Hello @everyone,
I'm a 20 year old male. I've had a gf for about 3 years. Me and my gf don't see each other that regularly, since we live in different countries.
We meet up once or twice a year though, and during this time we indulge in sexual intercourse. If i had to put an estimate on the amount of times we had sexual intercourse, I'd have to say it's between 50-150 times (I know these numbers are drastically different but I don't count, although I'm quite certain it must be between these numbers).
This amount (50-150) seems to me to be a substantial amount. The problem I'm facing is that I've never came in all of that (by sexual intercourse), though my gf has came nearly every time. When we have sexual intercourse this is also not for 10 minutes, if I'd had to estimate the average: 2 hour.
This seems somewhat weird or uncommon (something i noticed when asking/poking around a bit with friends and family) and that's why I came to to ask here today what the potential underlying problem could be.
I've looked online for what the potential underlying problem is (a fair bit), one that I found that could be suitable for my case: Situational anejaculation.
Some of the questions I struggle with: Is there a way to treat this? Are there/could there be other underlying problems? Is this even normal?
Kind regards
RRG
ps. if more information is needed, I'm more than willing to provide it
Hey RRG. I’m sorry to hear of your issue.... I have a few questions that may help figure out what’s going on..... first off have you ever been able to ejaculate either by having sex with another person, or by masturbating or through a nocturnal emission (wet dream)? Also have you gone through puberty and developed normally as far as you know?
Thanks,
Bio
First of all, thanks for the response.
The answers to your questions:
As far as I know, I have developed normally. And I have been able to ejaculate through masturbation but never by having sex with another person. And I don't think I ever have had wet dreams, but then again, the only way I know how to tell if I have, is when you wake up that you have ejaculation all over you.
Kind regards
RRG