How to get rid of fordyce spots without a surgery?

mmm very true about the make up. The more I thought about it, the less I liked it.

And yes, I agree they are really nothing to worry about. I would say most guys and girls have some and its something to just accept.

Yes, just as medic-dan and kingfreze already told you, those spots are common in men and women of all ages. I was struggling with the same "problem" last year. I thought there was something wrong with my boyfriend, so I scared him out too. 8-| That was totally unnecessary! You should just accept them as normal part of your body. There's no need to run to a plastic surgeon for every single detail you dislike on your body. And I loved Kingfrieze's idea about genital make up! :-D So hilarious, now I can't stop imagining those scenes... XD

Haha, I truly thought it was a good idea at the time :$

Dan summed it up well, just how would you explain the make up stains on your underwear. Well, either a) you was following my advice, or b) you had loads of fun... and I know which conclusion most people would jump to 8-|.


You two should join us over at the comedy club. We need some new talent :-) :-)

i have these please help

i am 15 years old . i have the same problem .. well i wouldnt call it  a problem as 80% to 90 % of men have fordyce spots 
fordyce spots can appear in the mouth - around the nipple and in the penis . 
i have fordyce spots on the left side of my penis more than the right side,less above than the downside i spoke with a doctor before and he told me that they will never go . that was 4 years ago but now as you can see there is anti+sebum .

i dont know for sure if it works cuz i didnt use it yet .    i have a question : can a 15 years old use anti+sebum ?

I know this conversation is well over but i need to ask a question . do these spots disapear eventuallly ? please write back .

I don't remember a time when I didn't have FS.  They didn't really used to bother me when I was little, they were just there, but as I grew older, they started to bother me an awful lot.

I remember the last time I was on one of these threads.  I was like most of you: f*****g terrified.  I had a certain lady friend, and I wanted to have sex more than anything, I was just so embarrassed.  I would sometimes cry out of pure frustration at how shitty my situation was.  Whenever my lady friend tried to go down on me, or just touch/see/come into contact with my penis, I'd somehow stop her, whether it was going to the toilet, or going down on her instead, it isn't that hard, girls understand that we sometimes might not want them down there.

I'm pleased to tell you that at the age of fourteen, I did in fact lose my virginity.  Did I tell her about my FS?  f**k no!  I was still terrified.  But the point is, I managed sex.  My policy was basically don't go near her without a condom on.  She couldn't and didn't notice, and we continued having occasional sex (we rarely got the chance) for about 3/4 of a year.  Guys, I was getting laid, for nearly a year, without even telling her.

Our sex-life was a little unfulfilled, though.  I mean, she'd never given me a blowjob, never put the condom on, never tossed me off.  My penis had pretty much only touched her p***y.  She really wanted to go down on me, and one day, I just plucked up the courage and explained that there were 'these little bumps' that were a puberty thing, and they don't actually do anything, so there's no treatment for them, so I just have to live with them.  My voice was shaking, my heart was beating so fast, I was so f*****g nervous.

Then, she kissed me on the lips, kissed down my neck, chest, and stomach, and went down on me.  It was awesome, man.

I think it's safe to say that she doesn't give the slightest f**k.  We have a great sex life, and the fact that there are little bumps on my penis makes no difference.  I'm still a little self-conscious, don't get me wrong, I like the room to be relatively dark etc. but the point is, I just went for it, confessed why I refused blowjob after blowjob, and it was one of the best decisions of my life.

My girlfriend is f*****g gorgeous, if she wanted a guy without FS, she could within the blink of an eyelid.  But she doesn't, because it doesn't matter to her.  Sex is nothing like porn, human beings aren't perfect.  In fact, I think it probably makes her feel a little less insecure about her insecurities, the fact that neither of us are perfect (although she is pretty close).  

I'm now sixteen, happily in love, with a great sex life.  But most importantly: I still have FS.  It's not FS that make you miserable, it's yourself.  

So please, please, please, don't bother melting your penis away with chemicals (believe me I've tried) and just tell the girl.  Or if you really, really don't want to, try and do what I did.  It'd work great for one night stands/flings.  You could even try some "tonight's gonna be all about you" sh*t, I don't know.  Basically, take the lead, go down on her lots, ask her if she wants you to put on a condom, "yes," put it on, have sex, pull out, put your pants back on quickly, and basically don't get into the situation where she's trying to go down on you.  If you can pleasure her well enough with your tongue and/or fingers, you'll be fine, and she won't even need to see your penis.  

I would really, really recommend just telling her, though, I promise it'll be worth it.

I'd be overjoyed knowing that this got through to just one person.  So please take my advice.  I was in your exact position.  There is just no f*****g point waiting around for some magic cure.  Unless you have £5000 spare and fancy going to Holland for possibly penis-destroying surgery, then you're probably going to have to learn to put up with it, just like me.  Make the most of your life: you won't be young again.

Try and remember that you are one of seven billion people, on one of our solar system's eight planets, in one of our galaxies' billions of solar systems, in one of the universe's trillions of galaxies.  

You're pretty damn insignificant.

So go get laid.

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Dude, i know exactly what you're going through and to be honest i'm exactly the same. I'm 16 and honestly? i'd consider myself to be a confident guy, i haven't even consolidated my doctor about this. i have this one girl who's 'the one' shall we say, but realistically i feel like she wont like me anymore becuase of this?

But, you need to understand that there are methods that WILL work to our need.

Lazering them off has a very good success rate i'm assuming as its really expensive (completely irrelevent) but you know what man, i find it difficult she'll look at me the same? i'm a joke as it is to everyone near enough? but mate, i reckon you goto your doctor and just sort it out, they get paid to help people like me and you, y'know? and besides that, if you wondering what your mum and dad may think? tell them to jog on, you're in need of help. so get to your GP!

You can actually get a needle and sterilize it before using. Then take the needle and poke the center and pull upward and it will make a small tear in the skin and then squeeze it out and if that doesn't work use the needle to pick it out making sure not to do deep into the skin. I have had success with some on my shaft and they are now flat and usually the scar fades to skin color and if not it will just have a lighter tone to the normal color. Put vaseline on the wound after to prevent a scab from forming to help prevent scarring and follow up with aloe vera gel to help the skin heal and less of a scar.

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Can people please f**k OFF with the "this is normal, don't be ashamed" BS, please? For the love of god no, no this is not normal and i guarentee you 90% of guys out there dont have these god dammned spots all over their penises. To the original poster, my heart goes out to you because this is something that has destroyed my life, i wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy. Try tretinoin cream its for acne, also supplememting with omega 3 pills seem to reduce the appearence after a while. Best of luck to you my friend.

Hey Guest, it IS very normal. Just because you have a problem dealing with it doesn't mean that everyone else does.

Get over it.