Lower Vaginal Soreness during & after sex

I have been experiencing the same issue when we have sex it burns really bad at the lower part of my vagina and afterwards it hurts when my lips touch and when I pee. I am also usually out of service for like a day or two afterwards .it is very frustrating we have tried everything lube, different positions nothing seems to work it is so depressing and I am starting to completely give up on sex it is no longer fun to me. please help !! 

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I have the same issue but it got much better after I stopped using birth control, if you are on birth control, this could be the issue. I had the nexplanon arm implant and after a while the hormones just made my vagina less resilient and really really dry. Its funny how they love to promote hormonal birth control but don't tell you how it could f**k up your body. My gyno said that my birth control could be causing the dryness, and in turn, pain during and after sex. Once I removed it I noticed a difference, still not back to the way it was but getting there. hope this helps someone.

I had sex about 2 months ago for the first time. Ever since then everytime I sit down it feels like I don't have a tampon in all the way. I have talked to friends my age that have had sex, they just said my size could be a problem because I am 16 and don't even weigh 100 pounds. I don't know if its normal or not because they all just said they experienced burning but nothing like what I'm feeling. Have any of you felt this?

Congratulations newlyweds! your husband should perform oral sex on you before intercourse, it's much easier for a female to have an orgasm that way! You will then be nice and wet, relaxed for intercourse. He shouldn't feel bad eventually it will happen, but since you don't know what an orgasm feels like he needs to go downtown and use his mouth and tongue.! Best wishes

I get this too. I think it might be "fissuring of the posterior fourchette" ... Google it

same problem here.. have you found a solution???

It’s your position! It seems for me while I’m on top, my lower part of my vagina is very raw for a long time afterwards.
But anything else is okay and I can have sec multiple times without any issues. Try switching to a missionary or ‘doggy style’ a few times and see if it’s still occuring as much.