i personaly dont think that haveing an abortion myself i realy dont think its a good idea. its not the babys fault that you got pregnant but your cause you decided not to use protection but then if you realy love the person your with and the condon breakes then you should keep the baby because it what came out of the love that you have for each other its a little you and a little him. the baby has both of your blood inside you and you should be happy for the baby and be happy that you would do anything in your hands to get that baby a better life then the life that you have. then theres if you dont want the baby, then if you dont want it consider giveing the baby to adoption where they can be adopted be a couple that will love them and care for them. but dont think about abortion. and when it comes to being raped then thats another thing. but i personaly do want to have a baby i want someone to love i want them to feel the love that i never got. i realy want a baby thats what i truely wish for right now especialy because im with the guy that i love alot and i know that he loves me too. i want us both to be happy because i want a baby and he wants a baby two so i want both of us to be happy:)
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why would you have an abortion and 3 you should be ashamed of yourself i am against abortions put yourself in that poor babys positon would you want someone to have killed you when you was a baby
THINK ABOUT IT NOW!!!!!!!!!
I am a chritian and God wouldn't want you to kill a baby just becuase you didn't want it.
By Ricki Brown
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"rape is a horrible thing to happen to anyone and i agree, but you should also learn self defense instead of dreading the event all the time." I know this has probably been worded wrong or something, but it is far too close to victim blaming. She doesn't need to learn self defence, parents don't need to tell their daughters they need to be scared, and watch out for rapists, parents need to tell their sons not to rape. She needs to be strong, and recognise she didn't deserve this, and no one deserves this, and that the world needs to change, not her.
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Three abortions? Maybe you should be safer and use a diaphram, condom, and birth control.
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Who would get an abortion at 14 weeks, now I'm not pointing finger I my self have had a few. The thought of being so far along and wanting an abortion, he's/her heart is beating give up for adoption if anything. Bless you
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im a mum of 5. one is a teenager, the others. have a different dad and they are 1,3,4 and 5. their dad was a very violent man and when i fell pregnant with my youngest i cried my heart out. i live all my kids to pieces but the thought of yet another year of sleepless nights with the others to look after filled me with dread. but also so did the thought of abortion. i went as far as the scan and paperwork then i bottled it. it meant i had to stay with my ex for the duration of pregnancy for the extra pair if hands. its hard on my own with 5 kids but im sure i did the right thing. anyway an experience similar to ashleys has left me pregnant. im 3 days late this happened 2 weeks ago. i have the same feelings if dread. i ciuld keep the baby lets face it a monster fathered my other kids. but would it be the right thing to do? my other kids, the ones living and breathing and who need their mummy? Im 36 years old with no family nearby i honestly think in my heart that it would be just too much to have another baby especially under these circumstances. im goung to doctor this week ad i want the pill and quick. i dont want a medical experience. will i be upset after? im goibg to be devastated!!! this could be my last ever chance. dont be too harsh on people. it really isnt an easy choice fir MOST women
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I believe you should do what's best for you but I had one and now I regret it so bad it consumes me I wouldn't suggest getting one
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I'm planning on getting an abortion this Saturday. The doctor on the phone told me it wouldn't hurt & right after i can go back to usual activities. I think people try to make abortions sound worse then they really are. But i won't know for sure until I get it myself.
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Yeah the doctor lied that doesn't Always happen I bled for 9 weeks after and almost had to have another surgery. The cramping is terrible too and I have an extremely high pain tollerance the doctor didn't get all the tissue out of me. Also most people experience major depression after and regret. Good luck hope it turns out how you think it will
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dont abort it . put it up for adoption id you cant raise it but dont kill it it will be the worst mistake of your life youll look at other babies and wonder what you couldve had. an its not the babies fault you were raped so you shouldnt kill it because someone else did a horrible thing you should either love the baby and take care if it ir put it up for adoption so someone that cant have babies can love it and take care of it
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you should have just carried and gace the baby up for adoption because people who abort give criminals the free ride ticket out too many women take a shower or wash away the evidence and that baby is whats will hold the rapist responsible when you abort it it goes to the trash and the rapist won and you lost.
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Im wanting to know the same thing. I had my period around the end of December 2012. I have been on birth control for a lil over a year after I had my first child. I ran out of pills, and had to make an appointment to get a refil. I had unprotected sex on Monday (1/7/13) I would say I have been off maybe a week from my birth control pills leading up to that date. Now Im freaking... I been having this gooey like discharge everytime I use the bathroom... and Im praying like hell that I start my period soon. Iam not emotionally or mentally ready for another baby. Especially not the relationship Im in right now. Its on the rocks. And I have never been for abortion, until you go through something like this or rape or something like that.... Some say it sounds like Im ovulating. So my question is... could I be pregnant, or no?
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