I am a 48 year old man, currently in a physical relationship with a woman after several years of just masturbation. My problem actually began prior to the new relationship, about a year ago. At that time, on occasion, when I would masturbate I would start to lose my erection just as I was reaching orgasm. With my hand, I was able to work through this problem, regain erection, and shortly thereafter experience orgasm. The problem has been happening with my partner as well. Everything will be going along great and then as I approach orgasm, I will begin to lose my erection. Sometimes, particularly if my bladder is full, the erection will return rather quickly and ejaculation follows shortly thereafter. Sometimes, however, the erection leaves and doesn't come back or my soft penis slips out of her vagina and I can't reinsert it. Sometimes in these cases I can manually stimulate myself and reinsert my penis into her vagina and finish. Usually, however, I am not able to finish and we are both left frustrated. I am currently using Cialis to try to counteract the issue, but it seems to only work sporadically. In other words, in spite of the ED medication, I am still having an ED.
My questions are: has anyone else ever experienced this, what is it, and what can I do about it?
My questions are: has anyone else ever experienced this, what is it, and what can I do about it?
I am only 33 and experiencing the same thing. I was wondering if you have found out the route cause. Like yourself, I have self pleasured for many years and wondering if this is apart of the issue.
HI there.
I m 34 years old & just got married. I do have the same problem as I loose erection before orgasm. I am very much worried about it as I feel so embrace in front of my partner. Intact its lose erection just I insert in her vagina. Does any one of you have solution????
I m 34 years old & just got married. I do have the same problem as I loose erection before orgasm. I am very much worried about it as I feel so embrace in front of my partner. Intact its lose erection just I insert in her vagina. Does any one of you have solution????
I have the same problem and a very similar history. I'm 44, with almost entirely without intercourse for the best part of 15 years, and masterbated nearly everyday - like a routine. Now with my girlfriend I have the same problem. I found really two solutions. 1, eat healthy, excercise, and wait 2 or three days between sex. The excercise and diet change really helped the quality of erection, but still there's often the feeling that I'm about to lose it right before orgasm.
The second and best method was taking Zyrexine which is an OTC drug that has yohimbee in it. Taking that allowed me to have sex pretty much everyday and maintain firm erections the whole time. The only problem is my blood pressure has skyrocketed over the past year and I suspect the yohimbee might be the cause.
The second and best method was taking Zyrexine which is an OTC drug that has yohimbee in it. Taking that allowed me to have sex pretty much everyday and maintain firm erections the whole time. The only problem is my blood pressure has skyrocketed over the past year and I suspect the yohimbee might be the cause.
I think this might be a blood flow problem. are you on Sildenafil?
there is this new medication whici i take which really help sme , i never worry about losing my erection anymore it is called Super P Force, i got it on it is made up of sildenafil and dapoxetine so i do no lose my erection and it prevents prematurely ejaculation also. anyways if anyone wants i reveived a coupon in th email for 10% all medications on the side just use the code 1 time per person:jgcs101.
okay good luck on your endeavors!
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there is this new medication whici i take which really help sme , i never worry about losing my erection anymore it is called Super P Force, i got it on it is made up of sildenafil and dapoxetine so i do no lose my erection and it prevents prematurely ejaculation also. anyways if anyone wants i reveived a coupon in th email for 10% all medications on the side just use the code 1 time per person:jgcs101.
okay good luck on your endeavors!
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hey Guys.. sorry to hear about that. However, all i can say is that all the premature ejaculation that you are experienceing is due to years of excessive masturbation. You have trained your bodies to ejaculate really fast. Anyway, i have posted a thread on "premature ejaculation caused by overmasturbation, and how i cured it"..u can check it out, i have ellaborated my own personal story of how my overmasturbation led me to this problem, and how i worked my self out of it.
So all i can tell u, is that dont despair, and with alittle bit of effort, you can regain ur lost sexual health. Take a look at my post, and lets put our views together, and see how we can help each other out..
Thanks..
So all i can tell u, is that dont despair, and with alittle bit of effort, you can regain ur lost sexual health. Take a look at my post, and lets put our views together, and see how we can help each other out..
Thanks..
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........ here's my post https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/over-selfpleasuring-causes-premature-ejaculation-and-how-to-cure-or-overcome-it&highlight=HI there.
I m 34 years old & just got married. I do have the same problem as I loose erection before orgasm. I am very much worried about it as I feel so embrace in front of my partner. Intact its lose erection just I insert in her vagina. Does any one of you have solution????
I'm only 26 years old & this has been happening to me lately. I'll start off by saying I'm on a medication to help me get off opiates (methadone) & it has caused a noticeable decrease in my sex drive. however, I've been on methadone for near 7 years & the problem has only started this past year. I was very happy with my sexual performance for the 6 years prior to this year & my partners were all happy as well. I just don't understand why this is happening! it's very frustrating. many times I will lose my erection right before I'm about to orgasm & afterwards I'm unable to get it back for a while & I find myself not in the mood for at least 1 hour... I also noticed that I find myself to be able to achieve orgasm quite easily in the early morning hours (4 - 6am) for some reason. I'm on quite a bit less methadone now than I was 1 year ago, so if anything I should be getting some of my natural sex drive back as there is less of the synthetic opiate drug in my system. opiates are known to decrease sex drive. I don't know what is suddenly causing me this issue though. thanks for your time.
oh come on... this is very much your personal opinion, not a scientific or medical fact. Do you believe porn is "wrong" & it "brainwashes" our minds leading to sexual disfunction also? Nobody even said they were having a problem with premature ejaculation, in fact it was much the opposite.
Masturbation is completely natural & normal (it's a well documented, medically proven fact). What's with this anti-porn & anti-masturbation following all over the Internet lately? Do you hear how you sound?
I am a 39 year old male with a completely different history, yet a similar issue. I've pretty much had at least two full time lovers for the last 20 years. Until recently I could have more than one orgasm before losing my erection. Lately however my erection drops out just before the section be wave climax. I'm not sure if this is due to holding back ejactulating on the first one, or if my body finally caught on to my little trick. Sadly sometimes this happens before the first one happens at all. I have no issues getting hard on command just staying that way.
No man ur reply is not satisfied for them.. and all haven't premature ejaculation problem..
You're not funny.
Join no fap you'll cum like a horse
I'm 64 and have same issue, I've read about a condition called venous leakage and from what I understand can be treated with meds but I'm not sure.
I am 25, haven't noted this with a partner or three lol but solo I am having the exact same issue.. but with me it's that right as I feel an orgasm coming on it's like the mood is just sucked out of me which then leads to immediate loss of reaction...