You can't discipline your kids anymore, you must reason with them, or plead with them, otherwise you are abusive. Of course of reason doesn't get through to your fit throwing five year old (which I promise it won't) then your a lazy parent who won't discipline your kids.
Can't let your kids run, shout, play outside or laugh too loudly, as this is a clear sign that you are again a selfish, lazy parent, but when your kids are climbing the walls because they've been hunched over a schoolroom desk for six straight hours, you're that noisy neighbour whose kids are out of control! That leaves us with the option to squash our kids spirits every time they forget that in this day and age, kids should be seen and not heard. Sad that I have to constantly shush my kids every time they get a little rowdy. My son pushed his sister today and she landed on the neighbours fence, so they started to scream at me (in front of the kids) making one of them cry hysterically, one start trying to stick up for me, and one run and hide, quaking in fear. Then they proceeded to tell me that I should control my children better! Jeez - people are just horrible.
Can't let your kids run, shout, play outside or laugh too loudly, as this is a clear sign that you are again a selfish, lazy parent, but when your kids are climbing the walls because they've been hunched over a schoolroom desk for six straight hours, you're that noisy neighbour whose kids are out of control! That leaves us with the option to squash our kids spirits every time they forget that in this day and age, kids should be seen and not heard. Sad that I have to constantly shush my kids every time they get a little rowdy. My son pushed his sister today and she landed on the neighbours fence, so they started to scream at me (in front of the kids) making one of them cry hysterically, one start trying to stick up for me, and one run and hide, quaking in fear. Then they proceeded to tell me that I should control my children better! Jeez - people are just horrible.
MY MONSTER NEIGHBOUR is constantly hiring bouncy castles in a terraced house and hours of screaming and now with her kids and invited kids.We live behind a hospice and there is no thought given to neighbours or the dying people.It really is unbelievable!
report to police if effecting your daily living children should be monitered by parents parents are responsible for child behaviour
CALL POLICE IT IS ANTI-SOCIAL BEHAVIOR - DONT PUT UP WITH IT
WHEN YOUR CHILD IS SCREAMING TAKE TO YOUR MP HOUSE ASK HIM/HER WHAT YOU DO AND ASK THEM TO HAVE UR CHILDREN UNTIL THEIR SCREAMING STOPS-THIS MAY CHANGE THE LAW BACK TO PARENTS RIGHTS
keep a record and even record what you are living with , there is bylaws for your piece and enjoyment . call bylaws and they will guide you the right way on how to deal with your screaming maniacs. these are parents that should never have children.
I have neighbors with 7 kids living in a 2 bedroom Section 8 apartment. They have 2 trampolines in the front yard, not 10 feet from my bedroom window and those kids and half the neighborhood are on them all day and well into the night. They scream and screech with every jump and the trampoline has a loud squeak to boot. The parents are constantly blasting loud music and/or fighting. They practically live in the front yard. I haven't been able to sleep in my bed since they moved in! I have to sleep on the sofa with a fan blowing to help drown out the noise. When I say something to them, they get worse and have even stooped to giving the kids whistles and then laughing while they blow them all night.
The way the house sits, they can see a police car before the police can hear them. Of course, they always stop when the cops are in sight. I have never in my life seen such rudeness, lack of consideration, and deliberate behavior from a neighbor. I've been here for 20 years and they have been here for one. I am NOT moving, I will snap first, and let the chips fall where they may. I have never even come close to hating another human being in my life, but I am there now! I wish they would all just fall off the earth. You can't even imagine what this has been like unless you have lived it. It's not once in awhile, it's every day, all day. Oh, and that poor dog they have. Barks from 5 in the morning till it passes out around midnight. They don't pay one bit of attention to it.
The way the house sits, they can see a police car before the police can hear them. Of course, they always stop when the cops are in sight. I have never in my life seen such rudeness, lack of consideration, and deliberate behavior from a neighbor. I've been here for 20 years and they have been here for one. I am NOT moving, I will snap first, and let the chips fall where they may. I have never even come close to hating another human being in my life, but I am there now! I wish they would all just fall off the earth. You can't even imagine what this has been like unless you have lived it. It's not once in awhile, it's every day, all day. Oh, and that poor dog they have. Barks from 5 in the morning till it passes out around midnight. They don't pay one bit of attention to it.
Get an easily purchased bullhorn and when they scream and make too much noise, put it towards them and let them know how startling it is to you when they make so much noise. Maybe turning it back on them will help. Good Luck!
Went on till 1 a.m last night and they were back at it by 10 this morning. I asked them to please keep it down a little today since they kept me up half the night. They told me to go F myself. People wonder why other people snap and do terrible things. If I owned a gun, I'd be in prison right now! It is absolutely infuriating.
That's BS, parent! Teach your child how to act and if you don't know how to encourage your child to handle her emotions, you need to study how to do this, it may make you both closer and keep the peace for everyone. If you don't do this now, you may not have a good relationship with her when she's older. Act NOW and save everyone the trouble instead of being defeatist!
I have foreign neighbors who do the same and apparently it's the kids that have to make loud noises so that the parents know where the kids are. If they don't hear the kids they have gone too far away, but these kids scream at top of their lungs just after the mom screams and encourages them. This is totally wrong behavior for close residences and especially when the mom is right next to the kids. I have such a problem with their screams so loud it rattles the ears and causes constant stress and inability to cope. It's not right that these people can keep doing this. I own and they rent, THEY SHOULD LEAVE, not me. Someone called police and they get quiet due to noise ordinances, this was a surprise to us, so whatever they did it worked but just for awhile. We're thinking we should make a call next time unless the others do it first again.
My neighbors are the grandparents. Their daughter and her husband are leeches who live there with their 3 kids who scream all day and into the night. Its a one bedroom shack.
Relax honey. I think you are just mad because she is right. I have children and I am a very strict parent. My kids are not allowed to scream period! Full stop! Playing is no excuse for screaming. If they do they are punished. As a result they are extremely well behaved and do not scream. It really is quite simple. Its called tough love. My mother used it on me, and I used it on my children. Parents are pretty brutal these days...makes me sick. Before you jump on a woman maybe check your children at the door.
I am so tired of parents who defend their children's screaming as "natural." The sound of a baby or child's screaming or screeching has been measured by scientists to be between 90 and 130 decibels, depending on the child. 90 decibels qualifies as "painful acoustic trauma." People lose hearing from sustained exposure to such screaming. Arguing that "kids will be kids" and that such screeching should just be accepted with a shrug denies the rights of anyone in their vicinity to be safe from physical harm. It also causes emotional harm by increasing stress levels. I've seen veterans with PTSD flinch when they hear screams. It is a parent's job to teach children how to behave appropriately and recognize that their behavior affects others. Children can have plenty of fun and freedom of expression without screeching constantly.
I FEEL YOU . I FEEL YOU SO BAD. SAME SITUATION WITH MY NEIGHBORS IN MY NEW APARTMENTS. I SAY I FEEL YOU BECAUSE YOU SAID: "what a f*****g great world we live in."
I SWEAR EVER SINCE I SEE THE PARENTING OF MY NEIGHBORS, ALLOWING KIDS TO PLAY OUT AND SCREAM 24X7 WITH NO MERCY FOR OTHER'S RIGHT TO PEACEFUL LIVING, AND EXTREMELY LOUD SCREAMS AND CRYING AT 3 AM, I AM SOOOOOOOOOO DISAPPOINTED IN ENTIRE HUMAN RACE. (And it's not an exaggeration, If you've never been in this situation or you're a bad parent too, you have no idea how it feels until you actually feel it.. )
I SWEAR EVER SINCE I SEE THE PARENTING OF MY NEIGHBORS, ALLOWING KIDS TO PLAY OUT AND SCREAM 24X7 WITH NO MERCY FOR OTHER'S RIGHT TO PEACEFUL LIVING, AND EXTREMELY LOUD SCREAMS AND CRYING AT 3 AM, I AM SOOOOOOOOOO DISAPPOINTED IN ENTIRE HUMAN RACE. (And it's not an exaggeration, If you've never been in this situation or you're a bad parent too, you have no idea how it feels until you actually feel it.. )