ok so i am 14 and suddenly very turned on all the time i have tried masterbating but idk if i am doing it right i cant use a vibrator or a dildo we dont have bananas or cucumbers (i live with only my mom and both of us dont like them to eat) i just got rid of my electric tooth brush like a couple of days b4 i found this site. so if u could give me any advice that would be AMAZING i am willing to try almost anything!!! and i have read some of the post on masterbation and people saying just go get a guy well to those people i cant cuase 1st off i dont have a bf and 2ndly im not just going to lose my v-card to just some random guy so i can finally get a break from my horemones! so masterbtion it is :D please please please help!!!
Hello! Being young, and having different hormones flood your body can always be a rough thing.
Somethings I have tried that worked well, and felt good were:
-Rounded shampoo/conditioner bottles in the shower
-hair brush handles
Remember to wash them thoroughly with soap and water to kill germs. Also these are /not/ for penetration, just for external use! for penetration, you should actually be using a real, sanitary, sex toy. You could always use your fingers, it works well. Make sure you wash your hands, and your relaxed before hand. Just take things slow.
If you have any questions/need help feel free to message me. c:
Somethings I have tried that worked well, and felt good were:
-Rounded shampoo/conditioner bottles in the shower
-hair brush handles
Remember to wash them thoroughly with soap and water to kill germs. Also these are /not/ for penetration, just for external use! for penetration, you should actually be using a real, sanitary, sex toy. You could always use your fingers, it works well. Make sure you wash your hands, and your relaxed before hand. Just take things slow.
If you have any questions/need help feel free to message me. c:
do u have a shower that can change to different speeds that helps trust reall gudddd . i kno wat ur going thorugh cuz im 13 and get turned on alot so try that or a boy u know or dated before like a ex-bf like i do he fingerpoppeds me sometimes wen i go to his house to play or chill wit his sister ;-)
I went through pretty much the same stage at my age, and it gets better with time. For a girl...i suggest maybe trying ice cubes on your clit (for extreme pleasure) or something else like a gluestick.
i recommend using your fingures and rubbing in circles over your clit.
im thirteen started at 9 but didn't realize what I was doing! Lay belly down on bed put cupped hands down with fingertips over ur vagina! Works every time, and I haven't even started my period, and it works.
I'm always turned on especially at night ...I lay face up
Relax and start fingering. Myself with three fingers in a slow circular motion...when I'm getting really hot I lay on my stomach with the corner of a heavy pillow in my p***y & as I say work it ..think of something that turns me on ..
Abd I get off fast....
Using the arm of a soft chair is great and fast ...
The key is to ride something with your legs spread wide . I've gotten off in the shower with thick stream of water directly going into my p***y.
You can always use your fingers because then you can massage inside and move your finger(s) around! Or Somtimes I use a sharpie because it is smooth and round ( also tiny ) i have heard you can use the handle of a hairbrush but I geuss it depends on what it is shaped like. When I use a hairbrush handle I usually just massage my clit with it. Also try watching some extreme porn.
Do you massage really hard when you do that?? CUZ I just did and all it did was make me wet