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Hiyaa i am 14 and i want a baby with my boyfirend who is 17 we have loads of money and we will be good parant's would it be possible to get pregnant on the first time of me losing my virginity
I think u really need counselling. u r out of ur mind, seriously. u n ur boyfriend need help, coz u dont really know what u r getting yourselves into..
Thats how i view it...
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Honey first off do you want your bf to go to jail? Secondly I am 17 years old I got pregnant when I was 15 (NOT ON PURPOSE). But let me tell you something it is very hard. Money or No money. You are 14 you can't even take care of yourself how are you going to take care a child. Thirdly your body is not even no where near growing a baby at such a young age will mess you up for your whole life. My son is 14 months now. And I have been really sick since I had him. I almost died on the hospital bed trying to have him. I hemraged and almost had to have a blood transfusion. I had 2 surgeries while I was pregnant and it almost killed my son. So think about what you are doing. And your bf should be more mature about being with you considering his age difference. Please postpone till you are older. You need to be a teenager and go to Prom and college and hang out with friends on the weeknd hun. I don't get to do that me and my husband stay at home with our son. And by the way my husband is 18 not 3 or 4 years older than I. And how do you know that this bf of yours is going to stay around. 1 out of 10 teenage fathers stick around to take care of there child. That is a proven fact hun. Please think about what you are doing here. This baby will never have a chance at what a child should need and deserve if you have one now. You are to young babe. Just think about what I wrote and ponder everything. :-D
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Hi - - Im 16 and im quite the opposite (i really dont want a baby right now!) lol

Yes you can easily get pregnant during your first time.

I respect the fact that you seem to know what you want; but why not wait untill your a little older? Because like teenmom said you could get your boyfriend into serious trouble! - I would listen to her because she has obviously been through all this and I havent; but what I will say is: you have the rest of your life... live a little first, and find out if you really want to stay with the boy your with for the rest of your life (because once you have a baby with him - you will be tied to him). x
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