Do you ever get over sexual abuse?

Guest over a year ago

I know how you feel my stepdad sexual abuse me . it started when I was 12 and it didn't stop until a month be for myb24 birthday. My stepdad touched me and made me touch suck and rub his penis. He even put his finger in me. I'm 24 know and I struggle with feeling guilty and dirty and blame myself for what my stepdad did to me. Cause of what He did I don't trust people. I have sever anxiety and depression high suicidal thoughts And PTSD

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Guest over a year ago

I know how you feel. The guilt, anxiety and depression are all so debilitating. Plus, I do not trust a single man out there and I probably never will.

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Guest over a year ago

Hey know this post was over a year ago but how are you doing?

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Guest over a year ago

I was sexually abused when I was about 5 years old until about 10. I tried to tell my mom what was happening and she told me i was lying. I am now 26 and still struggle with it on a daily basis. I have been to therapy and opened up about it to my fiancé. He thinks I should just get over it. But it is so much harder than that. It’s hard to reverse that much pain.

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Guest over a year ago

Yes I was sexually assault by two of my uncles I did not need therapy I learned how to leave that at side as I grew up it has not affected me or my sexual life with my partner it is something you will never forget but definitely was able
to overcome as I'm thinking now sooner or later I was going to know what sex really was and I see it different because with my husband we have a good sexual relationship and it feels great because at the end of the day your having her with who you really love everyone has different opinions

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Guest over a year ago

This is true
Preach !

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Guest over a year ago

From experience, you may heal physically but emotionally it will stay with you for years. At age 16-18 I was sexually abused by my boyfriend. He raped me when I was conscious at least 10 times. Most people think sexual abuse is just rape but it comes in many forms. My boyfriend would force his hands in my pants and touch me until I would be crying. Both boys and girls can go through this but no one will ever completely forget what happened to them. Sadly Most girls in relationships go through this at least once which is awful (boys can too). If this is happening to you please tell your parents or someone you trust it only can get worse from the first time...

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Guest over a year ago

I am so sorry this happened to you! I wish everyone would have listened to you- but it’s not too late. You can still pursue justice, he doesn’t deserve to get away with it! Makes me so angry, hardly any victims get justice... I did get some- and at least I will never have to see him ever again, that would be so hard!!!!

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Guest over a year ago

We've all had it happen in many different ways. I had it with my former in laws and my ex. Former mother in law glad that I was more busty than her and the other in laws. I ended up in divorce over it. Even the ones we come to trust to protect us have sexually abused us. I got raped and molested by a Sheriff in my hometown back in 1997. Sometimes you need the right boyfriend.

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