right here goes...
im 21 and have had a partner for 7 months... the other nite we wer in bed and i asked him to put it in my ass.... wen he did i immediatley felt sick and dizzy... why was this??? i got the feelin i wanted to push against it... is this normal???
i then bought some lubrication thinking our next time would be way better... but now am too nervous to try because i heard the girl can have a poop during it.... oh my god plz help im sooooo nervous....
hes really understandin and tells me we dont have to do it but i want to, im just a little clueless at this sort of thing..... :-(
im 21 and have had a partner for 7 months... the other nite we wer in bed and i asked him to put it in my ass.... wen he did i immediatley felt sick and dizzy... why was this??? i got the feelin i wanted to push against it... is this normal???
i then bought some lubrication thinking our next time would be way better... but now am too nervous to try because i heard the girl can have a poop during it.... oh my god plz help im sooooo nervous....
hes really understandin and tells me we dont have to do it but i want to, im just a little clueless at this sort of thing..... :-(
In order to have full penetration anal, the penis or object must go past the sphincter which can cause some severe pain if not properly prepared. Next time have him start with a finger USING LUBE and lots of it, then use 2 fingers more lube, 3rd finger more lube, each time you do this don't go to the next level until you are used to it and are comfortable, after the 3rd finger is added you should be used to the width and properly lubed, if not DO NOT FORCE IT! it can cause major pain and some bad bleeding...try explaining that to a doctor.
as in prep work for yourself clean up and out if possible. Shower cleaning that area as best you can. Take a dump before the shower, and if possible use a enema to clean out excess waste, this will make it less likely to poop when he pulls out. And also be forewarned farting happens, that air is pushed in during so it's expected.
Last bit of advice, USE A CONDOM!!! that area is a waste factory for a reason...have him change his condom immediately before he goes back to vaginal insertion you dont need that bacteria in there.
so, clean up and out, slow down, properly stretch and lubricate, and condom usage, then enjoy :-)
as in prep work for yourself clean up and out if possible. Shower cleaning that area as best you can. Take a dump before the shower, and if possible use a enema to clean out excess waste, this will make it less likely to poop when he pulls out. And also be forewarned farting happens, that air is pushed in during so it's expected.
Last bit of advice, USE A CONDOM!!! that area is a waste factory for a reason...have him change his condom immediately before he goes back to vaginal insertion you dont need that bacteria in there.
so, clean up and out, slow down, properly stretch and lubricate, and condom usage, then enjoy :-)
i`m no expert in these sort of things, never done anal, but i hear there are certain types of fiber based foods that are indicated to eat a day or 2 before, and after you poop you`ll be clean in there.