My girl loves anal. She says the orgasm is more intense and she actually squirts when we do it.
I tried mutual anal masturbation the other night with my boyfriend the problem is he really enjoyed it and came very hard all over,unfortunately it rather painful for me even using a small toy for penetration. I want to enjoy anal stimulation and eventually to enjoy my mans penis up my ass, he wants us to have anal sex and so do i as i want all my body to be for his oleasure. So I was wondering if anybody had any tips on how to enjoy anal penetration more.
The answer is Yes, women can come just by anal intercourse. I was lucky to have a female partner who could, and have spoke to female friends who confirmed it as well.
Perhaps not all women can because of mental barriers; to some it goes against their views/beliefs and cannot relax and enjoy it. Other times their partners cannot perform it in a way that is pleasurable for both of them. It takes time, some patience and caring for your partner - and some men just care about their own pleasure.
We would only start anal after she had at least one orgasm by other means (manual stimulation, clitorial or vaginal), that way she was relaxed and also anal seemed to be a lot better for her.
She would described it as different from the other 2 (clitorial or vaginal), which means she could orgasm through 3 different ways and all of them were slightly different from each other.
As for cuming, I'm not sure what you're asking - she would orgasm just with anal alone but she did not squirt, for that you have to stimulate a different area.
Best results (with my partner) were when (and this is the only way I can describe it) I tried to stimulate her G-spot doing anal. I don't know if that's possible but that was the angle that produced better results.
Hope it was helpful.
Perhaps not all women can because of mental barriers; to some it goes against their views/beliefs and cannot relax and enjoy it. Other times their partners cannot perform it in a way that is pleasurable for both of them. It takes time, some patience and caring for your partner - and some men just care about their own pleasure.
We would only start anal after she had at least one orgasm by other means (manual stimulation, clitorial or vaginal), that way she was relaxed and also anal seemed to be a lot better for her.
She would described it as different from the other 2 (clitorial or vaginal), which means she could orgasm through 3 different ways and all of them were slightly different from each other.
As for cuming, I'm not sure what you're asking - she would orgasm just with anal alone but she did not squirt, for that you have to stimulate a different area.
Best results (with my partner) were when (and this is the only way I can describe it) I tried to stimulate her G-spot doing anal. I don't know if that's possible but that was the angle that produced better results.
Hope it was helpful.
I think you mean "If you're 18...".
Try a penis in there... Me an my 16yo girlfriend do anal regulary an she has an orgasm just from anal more often than not, I'm not small in size an I must admit she hated the thought of it an doing it the first two times but one moment on the third time when I wasn't moving at all just letting her get use to it being in her ass, she started doing the working an pushing back till I was told to f**k her.... On my own experiences with her, take ur time use lots of lube, let the girl lead an ull get all the best results ;)... I f**k her in the ass everytime we have sex now an I'm not gentle anymore she loves it
You have to lube it up a lot, p***y juice works best then stick the very tip in take it out lube it again and repeat the process sticking in a tiny bit at a time. If you feel pain stop and continue to the point where it started hurting. The key is to make sure the entire penis is moist as it goes in, it's a pretty slow start but can go as fast and hard once comfortable. Also being on top keeps you in control of how much goes in at a time and how fast, he may get anxious to just stick it in but will be gratefully for the reward. And depending on how much you get into it, it can be extremely pleasurable. I have a very low pain tolerance and the first time we did anal this way I got to enjoy it get it in all the way, then I had an anal orgasm without any vaginal stimulation, which was a completely wonderful surprise. I had tried many times to do anal with him, but just couldn't get past the pain and discomfort, but I wanted to please him in every way and this was something he really wanted to do. He hasn't cum in my ass yet, but I assume it will be messy as usual. - By the way guys, if you want to get her to begin enjoying anal this is the best way, because she can control how much she can handle, just make sure it gets continuously lubed all over so it removes discomfort as it goes in so more can go in at a time.
I (straight male, 22) have only little experience on the subject. I enjoy having my anus toyed with (either with fingers or toys) a lot, but never came close to orgasm by anal stimuli alone. Being "plugged" certainly increases the intensity of having intercourse or masturbating, though. That makes it quite a bit harder to control my orgasm - although it's almost never a real issue, since my fiancée is very swift to get to her orgasm, mostly more than once.
We've played around with each others' butts a while, using small and medium buttplugs to evoke pleasure and intensify vaginal intercourse. Having a small vibrator vaginally has shown to alleviate discomfort if she feels any.
Penetration with my penis is, however, a little different since it is bigger, not nearly as tapered and, no matter how much lube you use (on top of a condom), not as smooth and slippery as a toy. It might hurt after a time for her - probably too soon for either of us to achieve an orgasm - and has to be done very slowly. That's part of the reason we only rarely try actual anal intercourse.
Recently, however, I managed for her to have an orgasm exclusively by anal stimulation with my tongue. First time that this happened to her. I played with and licked her clitoris and labiae before that a little until I noticed she was veeery sensitive in the anal region that night. I like giving oral sex, I don't really care if vaginal or anal.
She'd just taken a shower and was feeling comfortable within her bowels - if your bowels are unsettled or you feel pressure in your final digestive parts it often reduces the pleasure you feel and makes you uneasy about having your partner play with you that way.
The technique is called "rimming"/"rimjob" as you generally lick around the sensitive muscular ring of the sphincter. You can also try to insert your tongue as far as possigle - which is not very far at all - since it is probably the smoothest, best lubed and most flexible thing you're able to insert. Be aware that there might be traces of feces caught in the sphincter's folds, however, depending on time passed since last bowel movement and cleaning.
I figured that I'd try to get her to an anal orgasm and voilà, it took a while and was very stressful for my tongue and neck (weird angles), but I feel that it was worth it. I did use my hands to massage and straddle her buttocks and thighs, but left her vaginal area untouched. That could even have resulted in overstimulation.
I consider this a good sign that she'll be no less willing to work on anal intercourse than before.
We've played around with each others' butts a while, using small and medium buttplugs to evoke pleasure and intensify vaginal intercourse. Having a small vibrator vaginally has shown to alleviate discomfort if she feels any.
Penetration with my penis is, however, a little different since it is bigger, not nearly as tapered and, no matter how much lube you use (on top of a condom), not as smooth and slippery as a toy. It might hurt after a time for her - probably too soon for either of us to achieve an orgasm - and has to be done very slowly. That's part of the reason we only rarely try actual anal intercourse.
Recently, however, I managed for her to have an orgasm exclusively by anal stimulation with my tongue. First time that this happened to her. I played with and licked her clitoris and labiae before that a little until I noticed she was veeery sensitive in the anal region that night. I like giving oral sex, I don't really care if vaginal or anal.
She'd just taken a shower and was feeling comfortable within her bowels - if your bowels are unsettled or you feel pressure in your final digestive parts it often reduces the pleasure you feel and makes you uneasy about having your partner play with you that way.
The technique is called "rimming"/"rimjob" as you generally lick around the sensitive muscular ring of the sphincter. You can also try to insert your tongue as far as possigle - which is not very far at all - since it is probably the smoothest, best lubed and most flexible thing you're able to insert. Be aware that there might be traces of feces caught in the sphincter's folds, however, depending on time passed since last bowel movement and cleaning.
I figured that I'd try to get her to an anal orgasm and voilà, it took a while and was very stressful for my tongue and neck (weird angles), but I feel that it was worth it. I did use my hands to massage and straddle her buttocks and thighs, but left her vaginal area untouched. That could even have resulted in overstimulation.
I consider this a good sign that she'll be no less willing to work on anal intercourse than before.
cool!!! an i f**k your wifes ass while you shag her p***y? this toy nonsense is unneeded!!! its not lke cheating or anything as ou are in this 3sum!!!!!
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yes...i had anal sex for many times and at first i hate it cause i used to tightened my anal muscells and never let them become relax and the thing you should pay attention to is first lubricant your anal very well with oil enter ur anal very very very slowly and let it open and sleep in the doggy position..my boy friend do it very well and if ur ass open u reach and amazing orgasm that u had never imagined...if u masturbating its better if you do it with anal dildos and if u didnt reach let a boy do this with you ...because u can't guys are better in anal sex..trust me..if you do it drunk its really really better....
My husband and i both love anal sex... It gets pretty intense.. I have found that i will have an anal orgasm... Its definitely something that i cant explain.. But just like the vaginal wall has rhythmic pulsation and contraction and an over numbing and warm feeling all over.. Same feeling around the anus.... Its quite awesome
hello im a lady who lives on my own i am widowed and i seek sexual satisfaction from masturbation. ive been told to experiment with different toys in different shapes and sizes with flavoured lubricunt, however i personally found myself anally satified with many kitchen appliances such as hand whisks wooden spoons and a part of my blender (not the blade) i was just asking if this is healthy for my anus due to my violent masturbation and age ive been constipated and was wondering if i should seek medical advise from my doctor. if he says i should stop, how do i? its got to an addictive stage of up to 7 times a day. should i be worried about my addiction, afterall i could jam one of my kitchen appliances up my anus. Should i seek profesional help? Yours sincerly, Mildred Taylor
when you reach the point where more cum comes out and you ejaculate and you feel relived and not sexuaLLY fustrated hope this helps