this happened to me just a few hours ago, i've fingered her many times, and everytime we dry hump i have an erection, but as soon as im about to put it in, my erection goes away. very embarrassing,i need tips guys
Good thread same thing happened to me.
I was about to have sex with a girl for the first time, so I as nervous, + I hadn't slept for like 24 hours. It was hard at first but then the condom came out and it went down. Very embarrassing but good to know I'm not the only one
I was about to have sex with a girl for the first time, so I as nervous, + I hadn't slept for like 24 hours. It was hard at first but then the condom came out and it went down. Very embarrassing but good to know I'm not the only one
I have been with my girlfriend for a while now, and i am fairly experienced with sexual activities. We have done everything except for sex, and the other night when we tried i couldn't get an erection. I have never had erection problems, just when i'm bout to have sex i can't get a full erection that lasts. She gave me a ha****b 10 minutes earlier and i was very nervous, so maybe that combination wasn't good, but are there any tips on how to stop this problem from occurring?
thats the same thing happened to me too....yesterday ...it was soo embrassing....... i couldnt even do anything she was gettinng too uncomfortable...watever i do or she does it would nt wake up.......she stopped having sex with me..only...may be next time it would be better...i feel that i didnt lose my virginity yet......
i ve done with a hot girl friend yesterday..n im too pretty handsome so...i was pretty comfortable..... ... i but i never got an erection and couldnt feel anything...even by kissing her...it was just like rather kissing a wall...or even worse.i tried hard but never even got the mood to do it.....it was too embrassing when she was asking to pump her n i couldnt it was worse.. ....now she thinks theres some prob with me...now worst...its nice to find that its natural....dont know what will happen next time.......... or she would be disappointed too much....
i ve done with my hot girl friend yesterday..n im too pretty handsome so...i was pretty comfortable..... ... i but i never got an erection and couldnt feel anything...even by kissing her...it was just like rather kissing a wall...or even worse.i tried hard but never even got the mood to do it.....it was too embrassing when she was asking to pump her n i couldnt it was worse.. ....now she thinks theres some prob with me...now worst...its nice to find that its natural....dont know what will happen next time.......... or she would be disappointed too much....
i think first time boy have sex mind will deactivate the sex feelings for some boys...or something...can any one tell whats that called?
ok the same thing happened to me a few hours ago... we took it nice and slow with the foreplay and i have her moaning using my mouth and fingers. when im about to get down to business first off i notice im not even fully erect. second i notice that no matter what i do i cant get it up. even with her help(kissing rubbing me and grinding on me) i couldnt get erect enough... but just writing this down is relieving i think next time i will have to confidence to do the job right ill just make sure i have plenty of sleep and energy stored up and make sure im 100% confident ... p.s. i think i got lucky because she thought the condom was just to small for me anyways thanks guys this has definitely given me a confidence boost
haha same here man jus had sex with my gf 4 the first time and i culdnt get it up 4 ntn we kissed she stroked it even a lil blowjob and it still didnt get all the way up lol soon as i put it in her bye bye boner
You will usually lose your erection because you are really nervous. Ask her to get up for you either by hand or oral. Also try to remember that your about to screw a/your sexy girl. This would happen to my friend and I, but we figured out ways to get by.
This same thing happened to me tonight! It was my first timeand I was
so hot and nervous that right when I put the condom on, I lost my erection, I was soo embarrased that I was disguisted with myself. I'll see if I succeed if she performs oral on me first next time
so hot and nervous that right when I put the condom on, I lost my erection, I was soo embarrased that I was disguisted with myself. I'll see if I succeed if she performs oral on me first next time
Hey, just wanted to let you guys know about my first time, about 12 hours ago. I searched to make sure that it was "normal" to not have a full erection before your first time having intercourse. I had received oral sex with my partner many times before, and that usually went well, meaning she did all the work for me to reach orgasm. But my first time having actual intercourse, when the condom went on, my erection went from full fledged salute, down to about 2/3. It was still up there, but not quite as hard and firm as it was right before. We had sex twice, once at about 12, then again at about three. At 12, I lasted around a whole 60 seconds, haha.. but the second time, at about three, I was unable to achieve orgasm, and felt my penis become no longer erect, whilst inside. I was extremely nervous, and the only reason I enjoyed it the first time, was I went rather fast when I got in. I think the lesson I learned was, once I got to the point where I has about to have intercourse for the first time, I had a million thoughts running through my head, making it difficult to maintain a full erection. My second time, I had already experienced it, and was still thinking of all the same things, what if the condom tears, what if she doesn't enjoy it, what if it slips off.. ect.
The next time I have intercourse, I will try to put all these thoughts aside. As a mid aged teenager(I am now 20) I always imagined it would just feel fantastic once I was inside and that would be that. Once I actually got to sex, I have now realized its not a magical "you stick your penis in and presto" experience, rather it requires work on both ends, a general understanding of the sex process in general from both parties, and a mindset that does not worry about every possible worst case scenario outcome while you are having intercourse. She is on the pill, and I used a condom. I personally suffered from being too nervous about my first time, and all the possible things that could go wrong. Hopefully this helps somebody understand that they are not alone in not enjoying their first time 100%. Don't get me wrong, it was great, just not what I expected, mostly due to my frantic mindset.
The next time I have intercourse, I will try to put all these thoughts aside. As a mid aged teenager(I am now 20) I always imagined it would just feel fantastic once I was inside and that would be that. Once I actually got to sex, I have now realized its not a magical "you stick your penis in and presto" experience, rather it requires work on both ends, a general understanding of the sex process in general from both parties, and a mindset that does not worry about every possible worst case scenario outcome while you are having intercourse. She is on the pill, and I used a condom. I personally suffered from being too nervous about my first time, and all the possible things that could go wrong. Hopefully this helps somebody understand that they are not alone in not enjoying their first time 100%. Don't get me wrong, it was great, just not what I expected, mostly due to my frantic mindset.
Yeah it was my first time last saturday. I couldnt get it up either. I got it semi-errection and had intercourse with her for a bit but when it feel out were i came back to much it just quickly went down. So i just pleasured her by oral and my fingers :-P. I think it was probably nerves but I DIDNT FEEL NERVOUS! I felt very relaxed and just wonted to do it. I wasted 3 condoms! Hopefully i will be able to get it up next time. Im going to try more foreplay next time as i did semi-have it up a bit before when we were foreplaying. Good luck guys! :-)
Holy sh*t im glad i found this site. Just a couple of hours ago i had the same problem. When we were kissing i was harder than stone. But as i was about to put on the condom my penis just went dead. Hopefully next time it will work better. I was nevous like hell.
It's so f*****g embarrassing. After convincing her, i worked my way from sucking her nipples, to fingering her. Then she started jacking me off. Which felt good for a little while, but she seemed to have no clue whats she's doing. So i let that slide, at that point i wasn't even fully hard more like a firm-Semi. We started deep kissing, and played with each other. Then it came down to it, we nodded and turn on the lights to go find one of my brothers condoms. After a while, i finally found it and then when it came time to put the condom on, I completely went flat. Nothing, NADA. We tried making it work, kissing, playing etc. Nothing but a softy. I was so embarrassed i just convinced her that now wasn't the time, and maybe it was a sign. She agreed. We started making out etc. I'm extremely insecure about my body, let alone my penis size. Perhaps that's the reason. Either way I'm still a virgin, and we agreed to make-up for it on Christmas Eve. I only have a few days, what if this happens again? She says she doesn't care, and that she doesn't see me any differently but i feel if i don't satisfy her soon, she will become disappointed and drift apart. RAWR. Ironic enough, I get super hard when we aren't doing anything at all. Even if its just sitting down! Why is this happening, will i have to resort to Viagra or some-kind of super-Pill?! We are getting tested this Thursday. :O Is there anyway a girl can get pregnant even if i just brushed against her? Not sperm but like Pre-cum. Thanks in advance.
Curse you Human Organ System! xO
Curse you Human Organ System! xO