Hey im a 16 year old whos gay and was woundering if anyone know any way that i could losen my anus or is there some kind of thing i shold use for lube
I would try using a banna or something but im not sure what for lube
If you are planning to have anal intercourse, there is more than one thing you need to keep in mind. Safe sex is a must. Ask your partner to wear a latex condom. Even if you are exploring it yourself with a dildo, wrap it with a condom. Be clean (you could douche or use enema), be as relaxed as possible. Use water based lubes like KY jelly (if you're doing it by yourself, you could use any baby oil or body lotion) with condoms. Start with one finger and start playing at the entrance. It is easier if you are sexually aroused. Go on inserting the finger little by little and explore the insides gently. You could then use two and then three fingers as per your comfort. Be patient and gentle. Give yourself time if it doesn't work out well the first time. If you're not properly clean you may have some fecal matter on your fingers which may put you off, so clean thoroughly. Happy exploration.