I've been with my bf 7 months. We enjoy every love making session, that is till our last encounter. I have a hard time cumming so he usually stimulates my clit before intercourse. This last time I came faster than usual. when he went to insert his penis, my vagina was dry. It didn't stop him and as usual the love making was incredible. Once we were done and laying in each others arms he apologized for not being able to make me cum. I then replied that I came once and he said I don't have to fake orgasms. So now he thinks I am faking orgasms. I never have and im afraid this will come between us. I also explained that sometimes, once I orgasm, he needs to insert his finger or penis to help my cum come out. I know this because it has happened when I have masturbated by myself in the past. Is it normal for my cum not to flow out once I orgasm?? Some one help. I've looked everywhere and cant find any info on this. :(
There are a lot of reasons why attempted intercourse might be difficult or painful. They include:
A lack of lubrication. (Use some personal lube!)
A fear of pregnancy. (Use birth control.)
A fear of penetration. (Take your time and don't push it. Let her relax and take it at her own speed.)
Although some indicate that first sex IS suppose to hurt, I challenge that. It CAN hurt...It MIGHT hurt... but it doesn't HAVE to hurt.
A lack of lubrication. (Use some personal lube!)
A fear of pregnancy. (Use birth control.)
A fear of penetration. (Take your time and don't push it. Let her relax and take it at her own speed.)
Although some indicate that first sex IS suppose to hurt, I challenge that. It CAN hurt...It MIGHT hurt... but it doesn't HAVE to hurt.