I never had a problem during sex but I did get tired of it being so sensitive at other times like when I wanted to play with it or when I was lucky enough to find a girl who wanted to play with it. So I desensitized it. Here's how I did it.
My head was severely sensitive too and eventually I got tired of that and desensitized it. But doing that is uncomfortable at first because it IS sensitive so you have to want to do it. I can tell you that being able to caress and manipulate the bare head with my fingers during masturbation is very pleasurable and in my opinion it was well worth it. When I did that, pulling back my foreskin was no longer a problem, my foreskin had been stretched for quite some time and I could easily pull it all the way back so the inner skin was stretched completely down tthe shaft. Probably like you have seen in porn.
To desensitize it I pulled it all the way back and cleaned the whole thing with cotton soaked in rubbing alcohol. The alcohol feels cold at first, then it feels hot and tingles but it doesn't hurt or harm anything. Letting the alcohol dry so that everything was smooth and I could slide my fingers over it without sticking to it. You have to touch every bit of it and keep doing that to finally desensitize it. It's not really bad at all. You have control over what your fingers are doing so only do as much as you can stand. Soon it will not be as sensitive and you will want to do it more often because it gets you really turned on and you will masturbate while doing it. I began to masturbate by rubbing the bare head while it was dry and I have never gone back to sliding my foreskin up and down or using any kind of lube. Dry feels too good to want to give it up. Pulling the foreskin tightly back while doing it adds a lot to the pleasure. The inner side of the foreskin is loaded with stretch sensitive nerves that give you great pleasure as it is stretched.
So just have fun doing it. It's yours to enjoy.
i am 19. i have just got my first girlfriend, i am very concerned. we haven't made it into each other's pants yes, but i'm worried about the day we might.
i have tried just slightly touching the penis head, although very little is actually visible.. it really hurts a lot and a lot is on stake. i need to be strong and pull it back some day. si the main question is does it need to be pulled all back for me to get a blowjob or to have intercourse? its not pulled back at all. should i start doing it really gently? please help me . i am very concerned. what exatly should i start doing. i get very turned on when we go dancing, and if we dance a bit too close, i get a hard on and it starts stretching when we grind on the dance floor.
i have cummed in my pants once, and it was way too fast. will pulling it back help me in this too? how can i talk to her about this. i need answers please.
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Hello. I have a tight foreskin and I pull it back plenty but it's over-sensitive. I lost my virginity to my GF a few days ago and all I felt was un comfortableness. In fact I have to struggle to keep an erection. Are you sure if I keep having sex it will feel better?
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if you can help. I'm 15 with tight foreskin, it hurts when I bring track my skin but the head of my penis is what really hurts. I need help on what to do, like can I brink it back to the base of Me penis and still be able to bring it back up. Or will it get stuck? I don't want to tell my parents to bring me to the doctor because I can handle this by myself I tink. When I have an erection I can barely bring the skin back to the head of my penis. But when I'm flaccid it's not really a problem. Please help.