what happens when u get a abortion ?

Guest over a year ago

I just had an abortion today. The proceedure is very painful. I am 21 and I got one because I am unable to care for a child and i knew I couldnt give it up for adoption. They did not give me any pain killers, laughing gas or put me to sleep. i was wide awake. If you can get over the pain it is a good choice and u can start fresh.

Even though it takes 5 min you will be at the clinic for 3 hours. Wear compfy clothes, easy to get on since they help u with that.

There will also be pickiters. Many of them dont know a situation. one of the woman had to get an abortion cause if she carried full term her and her baby would die. They called her a baby killer and stalled her for 15 minutes causing her to be late. They would like u to be around 8 weeks or more so they can see better to make sure its all out.

good luck!

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Guest over a year ago

hi im 18 years old i just had abortion this whole week n i been bed resting myself for 2 or 3 days all i hav to say that it was a scary experience ever. i went to a nearest clinic in my area and had my thing done mines took almost 10 mints it supposed to be quick but the doctor lag it. i was alone at that time. i dnt recommande it but if u hav to in my case of sitiution then do it. i manage got to see it n let just say i was sad after. now i been in bed rest. no medication but i feel good just inch pain inside.

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ma5rtin over a year ago

did you mom or dad find out.

and was it free or no?

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PROLIFE_ABORTION IS MURDER over a year ago

WOW I just stumbled on this web site and never knew that so many people would talk about murdering their own flesh and blood you know there is a thing called ADOPTION!!! ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** inappropriate posting*** Please read our Terms of Use

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mar5tin over a year ago

idk how ill feel. maybe i wont feel nothing. cuz im not even a baby. sometimes we have to do wat is best for us. or not really killing a baby.. if u think about it..

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shezzz201973 over a year ago

IcebreaKER ,

I WANT TO KNOW WATHER WHEN YOU DO ANAL DO U GET PREGNANT I DID IT BEFORE A WEEK AGO SO NW I CAN FEEL MY TUMMY LIKE GETTING BIGGER,SO AFTER THAT IM NOT SURE WATHER IM PREGANNT OR NOT NW ITS BEEN 1 WEEK AND 2 DAYS I WNT TO KNOW WHAT SHALL I DO PLEASE REPLY ME

THANK YOU!

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Guest over a year ago

I would recommend that anyone considering abortion look at all your options and also consider not just the now, but also your future. I was forced to have an abortion when I was 16, almost 6 years ago, by my parents. I have never gotten over it and my ex still has nightmares about it too. I was put under anesthesia for the abortion with 2 shots. I only remember getting the first because it knocked me out so quickly. My boyfriend at the time said I was screaming when he left the room. I woke up in the recovery room very drowsy and they treated me as if I'd just given blood. Here's your juice and cookies type of thing. I could barely hold my cup. I was in agonizing pain for almost 2 weeks. Since then the guilt had eaten me alive. I started purging and got down to 90 lbs. My skin turned grey and my hair started to fall out. That was only the beginning of my guilt issues. I have a horrible relationship with my parents. I tried to take my own life survived. I still cry about it. Since then I've had serious problems conceiving. I found out that the abortionist perforated my uterus. I've had more miscarriages than I can count. I had a daughter by the grace of God almost 2 years ago. It was then that I really realized what I had done. I ended the life of a person that I'll never know. He could have been a doctor or a pastor or somebody's daddy. My latest masscarriage was 3 months ago. It is very painful and very emotionally trying. If you have had an abortion, I'm not trying to convict you of put any kind of guilt on you, but this is my story. Please just allow yourself every option. It's your life. You are only allowed one. Make it good. Don't put ghosts in your own closet.

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taylor29203594 over a year ago

that was proper emotional and i totally understand as i have been there myself when i was just 14 years of age. hope ur ok xx

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piglet over a year ago

i am getting a abortion and i have alot of questions how do they do it? would they put me to sleep? i am nervous to tell my doctor iwant one and i go friday

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southchick over a year ago

hi piglet it would all depend how far along u r and i know how u feel cos i have had 2 myself in the past. x

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piglet over a year ago

well i went to the hospital the 13th and they think im about 8 weeks idk how they do it of how much it cost i already have a lil boy and i cant afford another one right now

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southchick over a year ago

if ur having it done on the NHS it wont cost anything in the uk but if u go private its very expensive. the procedure dont take long and after u bleed quite heavy and may experience some cramping. however the experience is a very emotional one and can be hard to deal with. hope it all goes well for u xx

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Guest over a year ago

how far along can you be to get an abortion done?

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Guest over a year ago

i was raped last year. i gave birth because i think everyone deserves a chance.

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Liz.cha123210545 over a year ago

Hi

I recently had an abortion(less than a month ago). There is still some bleeding and some liquid discharge from my breasts(minuscule amount). Is this normal?
I had one of those 'Do it at home abortions'. Please advice

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