doing "that" or whatever is disgusting, or, it looks like it. i wouldnt know.
about him leaving you, well he is just not the right one if he is going to leave you for something as idiotic as that. DROP marrage counciling. plus the fact that you do it on accasion, thats just selfish.
he married you because he respects and loves who you are, and aparently he doesnt, and you need to tell him that.
p.s. that was really brave, talking about that kind of thing. :-D
An unfortunate side efffect to people that get addicted or spend too much time watching pornography is that it tends to confuse their perception of reality.
They tend to see the porn as the reality and start to believe that the things he sees in the porn is what he should come to expect from his wife. What he doesn't realize is that these women are paid lots of money to do these things and very few of them actually prefer to do them in their private lives.
I'm sure your husband loves you very much but just needs to be reminded that you're not a porn star and have no intention to be.
well i can only speak for myself on the swallowing, personally i have no interest in anal even though the wife has suggested it a few times.
But now on the swallowing, i knew this girl for a few years and we got together and one thing led to another, i never asked for it or thought it to be possible but she swallowed everything and left not one drop behind. I was stunned, flabbergasted and left speechless. I instantly felt connected to her in ways i had never ever felt before, even to this day i feel we are together even though she be married to another fella out of state. Every day i thank god for allowing such experiences to be possible, for me its the most powerful intense form of bonding i have ever encountered it is as i would say an extrememly beautiful thing. IM sorry ur not into it, ur hubby must have experienced it somewhere but for some reason did not get this worked out before you all were married, and that is the sad part. Overall ive had to conclude that swallowers and spitters should not date each other at all, much the same way how smokers and non smokers should stay away from each other. People are complicated and this world has gotten complex its up to each of us to know ourselves and be honest and respectful as to what we want and dont want. Also noone can be everything for the other person so we have to have priorities figured out as to what we can live with or without. Now im married now and she's had some hesitation about swallowing, and has asked me on various occaisons to swallow my own seed. I thought it to be a very fair request and promptly did so without hesitation, and have done it a couple of times. I can apprecitate that the flavor is a bit odd but really it tastes much like how she does, except she doesnt have the ph factor. i discovered a shot or 2 of lemon juice or orange juice can rebalance the stomach if by chance it feels weird there. I know this cause she wants me to go down on her all the time and she told me matter of factly thats why she could never ever let me go because of the mind blowing orgasms i give her from cunninlingus. But from me swallowing myself i concluded it was not something worth refusing, if so you really need to be with other people cause when it comes to sexual incompatability that is a miserable place to be. if you find it to be impossible leave this man for your benefit and his, and you should find a man who feels the same way as you do that his seed is gross and is better spit into the toilet
You don't have to do anything you don't want to and he can't force you. If he is trying to do that, it is called controlling and that is not a healthy relationship. If he is forcing you, it is painful for you and your uncomfortable doing then don't do it. And if he truly loves you he would not force you. In my opinion I would dump him and find someone better than him.... no offense.... but its not fair to you that he is being demanding and threatening to leave you if you don't. Your better to get out of the situation and find someone better. PS: I have a fiance of 1 year, I hope this helps
Speaking as a man, who likes to do anal and also gets off on my girlfreind swallowing i can understand his desire, BUT! him saying either do it or i'll leave quite honestly should make your mind up. he sounds like s**m to me if his value of yu revolves around that, and if he threatens to leave then thats just what his value is. lets put it this way, if my girlfriend turned around and said she doesnt want to do that any more then sure ill be really dissapointed and would want us to try and reach a compromise, but i wouldnt threaten to leave.
honestly you are better off without him i think
Frankly, the way to keep your man happy is int he bedroom.
if you dont keep him happy there, he will find somone who does. plan and simple.
whether it takes a few years to get to that point is kind of irrelevent. He will find somone who will give him what he desires.
my advice is either learn how to please him, or be prepared for him to cheat and perhaps even divorce you.
I think this is a terrible post. Yes, I'm 15 and don't know anything about marriage, but as a guy I feel insulted that people would think I would act like this.