When I masturbate I can feel the orgasm and know that I cam but when I am having sex with my girlfriend I have not a single clue as to whether I came or not since I stay hard and we go again. However, it causes a problem because she wants me to pull out and tell her when I do but like I said, in sex I never know when i do. what is up with that?
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The sensations during masturbation are different from those during intercourse. Many men find they cannot get enough direct stimulation in straight intercourse to come... and they work out with their partner some alternative... like oral sex, manual play, digital stimulation, whatever.
It is possible that you prefer the intense immediate feedback you have during masturbation, and that you are NOT coming inside her. It's possible that you're having a good time in intercourse, but not achieving climax... and that you need something more.
Only you can gauge your response and say whether you're close, or if you've come.
Are you saying that your girlfriend doesn't want you to come inside her as a birthcontrol method? Cause if that's the case, it's not really birth control...it's gambling.
Good luck.
Let us know how this works out.
It is possible that you prefer the intense immediate feedback you have during masturbation, and that you are NOT coming inside her. It's possible that you're having a good time in intercourse, but not achieving climax... and that you need something more.
Only you can gauge your response and say whether you're close, or if you've come.
Are you saying that your girlfriend doesn't want you to come inside her as a birthcontrol method? Cause if that's the case, it's not really birth control...it's gambling.
Good luck.
Let us know how this works out.
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I have a similar issue! Is there anyway that I can get back to normal like before I got used to masturbation?
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