what happens when u get a abortion ?

This is realism and reality speaking.

The sad reality is you got pregnant either by choice or by mistake or an unfortunate incident. There is no God, and if you are so concerned about another living thing, then you should have been smarter to not have it in the first place (unless it is an unfortunate incident...e.g. rape etc).

The facts are these: the fetus has no emotion, it feels no pain, it cannot realize it exists and it does not really exist. You see it, does not necessarily mean it exists. You think, therefore you are. Dead fetus's do not fly up to heaven to your Gods or demi-gods or multiple gods. They simply do not exist as always.

You need to stop blaming yourself and stop feeling depressed, things happen. It is natural to be depressed and sad afterwards but you will get over it.

hey

i'm very secred. cos have an abortion on saterday
and it was very painfull they didn't put me to sleep
or give me anti pain. but after the procedure it hurt
for sometime and stoped there was no bleeding but
now i have cramping like similar to menstrual cramps
and today(in the morning) i saw blood please someone
explian to me whats going on i asked the doctor
he said its normal.

is it?

mimi
thanks

listen your a total hipacrit yours saying your against abortion but your ok with using the morning after pill everytime you decide you want to have sex. i feel extremly bad for you and if i were raped i wouldnt be able to have the child even to give it up for adoption and i hope everything works out for you, i would really like to know ehat you choose. but please if you dont want kids stop having sex if your just gonna keep using the morning after pill.

im totaly agenst abortion but i was on the 19th and i feel so weird and im so scared cause idk it was my ex he asked me to meet him and i did and i told him no to get off and he would not i have not told ne one about this and i know if i tell my guy idk if he will leave me or hate me 4 it and idk my ex raped me and i just went home and didnt say nething and the next dy i ran to my guy and stayed wit him and ya we had sex and i cryed after and just told him i loved him but if i am what if it would be his and not my ex'es what do i do help me please i love my guy and if i new it was his id keep it in a heart beet and be the happyest girl in the world but i dont believe in abortion but yet i dont want my es'es child at all help
love ESSK

when can u have sex again after having a abortion

for ya'll who think that is best to have a abourtion when you are raped you are very wrong i wqas raped and i still have my kid he is 20 about to be 21 and he is the best thing that i could have had. and i have another son and 2 daughters you have no idea how great kids are they chear you up when you are down and they are just the greatest thing ever :-D

I am 19 years old and I believe I am pregnant I did not have my period all last month, and when taken a pregnancy test it came out negative. It is now August and still there is no sign of my period. If i am pregnant I will go on with an abortion and I have looked into a couple clinics, but I am afraid of what will happen afterwards.

-Kansas

In regards to Ashley.

It's really hard to fall pregnant after being a victim of r/ape, unless you were intoxicated or were on drugs because your struggling because your heaps tight. Just do what's best, I don't believe your a hypocrit by using the morning after pill, it doesn't actually terminate the baby like an abortion does, it just terminates the sperm. Sex is never really planned out, neither is pregnancy, but maybe your pregnant for a reason, & this baby was given to you for a purpose. :/

But I'm not biased, take all opinions in. But, really in the end, it is your desision, & your the one who has to live with it for the rest of your life.

For me, I'm 16, I have a brother with a disability, so I know the life a child can have, people say that it isn't a quality of life, but really it is, he just makes you smile, it is hard I will admit. I also have an aunty who had an abortion, & I was talking to her today about my assignment about abortion, & i could see the tears welling up in her eyes, she doesn't think i know about it, but I can see that now she is pregnant, all the reminders come back., I also have an older cousin who is 18 she has a baby girl, she still lives at home & goes to uni, everyone hassled her & it went around highschool, & everywhere she went she got looks, her boyfriend is still with her & she is doing great, she works in a pre-school, & when her baby is old enough she will go back to uni to study to be a paramedic, it's not the end of the world. But I also know how hard it would be after experiencing r/ape it would be to keep the child, I know alot of people who have experienced it, my mum was a victim, so was my mum's mum, my ex bestfriend. & more. :/
Keep your family close because they are the ones that no matter what are always there for you.

I have considered all options, & I would give my child up for adoption because I know I wouldn't be able to take care of him/her, it's going to a family that can't have kids & i know that they would receive the best life possible, but I would always stay in contact. You should probally also check into the medical problems & stuff. & yes this is apart of my religion assignment, I don't normally go searching these things on the web, lol. :-)

I shall have to leave, but I'm leaving you with, whatever you chose to do, make sure you want that decision.
<3 mel.

***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** you are so selfish! only thinking about youself? no you are you are not thinking of the babies! why even have sex in the first place?! if your just gonna KKILLL the baby! use CONDOMS thats what they are for! you selfish person!!!!!!!!! :x

Carifairy, you've had three abortions?? Why didn't you take the proper precautions to avoid having a baby after the first one? Do you enjoy killing the small fetus? Or maybe you were just too lazy to take your birth control. If your so sure you dont want to have a baby, why not get Mirena. It lasts up to five years...Most women do not find out they are pregnant until they are 8 weeks, and most have an abortion at 12.. So they dont just "suck" out the baby with a tube. By then they have to dismember each appendage and crush the skull and spinal cord... If you women were not ready to embark on the journey of motherhood, why take the chance of not being on any kind of birht control? Abortion is NOT a contraceptive.

That is a living being u are a murderer >;) ! ! ! if u dont want to have a baby dont have sex or have protected sex !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >;) >;) >;) >;) >;)

i'm 29 years old i had my first child at 24 i am now pregnant with my 4th and i am very scared all the other ones were planned i have been very responsible with birth control im just one of those unfortunate one that it did not not work for this time so now my husband is getting fixed. i'm for abortion for certain situation rape, incest etc. but not as a birth control method that is sick and if u get it done it has to be before 12wks, i have a long future ahead of me finishing college and starting to great jobbs the reason why i'm hesitant on going thru with this is before i found out i was pregnant i had just recieved my mmr vaccines they say they r very dangerous to the fetus now when i go to the doctors tomorro and tell me there is a strong chance this baby is going to have some serious health problems them as long as its before 12wks this pregnancy will be terminated but if ther is hope i will keep it children r a beautiful joy and one of the greatest gifts that good people aree blessed with because not everyone is parent material and some people who use abortion as a birth control method should just get fixed. o.O

***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**if ur can have sex get a penis stukk up in ya n b so responsible to create this child b a woman and carry it then give it to sum1 who kant have kidz kum on na selfish ppl !! n to those who keep sayin o i had 1 and 2 and 3 grow up ur killing a kid ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**

okayy, so im doing a project on this situatuion and im not for abortion and never will be but the 14 year old girl who had the abortion pill just sickend me, maybe u should have sex and then u wouldnt get pregantn, youy have to relize that u coould be killing our cure for canser, ABORTION IS BAD!!!! get reall and put themup for adoption!!

Ok. So I am 17 and I am pro-life. Always have been and always will be. Life begins at conception. At the sixth week the heart is already starting to beat and the organs are developing. This is before girls get their abortions. Your lost child is alive. It feels. It silently screams to get away from the torturing devices used to take its life. We put people in jail that kill people that are walking our streets, but if it's someone that's hidden and isn't out in the world someone we want, we'll kill it. Oh I'm sorry. Does anyone remember the song "Jesus loves the little children. All the children of the world. Red and yellow black and white. They are precious in His sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world."? He loves children. That includes babies.