i have this same problem. it's known as vaginismus . it IS treatable. i haven't tried the treatment yet , as i have only finally figured out what is wrong. i thought i was just abnormal. this does happen to OTHER WOMEN. don't worry. i waited 15 years to figure out what this was. i had just given up on having a normal sex life, but now that i know what it is i can get treatment.
You're 16, dammit. you shouldn't be having sex yet.
Suck his penis first for a few minutes so his penis is wet. Get it really really wet with your saliva don't worry about too much drool, then have him get on top of you and make sure his penis is still wet and HARD, casually lick your fingers to wet the lips of your vagina and guide his penis into you. This should be done quickly to prevent him from becoming soft due to nervousness or whatever. Once he has the tip of the penis in grind your hips into his penis and you will be good money don't use a condom until you are experienced enuff to keep a guy hard no matter what. Wear sexy bed outfits (Victoria secret ) is great at that and just be seductive and sexy in the bedroom
i'm 16 myself, and I lost my virginity when I was 15, the first time I tried to lose it I had the same problem. I figured out that if I don't finger myself before losing my virginity the vagina will not know how to loosen so that the penis can insert. so try to do that awhile before losing it. :)
Yes, Yes, yes. Take this advise girl. I also had to wait for my man before doing it. i only started having S** when I was 25.
God will honour you, you will honour yourself and your man will honour you at the end. DO NOT HAVE S** NOW, YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG.
God will honour you, you will honour yourself and your man will honour you at the end. DO NOT HAVE S** NOW, YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG.
You don't know what to do? Are you married to this guy? If not, don't do it, unless you're a s***.
Listen, Its not you , its him , he probably doesn't have proper techniques . Im a guy , a good guy ,,, and my objectives are : (1) Make her feel really good , (2) Have Fun , (3) And make it so she'll remember it,,,,,,,, Plus , ask yourself ,, are they that great in "statis quo"? Did they use a lubricant?
try fingering your self it might help...
hey i agree with ya the boys are so stupid
Don't be embarrassed about this...I couldn't even get a tampon into my vagina for the longest time lol Have you ever tried foreplay...like having the guy finger you? He should do that for a while before trying to have sex with you, I know a finger is smaller than a penis, but it will help to stretch you out & then he will most likely be able to get 2 fingers. Make sure to use some type of lubricant...most condoms have lube on them already, but if it doesn't work then use KY gel. You need to be relaxed, because if you're nervous & tensed up then your vagina muscles will be tensed up too. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend & my first time I was completely relaxed & we used a condom with lube on it...he was able to slide right in & it was painless (:
You def need to try and relax yourself . If you are truley concernced, ask your parents or even go by yourself to a OBGYN
Well we all know what the bible says about sex before marriage... (it has to do with stones)... So don't go off on some theological rant about abstinence in all caps unless you understand that the bible prohibited sex before marriage and had a severe punishment for it. I rather doubt that you would be willing to bring to fruition God's perfect justice, but no one is anyone to judge anybody else's values or ethics.(period).
I don't know what bible you are reading but mine doesn't say any such thing.
I believe Paul said to the Corinthians "if you behave yourself uncomely toward your virgin, you should marry her".
When Jesus came upon a group stoning a woman, he stopped them.
It also says that God forgives ALL sins.
I guess the God I believe in is somewhat kinder than yours.
I believe Paul said to the Corinthians "if you behave yourself uncomely toward your virgin, you should marry her".
When Jesus came upon a group stoning a woman, he stopped them.
It also says that God forgives ALL sins.
I guess the God I believe in is somewhat kinder than yours.
Good job keep doing
say to ur bf to lick ur vagina so hardly....then stretch it.....and then push