Every day pray that the Lord will give you strenght and leave. Try to get friends and family involved with this by you telling them, but for them not to tell your bf. Then day by day you will have family and friends talk to you and you will feel stronger and stronger. You see we have been treated so badly that we think we deserve it or that we love him too much to leave him. But the truth is is that we deserve better. You will get out, but little by little. I got out of my first abusive relationship. But it takes time to talk to yourself positively and to take charge and have everything ready for your safety when you leave him. Now my current abuser is in jail and I am glad because this made it really easy, well, not so it took me 8 months to decide not to talk to him again. No, as you can tell I am a perpetual vicitim. Then when you get out, you need therapy and stay away from men for at least 1 year, for me it will be more becauews I am really sick. I have BPD. So little by little you will get out, God bless. I will be praying for you. OH, next time, please call the police. PLEASE
You are a real man sir. It would be heartbreaking to have the woman you love afraid of you. Especially when you are supposed to protect her. My BF just hit me for the first time two days ago and I packed up and got the first flight home. I am missing him and wondering if he would do it again but there is no way I am going to take the chance. It is degrading and shows a complete lack of respect.
He will hit you again. I was hit 15-20 times, filed a police report, he was arrested, made me recant my statement in court. He completed one year of domestic violence prevention classes (during that time continued to bullying & be physical with me). Now one year into our marriage he beat me for yelling and because I didn't stop yelling he continued to hit me. He said it is my fault that caused him to hit me....he said I own nothing. I met this guy in 2011 and I now know it was a mistake not to walk away.
RUN AWAY FROM HIM!
This happend to me and i dont know what to do
My boyfriend just kick me today .he kick me while I am breastfeeding our daughter 1month And half old .,this happen not just today but since last Year .,please somebody tell me what To do , I dont know what To do we just have our first child.,
I was in a argument with my boyfriend and he accused me of talking to some random guy at a party. And I kept telling him I didn't do he said something and I hit him then he pulled over and we fought but he won. He beat me so badly. I went into a store to call 911 and he was like no baby I'm sorry lets go. What should I do now?? Was I wrong???
my boyfriend of almost 4 years grabbed my hands and elbow and pushed me. I fell onto the chair and was pushed back. No bruises but its so late at night I cant see (he came from drinking. He goes once a week). My pinkie is swollen amd elbow and arm hurt. Im afraid to drive bc my arm. My moms house is 30mims and my best friend lives 1hr 1/2 away. we live together. do i just ekave my stuff and sleep somewhere else? do we talk? i feel terrible and arm is so soar right now. it sou ds worse tha. it is. ino broken bones. I knkw what I meed to do. I just meed to hear from others who have been in the same situation. how to be brave?
Men who hit the women or his wife is not a humanbeing. They are the worst creatures. Such people donot hesitate to do it again nor they regret for it. One need to understand that quarel between wife and husband is expected and not to involve others to solve it.try to avoid argument with an absuvie man.
From a man, get the he'll out while you can.
Get out while you can, being beaten seems to become a "habit" with many women I know.
We were fighting and he didn't hit me, he just pinned me down against the floor by my mouth telling me to shut up. After he snapped out of it he was crying and angry with himself and wanted to break up with me after what he did. He was deeply sorry. Will he do it again? I feel like it waa really am accident and one time thing. Am I naive?
my boyfriend n i have been on and off for 6 year we decided to move in together n start a family he has been stressed out at work and no being able to spoil me as he use to so he is convinced i am cheating on him. We got into an argument the other night and i got so upset i told him that i did cheat on hi (which i did not) and he hit me so hard my face got swollen the same night he started crying and say he was sorry but i think he will do it again i have been so stressed out and i feel like i am having a miscarriage but i am to go to the doctors to do some more test. i love him but no man has ever hit me before and i am just really scared he might do something worst the next time we get into a really big fight.
Once a man hits you it's likely he will hit you again. It is important not to put anything past anyone. The next he hits you it could be worse. He is capable of a lot more than you think. Now that you know it is wise to leave now. He is not someone to raise kids with. On top of all of this he's emotionally abusive and manipulative. It is also important to have a safety escape plan. I know it might be difficult, but you should tell a couple people about situation. They might be able to help you. Try to make sure you take special documents and driver's license with you. You are not alone. I promise. Reach out to someone. The first step which is acknowledging what he did to you. Nothing that you could ever say or do makes you deserve that treatment. I'm sure this must be scary because you love him, but he's not showing you the love and affection that you deserve. You are a queen and this world has so much more to offer you. Best wishes
See, not every relationship will be abusive. This has happened to me once before. Me and my boyfriend had a very unstable relationship. We kept fighting, but only verbal fights. But every time we fought, we left each other. Then after a while we apologized and got back together. Once when we'd broken up, we got into a fight, where he slapped me. But I somehow felt he didn't mean to, and I was the one at fault as I angered him. Then we had a talk and got back together. We've been together for 8 months continuously, and if we get into arguments, we talk it out, and avoid fighting. Now when I brought it up recently, he apologized and said I don't have to be scared of him. He's a real gentleman.
This is how you think your relationship will go. I suggest you bring it up, and talk it over. If you feel safe with his reply, there's nothing you should be afraid of.
Have a mutual understanding. Talk things over rather than fighting. This helps a lot.
If this happens again then I think it would be time to warn him, but somehow if you're happy with your relationship, wait for him to realize and never do it again.
All the best :)
This is how you think your relationship will go. I suggest you bring it up, and talk it over. If you feel safe with his reply, there's nothing you should be afraid of.
Have a mutual understanding. Talk things over rather than fighting. This helps a lot.
If this happens again then I think it would be time to warn him, but somehow if you're happy with your relationship, wait for him to realize and never do it again.
All the best :)