I'm 17, have no illnesses I know of, don't take meds and physically quite fit (slightly overweight though). I almost never experience stress (at least that I'm aware of) because I'm quite laid back. I can easily orgasm when humping pillows for example but almost always seem to be able to masturbate for at least 10 minutes and not ejaculate at which point it becomes frustrating. Normal masturbation (stroking) also just doesn't feel satisfying for some reason.
Is there something wrong or is there something I can do to start orgasming form stroking? I really feel like this could be a problem in future romantic relationships.
Thanks in advance
Hey guest so first off how are you masturbating with the pillow, is your Penis pointing up towards your bellybutton or Down towards your feet? Are you circumcised and do you use lube ?
how long does it take you to orgasm humping the pillow because 10 min is not terribly long so you may need to give yourself more time with traditional masturbation
Mostly pointing down towards feet, I am not circumcised an do use lube when masturbating normally but not when rubbing against pillow.
Against Pillow it's a good 6 minutes so 10 minutes seemed like a long time to me.
Guess It's probably just trial and error.
Ok so what you are describing is prone Masturbation and while it can feel good it can over time cause decrease sensation and difficulty orgasming through traditional masturbation and sex. How many years have you been masturbating like this? Also are you able to easily pull back your foreskin and expose the head (glans) of your penis when erect?
I've been doing it for quite some years, that's why I asked here because I'm used to feeling satisfied quickly and normal masturbation just doesn't feel so fun and gives me almost no exciting sensation. When erect getting the foreskin pulled back is almost impossible and even when not erect is quite tight. I also feel like I am just not (big) long enough, as my hand almost completely covers it in its entirety when I grab hold of it erect.
Honestly pulling the foreskin back to expose the head almost feels like it hurts my foreskin and that it's going to tear. Not comfortable at all.
I've thought and the fact I can't pull it back is I think mainly because the foreskin is attached to the head with a little sliver of tissue in the middle on the very top just above the urethra. Should I honestly just find a way to go to the doctor (even though getting a visit during these times is very challenging?) I am actually starting to get frustrated and even slightly sad and feel like although I should visit a doctor I don't want my parents knowing why.
Any advice?
Hey it’s ok I totally get your frustration and you are definitely not alone with the right foreskin issue sometimes it loosens was you go through puberty and other times it requires steroid creams and stretching and as a last resort circumcision