I wish I had an answer for you but, sadly, I'm in the same boat. I hope things can get figured out for you.
My guy was watching web cam girls and it bothered me like crazy. I asked to borrow his credit card because I saw something I like online. Boy was he surprised to see the hot inked guy with a huge, hard, pulsing penis beating away on cam. He was like, WTF, you're not getting my credit card for that...I said why not?, you use your card to ask cam ho's to do naughty things for you!!!.....FINALLY, he got the picture lol.
please tell me more , I believe you have a point
same with mine .. he is 42 I am 22
i agree with your comment 110%. I am in a relationship that I "thought" was great and had amazing sex. He takes his phone or iPad into the bathroom for 20 minutes to a half an hour and then comes out and is all "overly chatty" on how his stomach is upset or his "game" isn't working and is so pissed.. Its the classic "thou dost protest too much." I sooo know what he is doing to cover for being in there and its so uncomfortable. We may have just had sex and he is in there right before a shower and then acts all weird after because I know he's acting guilty. I don't get it.. Is he just appeasing me and isn't fulfilled and needs more or what? All I know is I've been so turned on during the day when he's at work and I'm home and I send him pics and sweet and dirty texts and he doesn't care. I have never been with anyone that has ever not wanted to be all over me or kiss me or wanted to just attack me. I'm bewildered at this behavior. I love him and am soooo attracted to him and would love to attack him and devour him on a daily basis and I get nothing. I don't get it. I'm beautiful from everyone says and cute and so sweet and hes so lucky to have me... I love this guy more than I can say... WHAT IS THE PROBLEM???? SOOOO SAD!!!!!!!!!
I have the same problem except my bf is 31 and does it non stop in bed next to me he won't initiate sex and he doesn't really try to turn me on he knows i know he knows my feelings and still he does it non stop all night long....when we do have sex it's like i do all the work while he lays there.
I have the same problem except my bf is 31 and does it non stop in bed next to me he won't initiate sex and he doesn't really try to turn me on he knows i know he knows my feelings and still he does it non stop all night long....when we do have sex it's like i do all the work while he lays there. I'm guest user
I think that some men are just lazy and its easier to mastermate. The bad thing about it is that it can take its toll on a womens esteem if she stays in the relationship. I used to be a hot lady after having a few kids, then got remarried he treated me well.
5 years later he rarely inititates sex with me and I'm not ugly; I still turn him on, but I saw the porn he is looking at and its specific (redheads and teen porn), so what is up with selecting a certain kind of porn to watch? Also the other day we were talking and he brought up red heaeded woemen and the fact that their nipples are pink. This hurts my feelings and I try to hurt him back by talking about porn were the guys penis is huge but he doesnt show any emotions and deosnt really care. I'm not getting waht I need from him anymore.
I'm in the same boat. Honestly I've been torn down about it. I feel as if I am not sexy or goregous enough for him to have sex with me. And when do attempt to fool around he can get up but its only minutes he is up. And I try to keep him up! Then when we move on to trying to have sex! and its not all the way hard. I have to make him stop because it doesn't feel good with a half limp penis. I've caught him looking at porn twice and there was a huge fight over it. I was ready to leave. I wanted to leave. But i didn't I stayed and gave him a third chance. I love him very much. But I feel like he would rather get off by himself than fool around with me and have sex with me! I'm pretty much up to anything and we've talked about what we like the bedroom! But he seems to want to masterbate more than to get me naked. I feel like he doesn't even get turned on by me anymore. When we first got together for 5months straight we were all over eachother. And now it's like he barely wants anything to do with my naked body. And he's gets mad at me because I want more sex and more fun in the room and tells me that I have "High Sex Maintence". Which that statement made me afraid to even attempt to have sex with him or make a move. And its draining me because I feel like I'm not doing anything right. I feel like a pitiful person. I feel very alone sometimes and don't feel comfortable around him naked anymore... Its very draining.
I'm a guy, and i do masturbate after sex, before sex. late at night i know ive given up opportunites for sex just so i can masturbate. When i was younger, between 22 - 30 i thought it was me just gettin my needs out for my fetishes, or i justified it becuase its normal. but im 36 and i find myself doing it more now than ever, staying up late, hiding in washrooms, after sex, everything. ive even stayed home from work sick.
I enquired on the net, and read a few articles, im pretty sure i have an addiction. Its common, but i know i need to get help. but it's one of those things, i am not sure how she will take it.. so ive tried to get help behind her back, but didnt follow though.
i love her, wish to god i just coudl have sex all the time and feel fully satified. the masturbating is not sex, or a sex replacement. There are times when i want sex and masturbating doesnt even help that. I will maturbate 10 mins b4 and go have sex for 30 mins with my wife.
When i need to masturbate, and i try not too.. I literally get witdrawl symptoms. I may win for a day or 2, but it always comes back with a vengence.
I need beter strategies, or maybe just to hit rock bottom. I am not sure what will help me.
Hope this helps.
Girls dont feel inadaquite, its nothing to do with you. When i was single, i'd f**k a hott girl for the first time have amazing sex, be so happy.. Then wen she left, just pull out hte porn and masturbate to an inferior looking girls. So its not the girl.. its me.
evidently hes pleasing himself an liking it if you get mad it will push him away instead ask him if you can watch him im very turned on watching a man jackoff or a woman fingering herself or someone having sex I can be so turned on by this I don't have to even touch myself an im pounding with pleasure. nothing better than to please yourself so join him an relax maybe you can do your thrill in front of him whatever you do dnt get upset let him enjoy an you do the same I promise you if you watch him jackoff you will get so much pleasure now I cant mastrabate in front of anyone yet but I love to do it an watch someone else. I cud get hing someone mastrabate all day long everyday an ive never had sex with a woman but I fantazie about rubbing an making a woman do her thing cause I ko how to please myself so I cud do someone else just let her laY THERE AN I WILL HAVE FULL CONTROL OF THAT im telling you good mastrabate in front of him an then he will join in but yes some people would rather please themselves an you either accept it an like it to or you will push him away no one can please me like me in less they let me watch an fantazie.theres been times when I had to leave class an go to the bathroom an hit it for a while an holding it back makes it better an better maybe im a friek but everyone would enjoy that if you let yourself an I love to jack aman off that's better than having sex an watch him squirt im in heaven I want it lots an lots like if I don't leave class an do this I cant concentrate my mind is on that after doin the bathroom thing im fine an I don't care if some one is in the bathroom long as im in a secluded stall if they hear me oh well if they want come on in I do it to them if I were a man id be jacking it off twenty times a day since they r stronger sexed a man needs to come at least six times a day in front of me
get a pair of handcuffs cuff him when he isn't looking or sleeping then do him 3 or more times in a row that will show him
you must be the same as my wife, do you refuse his advances, do you wear sexy underwear, I have bought my wife this yet she put it in a charity bag, my enjoyment is having a wank when I have a shower! totally pissed off!