Your not the only one! i had the sugery done 14 days ago!! and just like you i have an Odour which only subsides after everywash but returns ever so quickly......i have an odd discharge also...
the sitches just like you don't seem to be holiding the wound together and some have even fallen out! i dont know what to do! im also looking into sueing because i cant believe a qualified surgeon is able to make such a mistake!...
I WISH I NEVER GOT THIS DONE!.x
the sitches just like you don't seem to be holiding the wound together and some have even fallen out! i dont know what to do! im also looking into sueing because i cant believe a qualified surgeon is able to make such a mistake!...
I WISH I NEVER GOT THIS DONE!.x
Hi there,....
i have undergone this surgery only 2 weeks ago...to only realise what a enourmous mistake ive made!...
I am VERY interested in this online group!.......please give me more information!
just like you im going to seek legal action as this wrong is horrendous!...a living hell everyday not to mention scarring senstion and pain changes... if you are still working on this please let me know!
i have undergone this surgery only 2 weeks ago...to only realise what a enourmous mistake ive made!...
I am VERY interested in this online group!.......please give me more information!
just like you im going to seek legal action as this wrong is horrendous!...a living hell everyday not to mention scarring senstion and pain changes... if you are still working on this please let me know!
I came upon this topic by way of looking at a site which features women with larger labia. I myself have lived since puberty with large labia, but never once has a man complained about them... i think the thing is that you need to feel good in your own skin. Disregard the media and the porno industry, they make sex seem so clean, simple, and sterile anyways. The biggest assest anyone has is their character and their confidence. Once you enjoy yourself with yourself you can work on enjoying some company! Who ever said all labia have to be "perfect" like a child's? I for one am outraged at hearing all of your stories and am committed to doing everything possible so this doesnt continue. I think the best thing to do is to stop placing these dollike women in pornography. I for one would pose with my beautifully endowed p***y.
enjoy and take care,
I hope some of you are feeling better
enjoy and take care,
I hope some of you are feeling better
i do feel bad, i mean horribly bad about your situation however, i MUST state that unfortunately 20 years ago this was a relatively new procedure. the changes and advancements in technology since then, are profound. you must agree that this is true. why not just get a second opinion on what can be done for you in todays day and age of modern medicine. if they can turn women into men and men into women, they can certainly fix a labiaplasty. good luck and best wishes for your health and happiness.
I can't say how happy I am that I have found this board. I too am extremely self conscious about my inner labia. Even though no guy has ever commented on my 'bits' (apart from one guy saying they were 'big', not sure if that was a positive or negative comming from him) I still feel as though I am abnormal down there as my labia hang atleast an inch below my outer labia. I have considered getting the surgery done a couple of times this year but whenever I come back to this board I completely change my mind, and I am extremely greatful for everyones honesty. This board has probably changed a lot of womens minds. And to be honest if a man ever critises the way a woman looks down there, he really isn't worth it!
Hi everyone! im really sorry to read that alot of you have had a bad experience with this procedure. I have to say i had a labiaplasty done on the 5th...its been a week now and although i am concerned about the swelling tho it has gone down a little, hopefully as its early days still should go down more in due time i however have had a really pleasent experience. I have suffered absolutely no pain what so ever and couldnt be any more suprised about this because i geared myself up to the prospect of being in agony! At first i thought it must just be the anesthetic still being in my system but it turned out to be pain free...I have to say 7 days on and i have only experienced discomfort for the first few days and that was it, no bruising nothing, just a bit of swelling which is to be expected...I tried to hold going to the toilet for ages because i was convinced that it would be so painful but when i went it was just as normal as usual!
i had my surgery done with transform, they have been so helpful and have called me twice since my op and i have an appointment with them on sat to see how all is going! my surgeon has been so helpful and i really recomend them to anyone considering this procdure! i am so concerned for all of you that have had problems and wish you all the best. x
i had my surgery done with transform, they have been so helpful and have called me twice since my op and i have an appointment with them on sat to see how all is going! my surgeon has been so helpful and i really recomend them to anyone considering this procdure! i am so concerned for all of you that have had problems and wish you all the best. x
hi! im 15 years old and i absolutely HATE my vagina, m so scared a guy will find it a turn off :-( should i do the surgery?? please respond!!
I think you're stressing yourself over something that has not happened yet.
And never will happen. That's not a good reason to do any type of surgery.
There is no such thing as an ugly vagina. They are all different and wonderful because they are different.
In the past 60 years, I have never met a vagina I didn't like, and I have never heard any of my friends complain about one either.
A girl who likes herself and is comfortable with her body is a big turn on. When you meet the guy you would like to share yours with, present it to him with pride and he will love it. XD
BTW, the same goes for breasts, no matter what the boys say.
And never will happen. That's not a good reason to do any type of surgery.
There is no such thing as an ugly vagina. They are all different and wonderful because they are different.
In the past 60 years, I have never met a vagina I didn't like, and I have never heard any of my friends complain about one either.
A girl who likes herself and is comfortable with her body is a big turn on. When you meet the guy you would like to share yours with, present it to him with pride and he will love it. XD
BTW, the same goes for breasts, no matter what the boys say.
i know i just feel bad for the guy caz i feel im not everything i could be and i hate that
And he is feeling exactly the same, whether he shows it or not.
He is worried that you will think his penis is ugly, too short, too thin, too fat, too big. Or that you will be turned off by his foreskin or lack of one. Or the shape of it.
When he sees your vagina, he's going to think: WOW, I like this :-D and if he criticizes anything about your body, you don't want him anyway. Can you imaging living with a guy like that?
If you change anything about yourself for a guy, you will hate yourself for it later, and he probably will too.
He is worried that you will think his penis is ugly, too short, too thin, too fat, too big. Or that you will be turned off by his foreskin or lack of one. Or the shape of it.
When he sees your vagina, he's going to think: WOW, I like this :-D and if he criticizes anything about your body, you don't want him anyway. Can you imaging living with a guy like that?
If you change anything about yourself for a guy, you will hate yourself for it later, and he probably will too.
do guys actually care that much about your body ?
Guys are nuts. They say all kinds of things and make a big deal of big boobs and stuff. But it's all talk for the benefit of the other guys.
If a guy is attracted to you with your clothes on, he will absolutely love what he finds inside.
The first part of attraction is visual, the rest and most important is how he feels about you as a person. You just have to be yourself. If he's attracted to that, you got him. If he's not, there's nothing you want to do to change that because you would be forcing yourself to act like someone that isn't you.
If he is going out with you he probably already likes what he has seen of your body. About the only thing I can think of you could do to drive him wild is shave your pubic hair. Most guys are seriously turned on by that. If he isn't, you just grow it back. No harm done.
If a guy is attracted to you with your clothes on, he will absolutely love what he finds inside.
The first part of attraction is visual, the rest and most important is how he feels about you as a person. You just have to be yourself. If he's attracted to that, you got him. If he's not, there's nothing you want to do to change that because you would be forcing yourself to act like someone that isn't you.
If he is going out with you he probably already likes what he has seen of your body. About the only thing I can think of you could do to drive him wild is shave your pubic hair. Most guys are seriously turned on by that. If he isn't, you just grow it back. No harm done.
so you think if i ever have a sex life with this guy , my vagina wont be a big deal?
I'm back. I had to get a tire fixed, pick up my wife from work and get some special food for our sick cat.
Your vagina won't be a big deal in the way you're thinking.
There's a saying about boys and a vagina.
We spend 9 months trying to get out, and the rest of our lives trying to get back in. 8-|
We are programmed by nature to want what you have.
Your vagina is probably the only thing in the world that a guy wants with every fiber of his being --- without ever seeing it.
He's not going to complain about it when you finally allow him to see your wonderful vagina.
Remember it's unique, it's your's, there's not another one in the world exactly like it. You are allowing him the privilege of enjoying it, and he should be making every effort to give you the pleasure you desire and deserve, in exchange.
Now, you're only 15. You have plenty of time to make him show you that he deserves your treasure. Get to know each other, make sure he deserves it before you let him. Be safe, use protection. You don't want a baby or any of the nasty STDs that are out there. Some of them cannot be cured and some will be with you for life.
Your vagina won't be a big deal in the way you're thinking.
There's a saying about boys and a vagina.
We spend 9 months trying to get out, and the rest of our lives trying to get back in. 8-|
We are programmed by nature to want what you have.
Your vagina is probably the only thing in the world that a guy wants with every fiber of his being --- without ever seeing it.
He's not going to complain about it when you finally allow him to see your wonderful vagina.
Remember it's unique, it's your's, there's not another one in the world exactly like it. You are allowing him the privilege of enjoying it, and he should be making every effort to give you the pleasure you desire and deserve, in exchange.
Now, you're only 15. You have plenty of time to make him show you that he deserves your treasure. Get to know each other, make sure he deserves it before you let him. Be safe, use protection. You don't want a baby or any of the nasty STDs that are out there. Some of them cannot be cured and some will be with you for life.
this is all making me feel better so thank you! but do you remember guys in high school? HORNBALLS! they are so turned on !