That's a very good insight. And yes, you know, sometimes being aroused by guys is not being gay. You do have to be able to date a guy and be in a relationship with him too! :)
I'm 17. I only started masturbating this year (which is kind of odd- since a lot of people start younger) The first time I came watching porn was when watching gay porn. I really like watching gay porn, I think that two good looking guys having anal sex is very attractive. The first porn I watched of a girl- was two girls touching and kissing one another and it got me hard- and I really fancied them. I also recently found straight porn appealing when I thought the girl was sexy and classy what I liked was when the guy had anal sex with her.
Is it just anal sex I'm attracted to? I'm very religious, and Biblically speaking, homosexuality is wrong. That's what God says, at least. The reality though is that at the moment or permanently I am bi-sexual. Pecks turn me of and muscles thinking about it makes me go uuuuhh. But I agree that's more idolatry rather than sexual desire. I have fantasied about sex with a man. I actually would like to but spiritually I don't. I've only ever fancied one guy (happened this year) and I still do. BUT on the most part I fancy girls and they really turn me on when we are intimate and I've only ever loved one girl. It's a confusing dilemma but I believe that if we pummel our body and lead it as a slave then we will fight against sins law and stay true to the natural use of our body with a woman.
Is it just anal sex I'm attracted to? I'm very religious, and Biblically speaking, homosexuality is wrong. That's what God says, at least. The reality though is that at the moment or permanently I am bi-sexual. Pecks turn me of and muscles thinking about it makes me go uuuuhh. But I agree that's more idolatry rather than sexual desire. I have fantasied about sex with a man. I actually would like to but spiritually I don't. I've only ever fancied one guy (happened this year) and I still do. BUT on the most part I fancy girls and they really turn me on when we are intimate and I've only ever loved one girl. It's a confusing dilemma but I believe that if we pummel our body and lead it as a slave then we will fight against sins law and stay true to the natural use of our body with a woman.
I am 14 and have watched both types of porn , masturbated over both of them . But have only tried one out for myself . That is gay porn and that was a very fun experience . Only oral was involved with this. But it was only for fun. If you have a best friend that you know that you trust then try it out on him . I am straight but I do look forward to giving oral to my mate. It is difficult to realise that I do enjoy this. However if it is only for fun then do it. Obviously I have never made sexual contact with a girl before and I can't wait for that. But for now the oral will do
How about this? I'm gay but I think gay porn is gross and a huge turnoff (and I've tried to watch it... haven't seen anything not horrible)
Actually I would say I'm bisexual although that doesn't really fit... being gay and straight at the same time/different times makes more sense.
One thing... even though I don't mind the occasional bit of lesbian porn what I'm really turned on by is the real dirty stuff like gangbang, bukakke, etc, etc... which is actually pretty gay if you think about it. I guess my sexuality's pretty weird but I almost picture myself as the woman sometimes (although usually not) which sort of fits into my preferences in terms of gay sex ie I guess I'm a bottom. At the same time I enjoy playing the more dominant role in sexual relations (perhaps the most) but only with women. Anyway I probably grossed everybody out big time but there it is. (I'm also very careful about safe-sex and would never cheat on anyone so don't freak out people.
Actually I would say I'm bisexual although that doesn't really fit... being gay and straight at the same time/different times makes more sense.
One thing... even though I don't mind the occasional bit of lesbian porn what I'm really turned on by is the real dirty stuff like gangbang, bukakke, etc, etc... which is actually pretty gay if you think about it. I guess my sexuality's pretty weird but I almost picture myself as the woman sometimes (although usually not) which sort of fits into my preferences in terms of gay sex ie I guess I'm a bottom. At the same time I enjoy playing the more dominant role in sexual relations (perhaps the most) but only with women. Anyway I probably grossed everybody out big time but there it is. (I'm also very careful about safe-sex and would never cheat on anyone so don't freak out people.
Guess what, if you masterbate to gay porn, attracted to boys sexually or even willing to test it by having it with another man.. You're gay
I can't ever see myself falling in love with a man but I think girl's bodies are old news to me now. Both are hot to me now, I don't think guys will ever appeal to me as much or more than girls. I love girls, its just that guys are new, different etc.,
I guess once that turns stale I'll go back to liking girls, except now its like a rebellious, nervous rush from looking at hot men.
On the topic of gay porn, I can't stand watching two guys kissing or having sex, I only like looking at pictures.
I can see myself changing in the future but for now, sexy hunks with abs turn me on!!!!!!!
I guess once that turns stale I'll go back to liking girls, except now its like a rebellious, nervous rush from looking at hot men.
On the topic of gay porn, I can't stand watching two guys kissing or having sex, I only like looking at pictures.
I can see myself changing in the future but for now, sexy hunks with abs turn me on!!!!!!!
ok so for all you guys out there who get turnd on by gay porn its ok! you dont need to be gay to like gay porn. Why you ask. because the reason why it turns most of you on is the curiosity of gay sex. it is ok to experimen infact it is normal 60% of hetrosexual men have a homosexual experiance in there life. you are the only one who can determin if you are gay and remember its not about who you sleep with its about who your thinking about when you sleep with somone lol. hope this helps you.
So I have been reading all these posts & I wish that when I was 12-14 I would have known what I do now so hopefully I can help one of you. I am 24 years old and for years I have had an addiction to gay porn. I convinced myself that I was gay and had multiple gay experiences when I was in high school. Yet I was never able to climax until the last one and then it was just weird. I then thought I was gay but decided not to act on it and date girls to see if that was what I wanted because I have always wanted a wife and kids in the future. And with girls I was getting turned on so I assumed I wasn't gay. I finally came to find a therapist that was able to help me. The reason why I got turned on by other guys is because I had a lack of other male friendships growing up. I thought that hugging other guys and touching other guys in general was "gay" so I would stray away from any interactions with other guys that involved touching. This distanced me from other guys which made men in general foreign to me so I sexualized it and stared to get turned on by it. Pornography is an addiction as bad as drugs and I am still trying to get completely sober from it. However, I realize now that I have deep emotional same sex needs and that by having close relationships with other guys I can fulfill those needs without making it sexual. I also have come to understand that a lot of the reasoning behind my looking at other guys online forever is from wanting so badly to look like those guys with the perfect abs and bodies. I am so much happier now. There is a website called and it has more information about this kind of stuff. Hope this helps someone. -J
hey im 16 and watch straight and gay porn and get turned on by both ive had sex with both as well and well i didnt like the actual intercourse with a man but love giving oral and rimming i am not however attracted to men i just love a penis in my mouth and my toungue on a hot arse lol when i was younger i though maybe im gay but no im 100% straight jus like the taste of penis
A few years back I accidentally stumbled upon a page of links to free gay sites. At first I meant to just click out of it, but as I went to close the window, there was one boy who for some reason caught my eye as he was being pounded in the ass by another boy. Im not gay, but I've got no problem with it people who are, and I have an open mind to trying things that other enjoy, so I clicked the link. The boys were right around my age (18 at the time) and It really turned me on. For some reason the thought of having a sexual encounter with another boy sounded so tantlizing! For the past three years I have been looking at only gay porn. At first I was wierded out by the whole situation, since I don't have a desire to do any sexual acts with another guy, and never have. But as time has gone on, and I've hooked up with girls and felt the passion and wonderful feeling I get from being with them, I've been able to comfortably enjoy looking at gay porn. To me the whole idea of porn is to be watching a fantasy, or something that will never happen, so It turns me on. Watching a girl get pounded by another dude, especially if she is suuper hot only makes me I guess somewhat jealous, and does not seem like fantasy becuase I know if I put in some effort, I could have sex with a girl just as hot. So now I have come to a wonderful way of thinking about the porn I look at now, and no longer feel guilty or ashamed. I would even tell others to try it out, because I think the whole idea of porn is to watch something you have fantasized about, but would never try and probably never will, and that to me really turns me on.... which I think is the whole idea of porn. thats just my way of thinking of things though, Its not the correct or incorrect answer to the question, just my own personal preference of thinking.
15, same deal. Waking up to a man feels wrong (well, for me). But gay porn is great, trannys, all that. But I'd never get into a relationship with a guy, the sex just kind of interges me. I feel guilty, I just do. After I'm done watching porn I feel sad. But I am straight, good too see I'm not in this alone.
Im 11 and i have the same problem but i hate trannys and have never fancied a guy, my family is very religious and i try to be but i cant help looking at it, i feel sick when i see gays in real life but the porn just turns me on :$
hey guys yeah im 15 and i also like gay porn like all of yall are sayin is realy helping me. i know for sure that i am strait because there is a girl that we are planning to get with each other because of a long distance relationship thing. But just cant stop looking at gay porn. its a big relief to know im not alone. and i am hoping this is a fase. but untill its over im still going to watch the gay porn. oh and if your 15 and need some one else to talk to about this you can reach me on
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Wow this is great :-D :-D !! I never knew there were so many straight men/boys that felt this way about gay porn. I'm bisexual and at first I was afraid to like gay porn because I DIDN'T want to be gay or even bisexual, but now I've just realized to myself that I'm bi. Not saying you guys are or will be gay/bi because I honestly believe what you guys say you are and only you can determine your sexuality. All I can say is IT'S NORMAL and you shouldn't be afraid or scared and it's perfectly ok to keep it to yourself if you want too. It's still your personal life and don't feel that you should be obligated to tell someone just because you feel you need too. I went YEARS without telling anyone, but my friends still accept me for who I am and know one still has a clue that I watch it (well now they probably do, but it's just speculation)!! Don't let porn determine who you are!!! There's always this curiosity and we have to admit that sex (especially the sensations) feels good, no matter who we do it with. Alot of people still don't realize that being gay or bisexual means alot more than sex with the same sex. It means commitment, devotion, love, and transference of that love to a same sex partner as well.