Do You Think Your Vulva And Vagina Are Ugly?
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I am a woman with one of those clamshell looking lady bits, it's all completely closed in, and even with my thighs spread open, the edges of my labia majora are touching and you "just" barely get a glimpse of the inside, which is a small clitoris, a small clitoris hood, and labia minora that extend about a third of the way down before attaching to the surrounding skin, and stick out no more than half a centimeter (that's a quarter of an inch for you Americans :) ) It's all very symmetrical and nothing that stands out from the rest.  I never realized (dum-dum me) that not all women look like I do, until a friend and I were changing in front of each other some ten years ago.  Yes, I did a double take, yes it was different from mine, and yes a lightbulb moment of all penises look different, why wouldn't vaginas and vulvas, and NO not once did I think anything negative of her larger protruding labia minora.  It was just different, that's all.  Besides occasionally wondering about what men prefer, I'd say I have no issues with my small ALMOST non-existent labia minora.  I've always worried more about I'm thought of as a person than any one single body part of mine. I'd say, relax, enjoy your sex life, and besides...  your partner should care about and love YOU, not your body part.  That's like saying "she's great I'd date her but her elbows are a deal breaker"  What?  No.  Silly. 

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I'm a guy, and cannot maintain arousal when there is 'missing' labia minora. It's as if the normal desire does not trigger without that visual signal.
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I don't want to be crass, but it sounds like you have an absolutely BEAUTIFUL vulva. My wife is the same way--no labia minora, puffy majoras, and I find it to be the most perfect vulva I've ever laid eyes on. I spend so much time just staring at it. You're lucky!
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bennylava

from a guys perspective that sounds good not bad I don't think there's anything wrong with you you shouldn't worry unless it's causing you any pain or lack of sensation
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Evalu0074

I don't have labia minora either, just enormus mons pubis & fat puffy labia majora. I never thought about not having the inner lips, bc I was too busy stressing over my prominant vulva. Sex is awesome for me tho, I haven't had any partners complain about my sex either, in fact just the opposite. I think it really just matters about cleanliness and health. I am more confident now than I use to be and after reading/viewing various vaginas on the internet I am happy I got what I got. Good topic tho.
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I was also born the same way and I don't think there is anything to do but guys never really noticed the difference
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I was born without any labia minora, and actually I felt lucky I didn't feel like a freak at all! This is what other women have surgery to look like! :) it looks fresh young and not scary with labia minora stretchy, hanging down dark and un appealing in my opinion, men r visual creatures they say, my husband loves my neat tidy fresh looking private area. But we're all beautiful whatever the case, just b happy with what u have!
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After taking Arimidex for sev. years my inner labia vanished and I am itching lots and I know that when the Arimidex reduced my estrogen to prevent cancer again from breast tissues, it also did away with my labia minora. How long must this go on? It has been 2 years since I stopped arimidex and the labia minora have not came back. Will they ever come back?
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The same too u
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Just a quick question: does it interfere with oral sex? As my GF has a tiny labia and I sometimes need help opening the vagina, when one of my hands are busy trying to give her other pleasure. In other words, if I'm pulling the hood back from the top to expose the clitoris, and putting my finger in from the bottom. I have no way of spreading the majora. (I hope you understand what I'm asking, and if you know of any way I can do it without resorting to asking for help. As I would much rather her just lay back and enjoy it in total relaxation.
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How can she have a Orgasm without her clit on the surface and her labia Minora?

My labia minora left while I was on Arimidex to destroy estrogen from my breast cause I had breast cancer., what can I do to have my minora return?
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I NEED AN ANSWER TO MY ABOVE PROBLEM...ARIMIDEX DISSOLVED MY LABIA MINORA.....AND MY CLIT IS NOT AS IT WAS AND IS SMALLER....CAN I HAVE AN ORGASM? HOW? A ELECTRIC VIBRATOR?
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My wife has no discernable labia minora and I've never been able to see a clit in there at all.

The only problem that causes is me not being able to find a nice sensitive spot to play with. Licking the area where her clit is supposed to be produces very satisfactory results but single finger playing or rubbing is out. I have to flat rub the area with several fingers but it works. Of course the split finger technique is unaffected and still works as it should.

So basically the missing outward clit and inner lips only affect my gratification as I would like to have a nice clit to play with.
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Your vulva is many men and women’s dream… It’s commonly called “Barbie Doll”, which only showing a tight slit in the front. Yours is even better than most Barbie Dolls because of is complete closed even your thighs are wide open.
A few women I know had labiaplasty to reduce their inner labia...
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It doesn't turn me off. I've had a woman without labia and she was very sexually stimulated which turned me on.
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