This literally happened to me today. My boyfriend was going down on me and I got pins and needles in my hands, arms and face. I couldn't control the way my mouth, eyes, and hands looked. It was really scary. I honestly thought I was going to be paralyzed. I guess I just found a guy that really knows what he's doing. But honestly, I kinda started to freak out in my head a little bit. I'm going to talk to him about it, but at this point I think it's normal.
hahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahha I feel u :p.I told my bf to stop doing whatever he was doing to me because I thought I am gonna fall because I didn't have any control on my body...
I'm an 18yrs f and I've had this experience during every sex with intercourse!
And yes, I'm an introvert. INTP, to be more specific.
Not quite sure if it is related!
I just think I expressed my feelings too much :/
And yes, I'm an introvert. INTP, to be more specific.
Not quite sure if it is related!
I just think I expressed my feelings too much :/
I'm so glad I'm not alone! I'm 25 and have never had an orgasm. I have a new partner who's is very good in bed, but this happened for the first time today. My whole body started tingling and then I tensed up completely, so much so that my legs and arms hurt. My hands locked shut and even my partner struggled to open them for me. It really freaked me out!
I'm guessing that i got close to my first orgasm but my body just didn't know what to do? I'm also an introvert which high anxiety so it explains a lot! Fingers crossed I can get through it!
I'm guessing that i got close to my first orgasm but my body just didn't know what to do? I'm also an introvert which high anxiety so it explains a lot! Fingers crossed I can get through it!
I too experience this exact thing and I believe it is hyperventilation! Sex is when I notice it most extreme in face and hand but have had tingling lips and face from running sometimes. It goes away when I breathe deep breathes at a slower pace.
So I came across this entire thread and I just have to say that it's such a relief to see I'm not alone in feeling this EVERY TIME I have sex. I don't feel my face twitch but my entire arm and hand cramps up and I can't open my fist up for several minutes. To answer the couple of posts addressing emotional suppression- yes! I suppress my feelings. And yes, I'm very introverted. I think I'm unconsciously not allowing myself to orgasm (I've never orgasmed) and it's so so strange. I also have anxiety (not about sex but in general-possible trust issues as well), so yeah, there's that. Not sure if this helps anyone but thank you to everyone for sharing and normalizing these experiences!!
Hello! I know you last posted about this crazy, strange, INTENSE, and scary sensation over a year ago, but I'm curious if you ever found any answers?!? Please let me know!!
I've been trying to figure out this issue for awhile. I'm a 29yr old male and while masturbation my hand locked up and i had a prickly feeling in face and hand's and I had no control over my body for a few moments,I thought seizure or small stroke the first time. I'm hoping someone has some insight to this
No definitive answers. My theory though, based on answers in this thread and others, is that it's some kind of deep emotional thing. Most of the people who experience this have said that they either have never orgasmed or very rarely have and that they are introverted and/or have a fear of intimacy. On the other hand, some people have reported experiencing this during masturbation, so who knows. The only other thing I have come across that it might be is a magnesium deficiency. Lol. Anyone else have updates? I'm single now and haven't been gettin' any so I have nothing but speculation to offer :p
I just researched this because I've had the same thing several times with my boyfriend! I'm 17 and the first time it happened was when I lost my virginity to him. My hands got really tingly and cramped my fingers up, same with my upper lip, so I just bite my lip and clenched my fists and pretended like nothing was wrong, I didn't say anything till afterwards. Then it dawned on me, (I run track) and the same thing happens before I do a race in track at a meet, if I'm really nervous it will happen, not in my face but typically in my hands. Then I researched if it was related to anxiety/nerves, and from what I found, turns out it can be related to nerves and being anxious! Hope this helps some of you guys understand what's going on!
You guys probably have Trigeminal Neuralgia & it is triggered by orgasms. I have it daily & its awful but exercise or emotional events can trigger a flare. Read more about it & if it sounds right speak to a neurologist to see if you have it meds may help
You guys probably have Trigeminal Neuralgia & it is triggered by orgasms. I have it daily & its awful but exercise or emotional events can trigger a flare. Read more about it & if it sounds right speak to a neurologist to see if you have it meds may help
You guys probably have Trigeminal Neuralgia & it is triggered by orgasms. I have it daily & its awful but exercise or emotional events can trigger a flare. Read more about it & if it sounds right speak to a neurologist to see if you have it meds may help