how can u knw if its broke or not when u lookin wit a mirrow. ? does alot of blood come out
It hurts oooo.......i tried 4 times already...my boyfriend till now cant fully penetrate me..and i masturbate frequently too..hmmmm....but hopefully u are the lucky ones that do not experience any pain..but if u can wait for marriage would be good..i wanted to but well..........
im so ready to have sex. but is that what i really feel or is it just the impression that i am. i dnt really know to be honest. and thts why i want to wait a lil while longer. i really want to wait til after marrige but idk if i can. its so hard but thts because of these friggen hormones. lol. so basically all im doin is tryin to research as much as i can about it and decide then.
well i just lost my virginity a year ago and im 16...it did not hurt;; but im on my second partner/boyfriend;; and our first time doin together it hurt so bad;; so i guess it doesnt alwaysz hurt the first time...heyy when it hurts itsz more pleasurable to me.. :-D
well how would you be able to tell if it is broke or not?
sex is for when u are married!
i am a 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and he had sex 2 times already and im still a virgin but we want to take our relationship further.as in having sex.but i dont know how to prepare myself for that.i dont have a mom so i cant talk to anyone about this.i need to know how to prepare myself for this. do i shave down there?do we talk it out first?im so scared and nervous.but i know this is what i want.
someone help me please. :cry:
someone help me please. :cry:
Hi am 19 yrs old this year and am doing my second year @ uj, i lost my virginity last year decemeber but it was not planned we wer just kissing nad touching up untill we reached that point den i had to decide by den actually i dd not think carefully but the decission that i took was relevent for that moment,i just wanted to get done with the issue of when should i lose my virginity what will happen and all that , bt it was not a mistake the feelings, the mood it really felt like it is the right moment.k i was so scared cos it did not know what to expect , it took me close to ten minutes to make peace with my thoughts that i have to let the penis inside my vigina i could not believe it was me and it was happening, it was painful for me as he tried to penetrate it was really painful, but he also struggle to break the hymen or insert it to the very end.well it finally happend after that tried to get used to the movement but i could not keep up but the pain faded away eventually i enjoyed and i did not bleed because he was gently and patient with me.it was really good i only realised two days after that i actually had fun we were safe coz we used a condom,and he is also 20yrs so i gues a guy of my age dose it for me.1 advice experience differs enjoy the is no correct time to lose you virginity but wait atleast to reach 18 or be @ the higher grade
The first time wuz painful, yet the pain went away after a couple minutes then as he went slower it felt better. People say wait for the right person. I agree and disagree to that well i like it lol it wuz a thrilling experience.
there was a lot of pain as he entered me, but once he was inside it wasn't too bad unless he pushed too deep. you just need to take it very slowly and use a lot of lube. don't expect too much pleasure the first time on the girls behalf
Okae Wen i first lost mi v card .... it kinda hurted the 1st time bhut den like after the first couple of strokes it started feelinqq good !!
i mean like its different for everybody and me i was feeling pressured sum what bhut then more and more we spent time together i stopped beinqq nervous around him !
bhut its best to jhuss wait if yur not ready and take yhur time
i always used a hatt too no matter what cause ion have time to beh takinqq care of a baby in im still in skool !
In I Mean yhu have to take yhur time and go slo if its yhur first time cause thats wat i did :-)
Wen He First pushed it in their i literally dugg my hands in his skin thats how bad it hurted :-(
bhut i told him like babe take it slo cause im not sure if yhur gonna pop mi cherry or not and yhur hurting meh so we went real slo and then i gott uncomfortable and stopped !!! ;-)
i mean like its different for everybody and me i was feeling pressured sum what bhut then more and more we spent time together i stopped beinqq nervous around him !
bhut its best to jhuss wait if yur not ready and take yhur time
i always used a hatt too no matter what cause ion have time to beh takinqq care of a baby in im still in skool !
In I Mean yhu have to take yhur time and go slo if its yhur first time cause thats wat i did :-)
Wen He First pushed it in their i literally dugg my hands in his skin thats how bad it hurted :-(
bhut i told him like babe take it slo cause im not sure if yhur gonna pop mi cherry or not and yhur hurting meh so we went real slo and then i gott uncomfortable and stopped !!! ;-)
It f*****g hurt so bad! i was crying during the whole thing. It was this burning pain, but after a while it started to feel good. If you still have your hymen it will hurt, and you will bleed... but you will like it after a while.
But don't do anything rational think before you do this, you can't just like someone and do it with them.
I thought i liked the guy and now i cry to myself and think why did i do this? it was the biggest mistake of my life
and he told all his friends that we screwed... all of his friends started asking me if i would do the same
But don't do anything rational think before you do this, you can't just like someone and do it with them.
I thought i liked the guy and now i cry to myself and think why did i do this? it was the biggest mistake of my life
and he told all his friends that we screwed... all of his friends started asking me if i would do the same
well lots of ppl welll lots of young teenagers be tlkin bout they want to have sexd becuz many of their friends are having sex.....really to see how it feel yhu gotta try it for your self and not listen to wat other ppl tell you about it XD
I had my first time about 8 months ago. It doesn't really hurt. Even if it does, its just for a while. After that, you will feel good and want more.