Hello! This post is for every man who thinks their penis is too small or otherwise "flawed".
I am a woman in my early thirties, but I've had problems with painful sex a lot. I am quite a sexual person but have been forced to be celibate for many years now because of this, and the fact that there is no harmless/pain-free contraception method invented that I could use.
I want you to know and research the internet for female condition called vaginismus or vulvodynia. Many of these women have abandoned the idea of sex, relationship, or starting a family, because they cannot have painless intercourse. Smaller penis could be perfect for women like that. There is an estimate that 17% of women experience these issues at some point in their life. Some can be helped, but some are left with it for all their life, and mostly young women in 20s and 30s get it. There are also other issues that can cause painful intercourse. It is very common and women are shy to talk about it. If it's bad, they probably aren't actively looking for a relationship, because they've also lost hope of finding that guy they need, that guy with a small penis.
But if you search for these women, it is very possible you find a perfect match and can make someone else very happy too. Instead of forcing our bodies to work differently, maybe people who fit together naturally just need to find each other.
Overall, it's the girth that matters for the female the most, because the deeper parts of vagina have very little sensory capability. It's the first few inches where we feel things. Most women don't orgasm due to intercourse, but they of course need to feel comfortable with it to have a relationship with a man, if that's what the man wants (the in and out motion). For women who have trouble with painful intercourse, they usually prefer short lasting thrust. Long-lasting intercourse may cause a very painful (and possibly life-threatening, if not treated with antibiotics) and long-lasting urinary tract infection in addition to the manual irritation of their vagina. So ejaculating fast is not a bad thing at all necessarily.
Do not believe all women want the same things or what is represented in the media or some studies or books. Talk to women honestly about yourself. Do not think of sex as foreplay + intercourse + oral sex, or any other fixed set of acts it "should" be, but just any combination of affectionate acts that are pain-free and enjoyable for both you and your partner.
Being different from the majority in your physique is a chance for you to connect with someone deeply and discover sexuality in creative ways. It may take longer to find it, and be difficult, but on the other hand, the more rare an activity is (sex or other activity), the better and more meaningful it will feel when it happens.
Be proud, brave, and think out of the box, and never stop looking for what fits you just as you are.
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