PLEASE do not kill your baby!!!
and ignore all those pro-choice people...
imagine how you would feel after the abortion...you would have so much guilt and regret!!!
and ignore all those pro-choice people...
imagine how you would feel after the abortion...you would have so much guilt and regret!!!
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sweety, dont have an abortion, You are a grown person. Why not just give it up for adoption. People don't tend to see things in the same light as me but when you talk to as many people as i have about after they have the abortion. It broke them. They cried for hours about how they were so stupid. There was even a girl that was raped and she decided not to keep the baby but have an abortion... she felt like a murderer. The baby didn't do anything to these people... not you, your boyfriend, your parents or your church going people. I went to a christian school... hell i swear but thats not the point. Some girls up there were either pregnant or had an abortion... i was the lucky one at the time. But all of the girls regreted it. So please, Atleast think about adoption. And what will your parents say? They disown you? Well I say thats BS and atleast you will be proud to say that you brought something great into this world and that even if you couldn't keep that little baby, you stopped to think about a life you had in your very body, and you think... "Damn, I'm a great person for not listening to what everyoe else said, and that i was responsible enough to give the baby up for adoption instead of killing it.
Think about it, im not saying that you cant. Your life honey, but just... think about it please
Think about it, im not saying that you cant. Your life honey, but just... think about it please
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YOUR COMMENT WAS VERY IGNORANT, THE FETUS DOES DEVELOP FEATURES AS YOUNG AS SOME WEEKS SWEETHEART, WHEN U HAVE AN ABORTION YOU CAN EASILY & VISIBILY NOTICE THE FINGERS, AND IT IS A BABY AS SOON AS YOU CONCEIVE, IM PRO-CHOICE ON ABORTION I JUST HAD TO CLARIFY FOR WHOEVER WROTE THIS COMMENT.
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girl have that baby. you going to wsh you did. that baby can be the one makin million for you in life time. believe me i know!
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First things first, in response to an earlier comments about side effects of "the pill"
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Please PEOPLE do not make this thread into a battle between morals and ethics of Abortion, its a thread about giving advice to randolph
randolph wrote:
Agreed.
randolph wrote:
how much, will that last through a baby and both your parents knowing?
randolph wrote:
not good, hiding relationships from parents is not a good thing, it would not be good if you told them, then tried to explain hes a different religion AND that your pregnant with HIS child, IMO they would ban you from seeing him
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randolph wrote:
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I AM NOT TAKING SIDES IN THE ETHICAL DEBATE WHICH HAS ARRIVED ON THIS THREAD I AM JUST GIVING ADVICE ON THIS CURRENT SITUATION
In my opinion, I have to agree with you. You cannot have this baby, it would DESTROY your relationship with your parents and possibly even your boyfriend. But you are 19, so your parents cannot force you to have an abortion or give away the child.
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Here is a list of the most common side effects of birth control pills, courtesy of the Feminist Women's Health Center:
* Bleeding or spotting between menstrual cycles.
* Nausea.
* Tender breasts.
* Gaining weight or retaining water.
* Darkened spots on the skin.
* Moodiness.
Please PEOPLE do not make this thread into a battle between morals and ethics of Abortion, its a thread about giving advice to randolph
randolph wrote:
We are both too young
Agreed.
randolph wrote:
we love each other
how much, will that last through a baby and both your parents knowing?
randolph wrote:
our relationship is a secret
not good, hiding relationships from parents is not a good thing, it would not be good if you told them, then tried to explain hes a different religion AND that your pregnant with HIS child, IMO they would ban you from seeing him
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randolph wrote:
I cannot have this baby!!!
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I AM NOT TAKING SIDES IN THE ETHICAL DEBATE WHICH HAS ARRIVED ON THIS THREAD I AM JUST GIVING ADVICE ON THIS CURRENT SITUATION
In my opinion, I have to agree with you. You cannot have this baby, it would DESTROY your relationship with your parents and possibly even your boyfriend. But you are 19, so your parents cannot force you to have an abortion or give away the child.
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Now i am not the experienced kind of person who is full of wisdom, but in my opinion, i think that you should not go for abortion. This is killing your own child! What if you dont get abortion and raise the baby, then s/he becomes very treasured to you. Next you would think about what would happen if you did do abortion. I myself, and my family are very religious too. Your parents will understand. Its not like you can just kill the baby just because of your family or because of your ages. Some of my family members have also gone through young relationships and having children being too young. Ill just tell you that it worked out perfectly and they are living happily in vegas right now. =] But this is from my point of view, you can chose whateever your heart says. -whisper- listen to your heart!
Good luck,
♥VietBabiii♥
Good luck,
♥VietBabiii♥
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i had an abortion a week ago, and i regret the decision everyday, and scared i feel what goes around comes around. :(
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I had an abortion a year ago and still to this day even saying it just brings tears to my eyes. it was the worst mistake of my life and given the time again i would not go through with it. i told my mum from the start and she said she would support me whatever my choice, i knew she would but it wouldnt be through her own choice just because it was the right thing to do. my boyfriend and i had been together 6 years we had a steady relationship but he didnt want our baby. everyone thinks having an abortion is wrong and a selfish thing to do but personally i thinks its the most unselfish thing i have ever done. I knew that if i carried on and had the baby with no money, no home that it would have no desent life, i would manage but on someone else hard work. im not saying that thats a good enoough reason not to have a baby becuase its not, not at all. not only by having the baby would i be jepodising my future but my parents and my partners. i thought at the time that it ws the right thing to do, and maybe for you it is but for me it wasn't. my relationship with my boyfriend broke down to the point we dont even talk anymore, i cant talk to anyone about how i feel because i feel so ashamed about wot i done to my baby. i cant cope with any of the emotions i am feeling inside. I have a picture in my head of what my baby would look like and it never goes away. for some people its just an easy way out and i guess i thought it would be for me, but really it's not. noone can give you the answer you are looking for becuase no matter how many poeple say do it theres always the same amount who say don't. you really need to think it through properly though becuase you may regret doing it, and i wouldnt wish how i feel apon anyone
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Are you kidding me?? I know one thing. I was 19 when I got preg. I am now 21 w/ a beautiful baby boy. I am married working at a hosp. and also going back to school. Is it easy? No it never will be!! I think ppl who get an abortion (other than med. reasons rape, or incest) is afraid of hard work and will never take responsiblity. This isn't just for the young lady here but everyone. That fetus-unborn child-son or daughter never asked to be here. I am however not saying that you don't have the right to chose b.c you do. But you are wanting to do it AGAIN b.c you don't want to give up your comfortable life?? How selfish are you??
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No matter wot religion you are DO NOT GET AN ABORTION!!!!!
i got an abortion at 14 and it is the worst thing i have ever done in my life!!!
i loved the baby's dad too and im still with him but i decided to have the abortion bcoz i was too young. i was 14 you are 19!!! a big difference. 19 is NOT too young. my friends had babys at 15 and 16 and have turned out to be brilliant parents.
once i had my abortion my friends started having children which made things worse and all i can think of was i could have had a gorgeous baby and look what ive done!!!
i was so mortified with myself i fell into deep depression and still do now and then even though im 17 and its been 3 yrs.
Trust me your parents WILL understand. Because there so strict they might be angry at first but its something they will have to and learn to deal with.
I know i can have children one day but ill never forget i got rid of my first child and i will never forgive myself so please do not go through with it.
I think arbortions should be banned!!!!!
hope you take my advice godluck hunni xxx :D
i got an abortion at 14 and it is the worst thing i have ever done in my life!!!
i loved the baby's dad too and im still with him but i decided to have the abortion bcoz i was too young. i was 14 you are 19!!! a big difference. 19 is NOT too young. my friends had babys at 15 and 16 and have turned out to be brilliant parents.
once i had my abortion my friends started having children which made things worse and all i can think of was i could have had a gorgeous baby and look what ive done!!!
i was so mortified with myself i fell into deep depression and still do now and then even though im 17 and its been 3 yrs.
Trust me your parents WILL understand. Because there so strict they might be angry at first but its something they will have to and learn to deal with.
I know i can have children one day but ill never forget i got rid of my first child and i will never forgive myself so please do not go through with it.
I think arbortions should be banned!!!!!
hope you take my advice godluck hunni xxx :D
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It doesnt matter wot religion u r DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION!!!!!
I had an abortion at 14 and its the worst thing i have done in my life!!!! :cry:
I loved the baby's dad too and im still with him today. I decided to go for the abortion bcoz i was only 14 at the time but ur 19 theres a big difference!!!
After i had the abortion my friends started having kids and this put a total downer on me and i fell into a deep depression i was even close too suicide. i just kept imagine how i could have had a beautiful child with the person i love and i threw it all away.
I know your parents are strict so were mine but trust me they will understand. They are strict and may be angry and first but they will and will have to deal with it. I thought my mum would kill me but she was so impathetic :) remember your mother was pregnant with you at one point!
I know i can have children one day but ill never forget that i got rid of my first child but theres nothing i can do now. dont let yourself end up like me.
your 19 not 9. so just keep what ive told you in mind!!!
I hope my advice has helped you hunni. email me bak and let me no what you decide :) xxx
your 19 not 9. so just keep what ive told you in mind!!!
I had an abortion at 14 and its the worst thing i have done in my life!!!! :cry:
I loved the baby's dad too and im still with him today. I decided to go for the abortion bcoz i was only 14 at the time but ur 19 theres a big difference!!!
After i had the abortion my friends started having kids and this put a total downer on me and i fell into a deep depression i was even close too suicide. i just kept imagine how i could have had a beautiful child with the person i love and i threw it all away.
I know your parents are strict so were mine but trust me they will understand. They are strict and may be angry and first but they will and will have to deal with it. I thought my mum would kill me but she was so impathetic :) remember your mother was pregnant with you at one point!
I know i can have children one day but ill never forget that i got rid of my first child but theres nothing i can do now. dont let yourself end up like me.
your 19 not 9. so just keep what ive told you in mind!!!
I hope my advice has helped you hunni. email me bak and let me no what you decide :) xxx
your 19 not 9. so just keep what ive told you in mind!!!
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guest stop being so cocky!
infact most of us are probably on the pill now as u get it from the nurse after u have an abortion!!
the way ur talking to us isnt useful at all.
no need!!
infact most of us are probably on the pill now as u get it from the nurse after u have an abortion!!
the way ur talking to us isnt useful at all.
no need!!
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well if its too hard for you to tell your parents about the baby and your relationship with this guy, maybe you should get rid of the baby!!!!
ull be doing the wrong thing though i promise you tht!!!!
oh and having an abortion is so uncomfortable and agonising too!!!
your decison hunni xxx
ull be doing the wrong thing though i promise you tht!!!!
oh and having an abortion is so uncomfortable and agonising too!!!
your decison hunni xxx
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The baby inside you is a baby or you would not be pregnant. The church is not looking for new members as someone stated. You are killing a baby when you get an abortion. I guarantee your parents will support you. I am sure they would not want their grandchild killed because you thought they would not approve. YOu can always give the baby up. Don't do anything you will regret. You said sorry baby! YOu don't want to do this. Get an ultrasound. You will see the heart beating and hear it. YOu will know. God bless you!!!
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I think that adoption is your best option. There are many couples that are not able to have children but would raise and nurture the child as their own. Adoption is the best intrest for your child. Try to think if you were the child. It is a living being and deserves life. I hope you make the right desision and God bless you and your child. ;-)
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