Hello i am 21yrs old. i have been dating my girlfriend for over a year now and i find our sexual life more than satisfying. However there are some positions that hurt her and she will cry if i go in all the way. This is not a recent thing i just thought she would get used to it over time but i dont like to do it if it hurts her. I find this problem mostly when doing this position from behind. My penis is around 8 1/2". My question is that is it normal for a girl to expierience this pain when putting a penis in my size all the way. I would like to add shes 19 yrs old and 5'4". She also seems to orgasm quite fast during sex. Also we have tried anal a couple times with no success the last time i tore her and she bleed. This scared me and i was wondering what some thoughts are or suggestions?
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hey man ......keep it cool buddy what r u a ***********???? hehehe . Maybe theres some pills to reduce the size of your penis maybe they will help you ..
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You just have to know each other. Most guys want a bigger penis - but they don't know the issues that can cause. I am blessed (cursed) with a well above average penis as well...and I can say that you just have to know what works for her. I have never been to the point where someone would cry - but I do know certain positions can be very uncomfortable because you penetrate too deep. Communication is key. Talk about what feels good to her, what is not as good, and what actually causes pain - and figure out the best way for both of you to get pleasure. I had a girlfriend quite a while ago now that could only manage if she was on top because then she could control how deep she went...any other position she could not handle the size...
Good luck!
Good luck!
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You sound like you are expecting her to get used to you. I don't feel that's the way it works. I think it's our job to please her. So we have to adjust what we do to make sure we don't hurt her. That takes two people working together. With a penis that size, you mst surely are hitting her cervix and that is painful. You say she orgasms quickly. That's potentially wonderful if you use it right and work with her. She has the chance to be multi orgasmal while you're still working at it and you will have the pleasure and satisfaction of doing that for her. My thoughts about the anal: if you are hurting her --- don't. If you BOTH want to do it, try using something smaller than your penis to get her used to it and then work up.
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well i appreciate the posts. However, i think it was misunderstood i do not try to hurt her sometimes it just happens...She already does orgasm more than one time during sex and its just some times it can be hard to control how much i put in before it hurts her..just to make that clear i do not want that to be misunderstood. Also we do communicate and agree on anything we do.
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