anonymous wrote:
my experience was diffrent my gf would cum often many times it didnt even take 10min for her to come, she then just stopped for about three weeks now its stressing me out like you cant believe makes me feel like im nt doing my job right and i alway strive for exellent results especaly in the sex department. . . pleasE give me some advise plz
she was faking it and now she has tried letting you know its not working by not faking anymore, but she doesn't have the heart to tell you she wasn't really cumming. she is hoping you will do something different that will please her more. sorry. lots of girls fake it and don't know how to be honest because they don't want to hurt your feelings once they decide they want to stay in the relationship.
Proof that all women are HARDCORE liars!
first girl, i could easily make her squirt two or three times by goin down on her first before makin love to her.
second one didnt squirt but would pass out in a most happy state for a couple of hours while i made her dinner. now i have this dilemma that i cant even make this girl cum! not even once. going down on her wont help, she wants to make love but that doesnt seem to get her off entirely either and i´ve tried asking her to show me or tell me how she likes it but she doesnt know herself and its absolutely killin me since i´ve been trying to figure this out now for nearly 3 months now. i really dont give a rats ass if i get off myself but its important to me that i can keep HER satisfied! any suggestions? tried oral and much much foreplay, makin love and gettin abit rough aswell and nothing does the trick! and she wont tell me either nomatter how much i ask.
I am the only person who has given her an orgasm during sex. It just takes a bit more effort.
I can get her to orgasm by going really slow. Sounds weird, but if you go slow enough and never speed up, the body just wants more and more, but it doesn't get it. This will bring her to the point where giving her an orgasm is really easy. Unfortunately, this takes about 40 minutes, and is nearly unbearable.
The other way is to just screw her hard for 45+ minutes. Just have plenty of lube and get into a rhythm where you can go at it for a long time without getting tired. Unfortunately, you cannot do it but every couple days otherwise you might make her too raw.
The best way to keep your girl happy is plenty of oral sex...take your time kiss lick and tease before going further. Take time with foreplay and get her as excited as you are and you will know that you are on the right track.
The truth of the matter is some women may take a while to achieve orgasm during sex. In fact, it takes a women 20 minutes to get comfortable and all of her juices flowing. One thing that can help a woman achieve this is lots of foreplay. All women can orgasm vaginally and by clitoris. There are no exceptions unless the guy is either not familiar with her anatomy or the female is post-op.As a sex counselor there are plenty of books you can buy on cunilingus and sex. Another factor that comes into play is longevity. Doing the correct exercises to strengthen your pubbocoxygennus muscle will help as well. Another myth that many men let their ego believe is that not all women squirt. Although, this is another topic.
I am a 28 year old female and I have been sexually active for ten years. I didn't have my first orgasm until 4 years ago. I kind of had to learn how. It sounds weird, but I had to just learn how to let go of stress, life, worries, ect. and just live in the moment. Now that I do "live in the moment" I can have four or five orgasms in one sexual encounter. I always heard that sex gets better fowe women as they age, maybe it's true. Also, I recently started taking a medication that literally has a documented side effect of increased libido. I, very, very much experience that side effect. It's great! They shouldn't even be allowed to call it a side effect. Not only has it increased the intensity of my orgasms, I could have sex 3 times a day every day if my scheduled permitted it. And in the past couple of years since I have learned to orgasm, I have become a lot more open with my sexuality. I now own a large variety of vibrators, so I have something to use when my husband is out of town. But, there's nothing like the trial thing! I hope your girl can learn to just let go, relax and enjoy the ride! Good luck!
its more than just sex send her little love txts and when shes at work txt her and tell her how you are going to tear it up when she gets home fore play is more than just oral sex make her know how special she is and boom when you start she will immediately get an orgasam trust me it works
i'm not sure if i have made my girl friend cum, do girl's normally squirt when they cun or is it a little dribble of cum
i'm not sure if i have made mt girl friend cum. do girl's normally squirt there cum or is it a little dribble
i'm not sure if i have ever made my girl friend cum. when girl's cum do they normally squirt there cum or is a little bit of a dribble please can some one tell me because i'm not sure if i am doing it right i hope i am lol