Dump him very quick, he is not normal, and may hurt you in a really bad way.
My boyfriend sees nothing wrong in jerking off to pictures of other women or even going into sex sites such as SPAM he even follows some of them and get notifications when they come on. He says all i do is go in jerk off and leave but it makes me feel worthless even though he says well i jerk off over your picture as well. It means nothing to him and he cant see why i get so upset. We do live a long distance apart but I visited him last year and we had sex once the other times he wanted me to jerk him or give him a blow job. I love him but i have needs as well and he never satisfied them and im at the point of giving up
what so you do..???... I m in the same boat and i want to know so now what do i leave him over this cause i dont want to have to stress about this in my life...
I know how you feel, cause I'm in the same boat with my bf. He masterbates alot. When we do have sex it's good..it is confusing. But then again I'm not sure it should be. He says he loves me...I can't remember any form of romance in our relationship. We have none. But I miss it. I know he can be romantic I've seen how he was with other women. But with me it's nothing. why am I not worthy of romance? Why does he want me here? I don't know. I give in to his wants when we have sex. He seems to like alot of bdsm into our sex life. But lately my needs are none existant to him. Yeah it has me rethinking the relationship. I dont know what to do.
my situation is slightly similar, my boyfriend and i have only been together 8 months, we have sex maybe once a week and it's all about him at the time then nothing. i try to initiate he rejects me. he stays up way later than me and i found naked pics on his phone of girls from his facebook so i'm guessing he jerks it to these pics at night while i'm in bed. am i nuts to stay?