hey let her do whatvere she wants ... she is a teenager and im sure the she masturbates , and im sure that she is sometimes so turned on to the MAX . so she will have the same feeling while masturbating to orgasm and while having sex and reaching orgasm.. and for the virginity she is going to lose it anyway .. if she ddnt now at 17-18 year old she will lose it 4 sure coz she is a girl and girls at 18 usually lose their virginity by f****g guys so let her free .
I am 16 so I can relate. Let me tell ya something. does she have a job? does her bf have a job? Does she live under your roof? I don't care how ''natural'' they say it is. It ain't natural in the Bible. And this ''love'' sh*t... oh give me a break..she isn't even old enough to drive...much less be in love. You will end up being the one to support the baby if she gets pregnant. YOU are the parent and YOU are in control. ********************* Because you are the parent
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Hi I am 15 and i just found out that my little sister (14)just had sex with her ex boyfriend. I am so mad and disappointed. She lied to me for 9 months. I stuck up for her when everyone was calling her a s*** and a w**** and i kept saying "my sister is a virgin, i think i would know she is my sister," then she finally told my mom and i felt so stupid. She ruined my realationship with one of my friends because i kept telling her my sister was a virgin and she kept saying she wasnt, so i told her not to talk to me untill she could see the truth, turns out i was the one who was blind to the truth. My mom is doing what all of u keep saying, but to me it feels like it isnt enough. She hurt our whole family and lied for 9 months. She made me sound stupid to all of my friends, and she made our family cry. My dad isnt talking to her because he thinks she is a s*** and my mom just told her she cant date, but i see her making out at school and holding hands with this new guy all the time, I feel my sister needs a harsher punishment. She is just walkin around the house like nothing happened and it makes me so angry that she can be so content with herself. Im so upset and i tell my mom that it isnt fair and my mom yells at ME! She tells me that i cant tell her what to do im just a kid...well so is my sister. she didnt even yell at her. It makes me so mad. now my mom thinks i am telling her that she isnt a good parent and i feel like it is all my fault..but i know it isnt its my sister's. Please help
most girls are having sex at 14. Get a f*****g clue it's natural.
Advice: Yes, sex is natural. Yes, everybody (or almost everybody) has sex at some point. As was said, the boy does not always trick the girl, it is the other way around some times. Talk to your son or daughter more often, they tell you more than what you're hearing. There are many ways of getting to your son and daughter, just give them their space while at the same time, knowing what is going on in their space.
I too just found this out about my daughter, as of yesterday. She is 14 herself. I know that you wrote this awhile ago, but I am now in the same predicament, perhaps if you read this, you can give me advice on how you handled it?
Thanks!
Thanks!
Hi guys I am 17 years old and I have a 14 month old son. I am married. Not bc I got pregnant but bc I love him dearly. Let me tell you moms something. You have to do something here. You can't be nice about this situation. Everyone says oh you need to be your daughters best friend. Ummmm no you don't you need to be a mother. And a father needs to be a father. I have made plenty of mistakes in just these past few years. And now I have to grow up and be a mother. I 17 years old am a mother. It is hard and my mom helps me out alot and my husbands parents help me out alot too. We pay for everything but they do help. It sucks when you have to get help from people when you should be doing it yourself. So moms don't stand back do something about this. I almost died on the table having my son and I have had health problems since I was pregnant up till now. So my advice is take your daughter to a pregnant teen counsaling session and let her just watch and listen. There are alot of movies on Lifetime Television that she can watch too. I hope this helps you moms out!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-D
I'm 15 and all I can offer is don't be too harsh or surprised. Maybe you don't remember being a teenager, or perhaps it was indeed different way back when, but it's unbelievably tempting to have sex. The hormones are flowing and thoughts are always about it, to be honest. I myself am a virgin and hope to stay that way for several years, but that doesn't change the fact that I do think about having sex all the time anyway. I don't know how rationally I'd act if sex were imminent, even though right now I want to say I'd say no.
Your daughter probably masturbates. She probably thinks about naked boys often, and has certainly briefly had sexual thoughts even about her uncles, brothers, father, and girlfriends (although probably immediately tried to dismiss them). Almost certainly she talks whisperingly with her friends about sex and penises and orgasm and masturbation and cum and all sorts of forbidden things.
I don't know the particular situation, but she's probably just as remorseful as you. Or, maybe the boy's a great guy and she's not openly remorseful! (Twinges of doubt for sure, though.) It was impossible for your daughter to resist... and don't go thinking it's the boys fault either, they, sex, and the night all coerced each other.
Your daughter's just as rational as you, and just as ruled by the hormones as you were. Offer advice definitely, understanding definitely, and support and help if she needs it.
Maybe I didn't make it clear that I think 14 is several years at least too young for sex to occur happily. But it did, and that's not unusual, just unfortunate.
Your daughter probably masturbates. She probably thinks about naked boys often, and has certainly briefly had sexual thoughts even about her uncles, brothers, father, and girlfriends (although probably immediately tried to dismiss them). Almost certainly she talks whisperingly with her friends about sex and penises and orgasm and masturbation and cum and all sorts of forbidden things.
I don't know the particular situation, but she's probably just as remorseful as you. Or, maybe the boy's a great guy and she's not openly remorseful! (Twinges of doubt for sure, though.) It was impossible for your daughter to resist... and don't go thinking it's the boys fault either, they, sex, and the night all coerced each other.
Your daughter's just as rational as you, and just as ruled by the hormones as you were. Offer advice definitely, understanding definitely, and support and help if she needs it.
Maybe I didn't make it clear that I think 14 is several years at least too young for sex to occur happily. But it did, and that's not unusual, just unfortunate.
hi, idk if any guy has stepped up and admit this.. but i am a 17 year old male.... i am dating a 14 year old... we just had sex 3 days ago... we have been going out fr 8 months... i have met her parents.. they love me.. they always want me to come over.. they always want me to come hang out with their daughter... but... my gf.. witch is 14 is not comfortable in teling them we just had sex... i was wondering if i did somethign wrong by having sex with my girlfriend of 8 almost 9 months.. and im 17 and she is 14.
thank you.
thank you.
Well they might say things to her that they wont say to you. My dad used to do that too. If she doesnt want to tell them right now just agree to disagree. You have to think she is way younger than you and her parents may not as leniant as you think they would be.
I am sorry to hear about these parents who are gutted when they find about their 14yo daughters having sex. I am 17, and me and my 14yo gf have been doing it for a few months. I can't vouch for all guys, but we went and got the pill so it was at least safe but there is no way we can tell her parents... Surely you can see the issues facing them, her parents would crack it, they wouldn't bother understanding why they had sex because they categorically decide that 14 year olds are too young to be making these decisions (which they may well be) but in society today it is happening more and more often. For the record, I love my girlfriend very much and it was extremely consensual, she really wants to tell her mum about us (I know her parents very well, family friends) but it is not as if it is bad parenting from her parents, it's just we can't tell them because in the world we live in it's unacceptable (although it is becoming more common).
If they aren't telling you anything there's nothing much you can do, unless we get caught we won't be telling them until she is at least a bit older.
If they aren't telling you anything there's nothing much you can do, unless we get caught we won't be telling them until she is at least a bit older.
Hi, I am a 16 year old girl. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and I lost it to him when I was 15.
My mom is SO against sex before marriage, I tell her everything but I would never mention anything sexual around her. If you're daughter is already having sex, I wouldn't try talking her out of it (although there's no reason why you wouldn't) , I would be there for her. There has been countless nights I worry about pregnancy or STD and wish I had my mom to comfort me about these things, but I never will until I'm older, or until something bad really does happen. I do wish I had waited for marriage, because the consequinces just aren't worth it. Tell your daughter to be SAFE!!! There's nothing worse than worrying.
My mom is SO against sex before marriage, I tell her everything but I would never mention anything sexual around her. If you're daughter is already having sex, I wouldn't try talking her out of it (although there's no reason why you wouldn't) , I would be there for her. There has been countless nights I worry about pregnancy or STD and wish I had my mom to comfort me about these things, but I never will until I'm older, or until something bad really does happen. I do wish I had waited for marriage, because the consequinces just aren't worth it. Tell your daughter to be SAFE!!! There's nothing worse than worrying.
hi, just found out today that my 14 year old has just had sex 3 days ago :-( she has only just turned 13 two 2 weeks ago. I knew it was on the cards but she had reassured me "she wasn't d**b enough" so i thought i could trust her. it was premeditated (they are not even going out!? - I can't figure that out?) and the door didn't have a lock, so she was caught during a party. everyone knew immediately. and thanks to Facebook, everyone else knew within days. then i received an anonymous sms from a payphone saying "thought you should know ****** had sex on Friday night. we all know" I thought it was a joke. i confronted her and she admitted it. brave girl. i handled it well and gave her three days to tell her dad. but i am devastated. what do i do now? i can't sleep & its 3am. i want to support her but i am not sure how? it was only 6 weeks ago she was arrested for shoplifting. her school grades are going downwards. her attitude at home is selfish. where do I go now? :'(
Hi Im sure you read some of my post above but. I recently found out my 16 year old sister has been having unprotected sex with older guys like almot 25. Well she told my dad and he tryed to stop her but the fact of the matter is she had already dont it so what now? She got sick like a stomach bug or something and had some burning while urinating. So she went to the Urgent Care and she went back by herself my dad wasnt allowed. So she asked for a pregnany test to be done and for STD tests. So the doctor did the test she wasnt pregnant which was good. But she got a phone call 5 days later saying she needed to come in immediatly with an adult so my aunt took her and she had to get a shot for Goneria. They dont think they caught t in time and she doesnt know who its from 1 of 3 guys or all of them. So she will have to most likely live with this for the rest of her life. My best advice is to get papmplets or find a website that explains STD and other diseases that can come from having unprotected sex or any sex at all actually bc a condom or the pill DOES NOT protect against STDs. And show your daughter or you son the possibilities of diseases and sex. Explain to them why its good to wait for that ONE person. In the long run they will thank you. :-D
* i have a :cry :'( 14 year old whom is prenat a am devastated, because i have twins whom are almost 17 and they hate boys... i am hurt and sad now * :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(