i am seventeen almost eighteen years old in feb im a virgin and when i was 15 i discovered my first "orgasm" like pleasure in the bathtub with direct contact on clitoris with the tub faucet. i liked it so much i kept doing it at least 3 times a week using the faucet of the tub or sink. i did not pay much attention to pressure although it felt like the tub used a great amount of it..i eventually switched from water to hand masturbation when i noticed it started to hurt me... now, everytime i rub my clitoris during masturbation i work up to a burst of pleasure (almost to orgasm?) but the pleasure only gets so far when it ends suddenly and i get intense shooting pains in my clitoris, this happens everytime and it honestly upsets me. when the pain comes i cant go anywhere near my clit or i get jolts of pain throughout my whole body and start twitching away from my area. if i continue rubbing it fighting the pain my clitoris becomes numb and i ejaculate uncontrollably. no matter what i use this is the case. i wish i could just be normal. could i have nerve damage in my clitoris from the water pressure of the bathtub/sink? how can i fix this/cure it? i dont know who else to talk to about this.. help from you guys is greatly apreciated. im scared for my future :$
Just wondering, but when you masterbate do you ever try using lube?
I know there are times my clitoris will hurt, so I just ad a drop of lube and it changes everything completly, much more pleasrable! Try some Lube and see how it goes. The pain could just be from skin on skin.....but if not, I'm not sure I can help much.
-Canadian Girl
I know there are times my clitoris will hurt, so I just ad a drop of lube and it changes everything completly, much more pleasrable! Try some Lube and see how it goes. The pain could just be from skin on skin.....but if not, I'm not sure I can help much.
-Canadian Girl
It almost sounds to me like what you are describing is actually part of the orgasm.
You may be experiencing a very intense orgasm.
My wife can't stand for me to touch her clitoris just as she reaches orgasm and for a short time after.
I know my own penis is too sensitive for me to keep rubbing the tip of it at the time I reach orgasm and I have to leave it alone for a minute or so.
You may be experiencing a very intense orgasm.
My wife can't stand for me to touch her clitoris just as she reaches orgasm and for a short time after.
I know my own penis is too sensitive for me to keep rubbing the tip of it at the time I reach orgasm and I have to leave it alone for a minute or so.
canadiangirl88 nah iv never gotten my hands on any lube.
well the thing is is it just intensly hurts to touch, sometimes just regularly, and its bothering me ya know? i dont know how to approach someone else with this
well the thing is is it just intensly hurts to touch, sometimes just regularly, and its bothering me ya know? i dont know how to approach someone else with this
In the final stages of arousal, the clit - especially the tip - often becomes extremely sensitive, and any touching unbearable.
It's normal; you're normal. It would be unlikely you've done any damage with a water jet, unless the pressure was very high.
Bit of a catch-22, though, isn't it? Get close to the edge then have to stop?
1) Lube. Your own is probably best.
2) Try only masturbating the area near the clit, closer to the root or the sides, avoiding the sensitive tip. Don't press too hard or rub too fast. Will take longer but end up feeling better, and without the discomfort.
3) Instead of focusing on the clit, try masturbating the entrance to the vagina (even up to the G spot if you can reach/find it) with a suitable..um..aid. Some girls seem to be "better equipped" to handle clit orgasms; some prefer vaginal. That's a coarse simplification, but expresses the idea fairly well.
4) Last but not least, if all else fails, continue using the water jet or a shower head to get off. Just don't have it too high.
It's normal; you're normal. It would be unlikely you've done any damage with a water jet, unless the pressure was very high.
Bit of a catch-22, though, isn't it? Get close to the edge then have to stop?
1) Lube. Your own is probably best.
2) Try only masturbating the area near the clit, closer to the root or the sides, avoiding the sensitive tip. Don't press too hard or rub too fast. Will take longer but end up feeling better, and without the discomfort.
3) Instead of focusing on the clit, try masturbating the entrance to the vagina (even up to the G spot if you can reach/find it) with a suitable..um..aid. Some girls seem to be "better equipped" to handle clit orgasms; some prefer vaginal. That's a coarse simplification, but expresses the idea fairly well.
4) Last but not least, if all else fails, continue using the water jet or a shower head to get off. Just don't have it too high.
I think you might have burst a vein, or nerve in the clit itself, continued masturbation may help you overcome the pain, since you say you orgasm a lot after the pain. one suggestion, is when you feel your orgasm coming on, try to pee, (if you are aroused, you can't,) but the muscles that work like the prostrate may help you push past the pain part. if you are what is commonly known as a "squirter", you will release fluid, and even think you have peed, but the fluid will be of a different texture, and smell. if the pain persists, or gets worse, check with your dr. about a urinary infection..and also watch for any odd discoloration (purplish red is normal for a clit, but red streaks, or the "bruised" look isn't)
Sometimes, during masturbation, my clitoris aches to the touch and my vagina is dry. What does this mean? I'm scared I might have wrecked my vagina.