First thing first. Always clean whatever you are going to use. The best thing is to disinfect it with rubbing alcohol then wash it with antibacterial soap and warm water. Hairbrush handles are good. If you're too tight try something that is not as thick like a fat pen or marker. If you can get condoms then use that to help protect yourself from bacteria. If you can't get condoms then rubber or latex gloves (like the ones doctors use) work great too. For lube do not use soap or lotions because they can irritate you and cause a yeast infection. You want to use something more natural. Your own spit is great plus it's free. The next best thing is coconut oil, or olive oil (not corn oil or canola). The idea is keep it as natural and clean as possible. Also don't be in a rush, take your time, learn your body and what makes you feel good. Don't expect to orgasm or squirt right away. Be realistic. I started masturbating at a young age, and it took many years before I even started to cum. I'm 43 now and can make myself have a rolling orgasm in 5 minutes but it took time to learn how all my parts react to all the different types of stimulation. Speed, pressure, lubrication verses dry, hard objects, soft objects, objects that vibrate, etc. There are many ways to masturbate. Just keep in mind if it hurts, STOP because you could be hurting yourself. Small cuts and bruises are not exactly visible when they're inside your vagina or anus. If you use a lubricant that makes you itch STOP and go wash it off with warm water because you could be allergic to it. Also don't go trying to be a "porn star" with the way you masturbate. Most of what you may see on the internet is fake anyway. Be careful not to lose something inside of you because then you'll have to go to the hospital and have it removed by a doctor or nurse. (No that has not happened to me but I've heard stories.) For me, I have found my own hands and fingers work best for masturbation (next to the real thing). I don't recommend that you go get a guy just cause of the whole penis factor. There will be plenty of time for that later. Relationships are not easy even with someone you love, so take this time to learn more about yourself and your body. Be clean and hygienic, use condoms, and or gloves, water based lubes or natural oils. Also once you do decide to go "all the way" always use protection and keep in mind that some STDs are passed on by skin to skin contact and not just body fluids. Do your research. Go to medical based websites. Ask your doctor, mother, favorite aunt about their experiences don't be shy. Knowledge is power. Ignorance kills. Be safe, be happy, and have fun with it.
What about markers you don't use? Or a hairbrush handle? You got to clean them before and after you use them down there, and you shouldn't use them for their original use..... i.e writing or brushing hair. You can do the same with the thing you apply up your blush with(I forgot the word :P) and other stuff like that..... Make sure it isn't too thick or sharp, don't hurt yourself down there, don't use bananas...... Cucumbers are pretty safe. Bam I said it!
Pens aren't safe, and don't let yourself bleed.... It sux and hurts. And well Use lube (Vaseline, baby oil, white petroleum jelly etc) and start small, don't rush into it. And you have to feel turned on, play something that makes you feel sexy or soothed. Play a little with your fingers, loosen yourself up, then start with a small marker that's lubed and well, it may not take you too high! But wait till ya ready for something bigger! (Clean all the stuff you use, only use the same stuff, don't use them for other things, if you're into butt stuff, don't use what you use in your vjay behind too, never share your markers...... Clean before and after, ya know the sharpies, use the back part, then go to crayons bigger markers, then go to permanent markers and those big highlighters. You know those rolling face stuff or rolling blush, or the eos lip balm's cap, roll them above the place you're inserting the stuff at the same time.
Hey I'm only 12 I get turned on sometimes and I don't have an electric tooth brush but what I use is my bath faucet and it shoots water out fast and hard so I slide my p***y under there and let the warm water run and that's it have fun!!
how good does it fell
I am always useig a toothbrush and breast masterbating
Im 13 and im pretty turned on and I've been using a hair brush in my vagina and socks over the underwear for rubbing.Are there any easier ways than that also i need help with ideas to stop Cumming all the frickin time. Please help me.
Hi, im 14 and I used to finger too but now I use a clean brush to push in and a sock outside of my underwear to rub against (it helps to lie down while doing this)
Also I have double D' sizes but my breasts never seems to get turned on, what can I do?
Hi it's ok
a hot dog feels amazing. to prevent breakage inside of you, put a condom on it! enjoy!
when you orgasm
since you are 14 I'm guessing you are very tight down there so you should try something slightly bigger like a hairbrush or maybe a vibrating tooth brush would be a decent size plus would make you cum so good ( ;
@helpisontheway6784 "I wouldn't encourage it. you have to brush your hair with it, not make it filthy!!! " Seriously! - way to make young girls be hung up over their bodies tell them that their vaginas will make their hairbrush FILTHY!!
Hello, I'm 14 and I've only started to masterbate. I don't have anything that vibrates and I can't get toys. Need help please...