If your really a sexual person as I am,I'd leave him.because your gonna wind up cheating on him down the road and only break his heart.besides,do you want kids with a small guy?to me its not very manly
Pls can I know of the solution
I'm sorry but a man needs to have at least 5 inches and have decent thickness. I'm not talking about a foot long one thick as a coke can either. That would hurt. Just 5 inches or so and girth that's pretty decent.
I would never say this to a man, but if a guy is like 4 inches and thin I just can't think of him as a real man. It's really tough to take a guy seriously when he doesn't even have sufficient equipment. I might feel sorry for him if he's nice, or get annoyed if he's not. But even if he's nice I truly feel sorry, I can't fake attraction. A small guy is like a gay friend. Someone you can be friends with but won't date or recommend to your girlfriends.
Also, I think it's about time that people stop shaming women for saying size matters. It DOES matter. At least to the point where the penis has to be normal. If it's normal, then I don't care if it's not big. Average is what matters, and men shouldn't stress about that. I feel for men who are average but have anxiety about it. You guys are fine!
But guys that have small ones do have a legitimate problem and it is what it is. Just accept it and find other solutions. You'll never truly be able to satisfy her like a normal man, but you can treat her well, be generous financially, and in the bedroom master oral and be attentive other ways. Some women will be fine setting for that and may view it as a good overall situation that can compensate holistically.
I just think that when it comes to size, it does matter and we should stop shaming women who judge men based on penis size.
I would never say this to a man, but if a guy is like 4 inches and thin I just can't think of him as a real man. It's really tough to take a guy seriously when he doesn't even have sufficient equipment. I might feel sorry for him if he's nice, or get annoyed if he's not. But even if he's nice I truly feel sorry, I can't fake attraction. A small guy is like a gay friend. Someone you can be friends with but won't date or recommend to your girlfriends.
Also, I think it's about time that people stop shaming women for saying size matters. It DOES matter. At least to the point where the penis has to be normal. If it's normal, then I don't care if it's not big. Average is what matters, and men shouldn't stress about that. I feel for men who are average but have anxiety about it. You guys are fine!
But guys that have small ones do have a legitimate problem and it is what it is. Just accept it and find other solutions. You'll never truly be able to satisfy her like a normal man, but you can treat her well, be generous financially, and in the bedroom master oral and be attentive other ways. Some women will be fine setting for that and may view it as a good overall situation that can compensate holistically.
I just think that when it comes to size, it does matter and we should stop shaming women who judge men based on penis size.
I like your answer.
58 with a 4.5 inch hard penis too.
Lot of issues dealing with that.
I like to give Fellaito now.
58 with a 4.5 inch hard penis too.
Lot of issues dealing with that.
I like to give Fellaito now.
You are a horrible person. So, according to your awful conclusions, any guy who has a penis less than 5 inches is not a real man or normal? How cruel, inaccurate and insensitive!. Also, telling men who have small penises that they can never satisfy a woman? I got news for your ignorant assumptions, there are women all over the internet who have said they've had sex with guys with small penises that were just 4 inches and was the best and most enjoyable sex they ever had! So, that blows up and invalidates your cruel, vicious, degrading, and illegitimate insulting comments against men with small penises.
im a male and i dont blame her
A little shallow? You're a detestable pig. You don't deserve the guy.
I married a woman who was used to bigger penises in the men she dated. She told me it didn't matter but eventually we both had to admit it did. I found a video she did with her last boyfriend and saw how she got into it. He was not only longer but bigger around. He also could go at it for a long, long time. I knew there was no competition at all.
When a man realizes he has no chance at satisfying a woman he loses interest in having sex with her.
When a man realizes he has no chance at satisfying a woman he loses interest in having sex with her.
You're a sucker
I understand what you are saying here. I am actually in this situation myself because even though I am told I am very good looking, my penis size is only around 3 inches in length and I would say it is fairly thin also. Growing up I knew I was smaller because of being in the mens locker room with other guys, but I guess I underestimated the importance of this to women.
When I read what you said about not taking a guy with a small penis seriously, I can definitely relate. I encountered this situation many times and could not figure out why I was treated differently than other men. I really haven't gotten much respect from women aside from them just being nice to me, but even sometimes they seem to let other guys get away with a lot more than me.
The issue I have is that I don't have a lot of money so it is hard to be generous financially. In my current situation I am with a woman who seems to agree with you on many things. She is very honest and open and had told me that she didn't think I could satisfy her properly from penetration. For some reason the thought of penetration from me is a turn off to her or doesn't do anything for her. Because of that, we had to come to an arrangement where I agreed to take care of her with oral sex. The only stipulation is that I don't get penetration. When she first found out I have a small penis she took it rough and so she had that as one of the conditions.
Ok, so fast forward and she really misses the feeling of real penetration from a man. She talked to me about not knowing if oral sex and toys really satisfy her. She says she cares about me as a person and likes living with me and everything but she struggles with the sexual issues. I told her I was afraid she was going to leave me for someone else because I really don't want that. So after that, she suggested she could have sex with someone else but strictly sex. I was very hesitant but she seemed like it was that or she wouldn't be happy and leave so I agreed to that.
All of this is a situation I never thought I would be in. She spends most of her time with me but she will tell me she is meeting him and then when she comes back sometimes she wants me to give her oral sex. I kind of do whatever she says and so when I am reading what you wrote I realize it is a result of my situation because she makes the demands. She is the only one getting sexual release and I am just trying to keep her and keep her happy. Do you think what I have agreed to is ok?
When I read what you said about not taking a guy with a small penis seriously, I can definitely relate. I encountered this situation many times and could not figure out why I was treated differently than other men. I really haven't gotten much respect from women aside from them just being nice to me, but even sometimes they seem to let other guys get away with a lot more than me.
The issue I have is that I don't have a lot of money so it is hard to be generous financially. In my current situation I am with a woman who seems to agree with you on many things. She is very honest and open and had told me that she didn't think I could satisfy her properly from penetration. For some reason the thought of penetration from me is a turn off to her or doesn't do anything for her. Because of that, we had to come to an arrangement where I agreed to take care of her with oral sex. The only stipulation is that I don't get penetration. When she first found out I have a small penis she took it rough and so she had that as one of the conditions.
Ok, so fast forward and she really misses the feeling of real penetration from a man. She talked to me about not knowing if oral sex and toys really satisfy her. She says she cares about me as a person and likes living with me and everything but she struggles with the sexual issues. I told her I was afraid she was going to leave me for someone else because I really don't want that. So after that, she suggested she could have sex with someone else but strictly sex. I was very hesitant but she seemed like it was that or she wouldn't be happy and leave so I agreed to that.
All of this is a situation I never thought I would be in. She spends most of her time with me but she will tell me she is meeting him and then when she comes back sometimes she wants me to give her oral sex. I kind of do whatever she says and so when I am reading what you wrote I realize it is a result of my situation because she makes the demands. She is the only one getting sexual release and I am just trying to keep her and keep her happy. Do you think what I have agreed to is ok?
No I don't think it's right. . I know u say are small but I couldn't let my man do that if the shoes were reverse he's a perfect size and I only get laid once a month if I am lucky. He says he loves me but he never ask or just not affection to me but when we are intimate it's awesome. . I rather be with a guy ur size and get affection and laid more often. . We all got our own mind.can't judge I guess
Oh, I was trying to direct that towards the woman who I replied to who seemed to indicate it was rather normal.
Haha, honestly you are totally right about this. I mean its not that they aren't nice guys but its just not someone I can be attracted to in a sexual manner.
Oh, and to the guy who replied, just so you know I have actually had it happen where I permitted sex with a guy who was about your size (3 inches or so). I have to be honest that I couldn't really feel much of anything. Part of it probably has to do with not being turned on in general by a tiny penis. Honestly, if the woman you are with is willing to be with you it might be a great thing, because I mean probably I would need someone else to fulfill me sexually if it was me also. How long have you been together, and when was the last time she permitted penetration?
Oh, and to the guy who replied, just so you know I have actually had it happen where I permitted sex with a guy who was about your size (3 inches or so). I have to be honest that I couldn't really feel much of anything. Part of it probably has to do with not being turned on in general by a tiny penis. Honestly, if the woman you are with is willing to be with you it might be a great thing, because I mean probably I would need someone else to fulfill me sexually if it was me also. How long have you been together, and when was the last time she permitted penetration?
We have been together around 5 years. I remember having sex a few times in the beginning. I think she was really trying to give me a chance. I don't remember the date but it has been over 4 years. She also said what you said about not being able to feel much of anything. I kind of thought that it must have been an exaggeration but later on I felt like she must have been being honest. She mentioned not being able to get and stay turned on sexually. When you said above not getting turned on by a tiny penis, is that visually also or just the feeling?
Like i said, I feel like I am lucky in certain aspects because she has stayed with me for quite a while. As far as the penetration thing goes, do you think it will be permanent? I mean, if it was you in this situation would it be a permanent off-limits thing? Maybe this is something I should expect. It has just been a long time, so it is hard to imagine it changing. The issue is that she gets to have sex with someone else but she isn't ok with me getting it elsewhere. Do you think this is how you would be also? Maybe it's normal for a woman to not want to share her man and I should just be supportive of her feelings? What do you think? Should I just accept that my inability to satisfy her means no sex? Let me know what you think and I really appreciate your honesty.
Like i said, I feel like I am lucky in certain aspects because she has stayed with me for quite a while. As far as the penetration thing goes, do you think it will be permanent? I mean, if it was you in this situation would it be a permanent off-limits thing? Maybe this is something I should expect. It has just been a long time, so it is hard to imagine it changing. The issue is that she gets to have sex with someone else but she isn't ok with me getting it elsewhere. Do you think this is how you would be also? Maybe it's normal for a woman to not want to share her man and I should just be supportive of her feelings? What do you think? Should I just accept that my inability to satisfy her means no sex? Let me know what you think and I really appreciate your honesty.
Are you sure you are only 3" or was that a typo?