I have the exact same problem, i was tested for intstacial cystitus but it came back negative and now no one knows whats wrong with me, i want my normal sex life back , it is nearly impossible for me to enjoy sex any more without having the feeling of needing to pee constantly/
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Okay this is going to gross all of you out...but...my Fiance found the best solution. We tried medicated condoms, lubricants, bath soaks, EVERYTHING to make my burning go away during and after sex. I would swell up and be irritated for several days after we had sex. Lubricant (astroglide mainly!!) made it burn WORSE during sex like alcohol! So one day....he used literally...his saliva instead. It worked wonders! It sound disgusting yes but I am telling you it doesn't burn and lubes you up enough for awhile and he will have to reapply some giving you a small break. Nasty I know but it REALLY WORKS!
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I've been having the same symptoms as you lot, I've got the burning but inside. The thing is I've been to my doctor and had all the swabs and tested negative for everything and they keep fobbing me off with steroid creams. I'm really worried about all this and I'm getting depressed over it. Someone help? :'(
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i have been having the same problem. it all started about 8 to 10 months ago when i got a urinary tract infection. Once that went away is when i started to get pain while having sex. i have been with my boyfriend for two years and never experianced it before until that infection which was after we had been for a year. Once my UTI went away i took another pee test to make sure it went away completely. The doctor said it was completely gone but i still had discomfort while having sex and not only during sex but the pain would never go away. i went to the doctor again every single month to see if i got a UTI again and every time i went in she said i did not have one. i got a pelvic exam and everything came back negative as well. last week which was about 9 months after my first UTI i actually had to leave school because my lower stomach (under my underwear line) hurt so bad. when i went to the bathroom my pee was blood. i went to the doctor immediatly and she said that i could have calcium in my bladder which would cause pain and blood. but that came back negative as well. they tested for a bladder infection and tested for something to be going on in my kidneys and those also came back negative. the doctors cant find anything wrong with me and have been looking for what could be wrong with me since june, but in june i was in a very bad car accident with my boyfriend (he was being a dumbass and hit someone going 90 mph) i was not buckled in and almost died. the doctors mentioned something about damaging the bladder or kidneys when we were in the accident. what could this be??? can anyone help me out? please? :'(
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I have the same problem. I have been married going on three years. About 6 months ago I started having burning during sex. So it has got to the point that I do not want sex anymore. I know that my husband is disappointed because we both want kids. I have went to like three doctors and all of them tells me I'm crazy or that they don't know what is wrong. The having sex to much part isn't a problem because he and I at the most have only had twice a week. If anyone has any suggestion please let me know.
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I have the same problem, but mine is not inside or around "the hole". My pain is around where I urinate. We can't even have oral sex because after ten minutes it starts to burn. My husband has dealt with this for over five years and I'm afraid he'll leave me if I can't fix it. I'm so depressed. I'm so embarrassed to go to the doctor again and tell him what is wrong with me. Does anyone have some suggestions? I've tried an antibiotic cream, Vaseline, and every lubrication in the pharmacy! Please help!!
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I have been having the same problem for a while now and i am going to a gynocologist soon. I would go because I went to a symptom checker and it said i could have an infection or cervical cancer. Although i did have the shot for it four years ago so it has to be something else. i got a pelvic exam and it was all negative, but staff did come up in my tests. does it burn when you go pee if you do not drink a lot of water? Even if it is not right after you have sex?
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I've been going through the sane burning sensation. My husband and I were highly active for the first year. Everyday active. We started to lower the frequency as it hurt too much for me. I spoke to a fee doctors and they asked the same questions that were posted. One though asked me if He was clean before sex? If our man doesn't really clean him self or if you have morning sex it can cause an issue. If your touching him prior to penetration, the dirt on your hands goes inside. This causes issues too. Also an unbalance inside causes burning as well. It's not that you're not wet enough it's that you're acidic. Try cleaning yourself with a vaginal cleaner int he shower every day. Have him clean himself as well. Also have him use intimate wipes on his penis prior to intercourse. Or make it an everyday habit. Chang e the detergent too. He could be having a reaction to it as well. It might be effecting you during intercourse. Lastly, do your Keigels. This helps tremendously. The burning will still occur for a while but keep cleaning. It will stop eventually. Now if you get frequent infections, like. Yeast infections. This will help with it. Continue with the medication though too. You has to kill it and then clean it out.
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Crazy you mention this and I am glad I'm not the only one that has this issue. This is EXACTLY the same situation I am in. My vagina seems to swell a bit after sex and it hurts temporarily, but enough to refuse sex (WHICH IS SAD). My secretion is very low and I am very dry. People have told me that it's due to birth control, but I've discontinued BC for a while and it's the same issue. I know its NOT a yeast infection or an STD. because I went at got a pap smear AND STD testing. TWICE to make sure the results were accurate. Eventually, I just gave up and stopped having sex with my bf.
But recently I took my mother on her annual woman's health appointment because I had to translate for her. To my disbelief my mother asked me to ask the doctor why she has secretion levels and sometimes it hurts, ect.
The doctor looked into and suggested that it is most likely that her estrogen levels are low (which CAN be pretty common) So he prescribed her estrogen medication. The problem with this for us is that unless we've had our uterus removed, our intake of estrogen dosage will increase your chances of cancerous cells.
Further to my recent research, I read about "Vaginal Atrophy" and it appears that their symptoms are very similar to what we have been experiencing.
In short,
Vaginal Atrophy is caused by low estrogen levels and thinning of our vaginal tissue (which is why I (assume) we have that temporary burning or discomfort after sex.
I know for a fact we do not have a UTI. a lot of people suggest UTI right away because pain during urination is the common symptom, but we wouldn't even be able to endure the pain associated with it for more than a day let alone MONTHS!
Anyway,
I am going to see a gyno, because it seems as though sex clinics do not have the proper resources when it comes down to more complex complications. Well I hope this helps and I'll let you know if I find a solution.
But recently I took my mother on her annual woman's health appointment because I had to translate for her. To my disbelief my mother asked me to ask the doctor why she has secretion levels and sometimes it hurts, ect.
The doctor looked into and suggested that it is most likely that her estrogen levels are low (which CAN be pretty common) So he prescribed her estrogen medication. The problem with this for us is that unless we've had our uterus removed, our intake of estrogen dosage will increase your chances of cancerous cells.
Further to my recent research, I read about "Vaginal Atrophy" and it appears that their symptoms are very similar to what we have been experiencing.
In short,
Vaginal Atrophy is caused by low estrogen levels and thinning of our vaginal tissue (which is why I (assume) we have that temporary burning or discomfort after sex.
I know for a fact we do not have a UTI. a lot of people suggest UTI right away because pain during urination is the common symptom, but we wouldn't even be able to endure the pain associated with it for more than a day let alone MONTHS!
Anyway,
I am going to see a gyno, because it seems as though sex clinics do not have the proper resources when it comes down to more complex complications. Well I hope this helps and I'll let you know if I find a solution.
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Just a small tip...helped us with same symptoms: "WET" makes a lubricant called "Beautifully Bare" and it's for sensitive skin. Made a big difference for a small price, but isn't a complete solution.
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I have the same problem, well i think its because of us too. We think of a lot of things it really affects the sex life coz the more u think and pressuring yourself how to reach your orgasm the more your body responses and you will definitely will not enjoy having sex. It really hurts and the pain is undescribable... I started experiencing this kind of pain when me and my bf had several fights and i dont feel loved by him though he denies it, it really affects because i dont feel the same urge of havng sex with him anymore not like before when we use to do it like 5 times a day it was really a great sex before until the pain accurs just recently... I always feel scared everytime we will do it coz i will think it will hurt like hell again after minutes and it will for sure coz im expecting it...i read a thread before that it is psychological.....the more u think and pressured u will definitely suffer from stinging and burning feeling while having sex.......try to relax sometimes when i can relax i can get a nice sex without the stingng and burning only for one round well at least :-)
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im having a little bit of the same problem. ive been sexually active for about a year. i hadnt had sex in about a month and before then everything was ok. then when i finally had sex again once we started there was a burning. it was on the outside of the entrace and on the inside. i kept going thinking it would get better but it never did. ive had quite a few utis recently and was told to urinate after sex so i went pee and it burned so bad i started to cry. now im afraid to had sex again and cant even masterbate because it burns. HELP!
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I have the same problem also. Me and my boyfriend has sex frequently, at least once every couple of days. at most twice a day. for about a month now sex has become painful for me. inside and out my vagina starts to burn and sting. it's swollen and feels almost raw sometimes. I've never experienced this before and I've been tested for stds. I feel better seeing I'm not the only one but nothing I've done has helped. any suggestions on what might make it bearable?
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I'm so glad im not the only one! I know thats harsh but i felt like such a freak:( Ive only ever been able to have proper sex once. So the only advice i can give is do it lying down on your side from behind and dont pause or stop! Hvae also tried simply trying to ignore the pain, but as you can appreaciate this is not easy:( I really wish someone would figure out what is actually wrong!
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look im not understanding all of this. my girlfriend has the same problem like 10 or 20 mintues into sex she says she cant do it anymore because its burning to bad... i understand that it is very painful and hurts her but i buggs the hell out of me. In the beginning it was perfect nothing wrong then all of a sudden there was a little burning then it just got to much for her. and idk what to do. i love her with all of my heart and would never leave her but it is just taking a toll on our sex life. i need some advice please help me
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