I am in the same predicament right now I am 20 years old and I just found out I am pregnant I had sex wit my current boy friend five days befor my period, my period was February 11th, it didn't last like my normal period would for five days, it lasted 3 days. Then around the 20 something I had sex with my ex, but we used a condom. I didn't have a period in march what do you all think?
I am also preganat and me and the father are friends and he told me that if i get preganat that we would get married and move in together but idk how to tell him i am pregnant
reading this is really making me feel allot better. i dont feel as alone. okay so heres my situation. as of right now i am either 2 or 3 weeks pregnant according to my hcg levels. this is driving me nuts bc if they could just give me a specific week then i would know whose it is. Ive been having sex with my current boyfriend nearly everyday and he thinks that the baby is his but i am not really sure that it is. two weeks ago i went out with a few friends and we all got extremely drunk. i ended up having sex with one of my friends who is also in a relationship. now that i am pregnant i dont know whose it is. i dont want to tell my boyfriend about my terrible mistake in fear of losing him, and i dont even want to tell my friend that i am prego bc i dont want to ruin his relationship and make him hate me for keeping it.
I JUST WANNA BE ABLE TO KNOW WHOSE IT IS SO I WONT PUT SO MUCH STRESS ON MY BABY AND I CAN SLEEP AT NIGHT SOMEONE HELP ME!
i feel exactly the same as you feel ... i am in the same situation but i did the right thing and i went for aportion
hi,
Im in exact same boat as this now, nearly everything you put is exact me :( Its horrible isnt it. Im just wondering what your outcome of this situation was? Please help me xx
Im in exact same boat as this now, nearly everything you put is exact me :( Its horrible isnt it. Im just wondering what your outcome of this situation was? Please help me xx
hi please help me. im in same sit as most u guys, and was wondering what the outcome of your situation was? Im having a test to determinate the father on the 06th dec, but not sure what i will do if the baby is not my bf :( i cant sleep, and i havent told anyone, because im ashamed of myself. Please can you advise me what happened with you , much appreciated xx
OKay my problem is I am 5 weeks pregnant , im 21 and was going back and forth between my ex and my now boyfriend...I love my boyfriend im with now to death. My last real period was Jan 8th , i had sex with my ex and an accident happened so i took plan b so i got another period on Jan 25th that lasted till the 31st , I then had sex with my ex again on the 1st and had sex with my now boyfriend on the 4th. Then again had sex with my ex on the 11th that is the last time i had sex. Today is the 28th of Feb and the nurse said im about 5 weeks so since I had sex with my ex on the 1st and my now boyfriend on the 4th I AM SO UN-SURE ON WHO THE FATHER IS!!!!! My first thought was my ex but when I told him he wanted nothing to do with me and told me to get rid of the baby, his family also wanted nothing to do with me because they back him up when he is 24 and should be considerate i guess i don't know , it's because he has a new girlfriend in the picture. He also told my mom he wanted me to have an abortion and if i did keep it he would see the baby when it was born and would like to be put on child support (WTF) i know!! I haven't told my now boyfriend that I don't think it's his because he's here for me right now but my ex doesn't want anything to do with me because of 1. his new girlfriend and 2. he thinks it might be my now boyfriends. BUT i ONLY had sex with my now boyfriend on Feb 4th that was once out of Jan and Feb !!! He said he didn't pull out and I saw that my ex would always pull out but im just not so sure right now what to do with the baby all my feelings are up in the air. Im so scared to keep the baby because if i stay with my now boyfriend he will be here all the way which is good but if it isn't his baby the baby will be half black so he will be able to tell right off the top then my ex won't even be there for me at all not even after the birth! MIND this im only 21 I know this sounds horrible but i've been spoiled on my life and now i have no frkn idea what to do how am i even suppose to support me and a child??? I've only had one job..im barely finishing college and im getting hell from friends and family. I AM SO LOST :( any ideas ?!?!?!!?
I think is your bf
nope not alone. and the sucky part is that prenatal dna testing is 1200$ unless you wait til the baby is born, it's alot less. it's a scary feeling, and both the men (my ex and my current boyfriend) want to be the father. it's stressful on me, and im sure on them as well. but only time will tell,. and i have to accept this. i wish there were more reasonable ways to find out. glad im not alone either!!
my period was from feb 29 to march 5th and i had sex wit my husband during my perios on 3rd and the 4th and the 7th we had a problem and i had sex with my ex boyfriend terrified bt now im pregnant. i had sex wit my ex on the 12th 14th 20th n 21st. n they sayin im 4 wks preg will tht b my husbands baby?? this is really stressin
Same situation..my period started Aug 14 I had sex with my bf tht day and days to follow..I had sex with another guy sept 3..the conception calculator says I woulda concieved between Aug 24 and sept 1...is it still possible tht its the other guys?...my ultra sound says I am 33 Weeks with bf2 id b 30
Ok so iam 7weeks today. I had sex with one man on Feb 26 and my sons father mar2 and iam due dec 3 I never had a period in feb. Im so scared I love my sons father and dont wanna hurt him. Can someone tell me who the father might be? The one on feb 26th pulled out, but I kno sometimes precum can get u pregnant!! Please help im goin crasy!
So i know im like a year late but i just gave birth to my daugther Madison 6wks ago and i was goin thru the same thing... there was no way i was going to find out for 100% who her father was wen i was pregnant.. now six wks later im still lost! so tomorrow i am getting the results from the DNA test and im totally scared! idk wat to do... my bf family is getting really attched to her and so is he and i know its gonna really suck if she isn't his.. however they are all aware of the possibilty idk! im just freaking out... and using this as a way to vent
I'm in the same situation.. Can anyone help me???!!! I got my period from march 26 to April 1st. I had sex with my boyfriend like.2 days later and several times after that during the month of march. But I had a one night stand on march 22 & now I'm pregnant. Who's the father of my child?
I hope anyone here can help me...im in a similar situation... Back in December 09, 2011 I had sex with my now ex-boyfriend(he never finished) .....Then on December 15, 2011 I got my period for the usual 6 days, ending December 20, 2011. So, December 22, 2011 comes along and my ex-husband and I had an issue and managed to get me to have sex with him and he came inside me....i feared him if I was to tell him I had moved on n felt as if I had no choice since he has a bad history of violence. On December 25, 2011 I bought a plan b pill called 'Postday'. I had 72 hours to prevent pregnancy with that pill. So I took it on the last day which was the third day. Again, December 26, 2011 my ex husband n I had sex and then on the 28th I had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend....december 29-jan 1st i got my period again and it wasnt spotting...it was more like a light period....does this mean the pill worked??? it was unprotected sex with both men and the only time my ex husband came inside me was on the 25th. My ex bf never finished but we would have sex for almost half an hour to an hour....ive heard precum can get u pregnant. I am now going on five months pregnant on may 3, 2011 n my due date is September 20. This situation of not knowing who the father could be is really affecting my health. I've become depressed and very emotional. I hardly eat and sleep I hope anyone who reads this can please help me!!! the dr says I conceived on the 29th, give or take a day, so I guess either from the 28-30.