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I'm 13 haven't hit puberty and masterbate 1-3 times a week. I don't cum when I masterbate. Is that normal? And also lately I'm not feeling the sensation as much. Is that weird? Thank you

Hi Guest

Not being able to ejaculate at 13 is very common and there are guys older than you that can’t either.

Also if you have no sign of puberty at all as in a little bit of pubic hair starting that is also very common everyone grows and develops at different rates and times and as soon as your body is ready puberty will start for you.

Masturbating  1-3 times a week is normal and the not feeling the sensation the same each time is nothing to worry about the length of time and your level of excitement can influence the intensity of your orgasms.

There is nothing to be concerned about all of what you are experiencing is normal and soon enough all the changes you are hoping for will start to happen.

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Hi, when you say you don't cum do you mean you never have yet or you did but don't any longer? Do you mean no feeling in your penis when you masturbate or feeling your about to cum?
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Hi. I'm an 18 year old male and didn't start to ejaculate properly until I was nearly seventeen due to hormonal problemS. I'd say it's fine until your 15 and if not by then go see a doctor. I personally think that not having to ejaculate and having the benefit of an orgasm was brilliant with nothing to clear up after it. Also guys constantly say I'm 15 inches erect to try and think that they are really cool etc. im a guy and im about 6.5 inches erect which Is better than average. So don't worry. If your trying to change things up try and use a few of the below methods.

wanking with the opposite hand, wanking with the back of your hand facing upwards. I would also highly suggest the stop and go method which is where you want up to just before you orgasm then stop wait 30 seconds then start doing it again and repeat for as long as you can. This could also make you ejaculate sooner, maybe even  first time with this method.

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18andhard has good advice about the ways to change up how you masturbate. When I was in puberty, the purpose of me masturbating was to relieve them massive amounts of sex hormones coursing through my body. Well I got a bit older like 15, it changed to become more about how to give myself the most pleasure. So I think what you’re going through is very normal. And a lot of guys at some point stop being sexually satisfied during masturbation. And I think all of us end up spending a lot of effort making masturbation feel more intense. You might also try using one hand the focus solely on your penis head well your other hand has more regular up and down stroking
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